Ms. Zhao has a successful career and runs a restaurant. His son, Xiao Li, is also an entrepreneur who opened a barbecue restaurant. For her son, she is not used to it.
Because the other party often goes to the bar to drink, and this drink has drunk a million huge debts. Use loans to meet her own needs, use tomorrow's money to consume ahead, such a way of consumption, so that Ms. Zhao can not sleep and eat.
But despite this, in the end, she took on the debt that her son owed, because she felt that she owed him too much.
Xiao Li was punished last year, and later the other party told Ms. Zhao that Xiao Li took the real estate certificate to mortgage the loan.
Ms. Zhao asked her son to know that he had indeed mortgaged 660,000 yuan. In order to prevent her from knowing, the other party also made a fake real estate deed and put it at home.
Ms. Zhao felt very angry, but Xiao Li felt that most people would not tell their parents about this kind of thing, because they were afraid that they would be sad and sad when they knew.
And this 660,000, Ms. Zhao only knows that part of her son is used in her own media company.
In this regard, Xiao Li calmly responded that the 660,000, in addition to being used for the daily operation of the company, is used for eating, drinking and having fun.
At the same time, he said that he actually owed a huge debt of 1.5 million yuan, because more than 800,000 of them were earned by himself. The main reason why you owe so much money is that you have no concept of money.
Because he owed so much money at once, Xiao Li couldn't come up with money to pay it back for a while, and he was very worried when he saw that it was almost time to repay the money.
Ms. Zhao couldn't see it and took the initiative to pay back 660,000 for her son.
And the reason she did this was because she was afraid that the mortgaged house would be taken back.
After paying back the money, Ms. Zhao transferred the house that was originally in her son's name back to her own name.
After this incident, Xiao Li also realized his mistake and made some changes.
From the media company to the barbecue restaurant, the number of visits to the bar has decreased.
Seeing that her son had changed, Ms. Zhao bought him another house and prepared to make a marriage house in the future, but she did not expect that the real estate certificate was missing at this time.
It is conceivable that this time it was the son who took it to make a mortgage, and this time he borrowed 360,000 yuan.
The reason is that he wants to buy a BMW car, but his mother has not bought it, Xiao Li wants to rely on himself to speculate on the Internet, and the result is a loss of 50,000, and he wants to use the loan money to rush it.
In the face of her son's mistake again, Ms. Zhao felt very disappointed and felt that it was a failure in her own education, but Xiao Li felt that this was nothing, and she could earn it back by working hard for a year.
In the end, it was Ms. Zhao who voluntarily returned the money.
Because when the son was 8 years old, the parents divorced. The mother was running a restaurant at the time and was busy, so the son could only hand it over to his grandmother, grandma.
Ms. Zhao herself spent less time with him, and under the connivance of her father, her son's personality became more and more arrogant and self-forgetful.
The boldness grew, and the advice to the mother was often dismissive.
Ms. Zhao was very anxious in her heart, and felt that she owed him too much.
From the perspective of her parents, Ms. Zhao will always worry about her son's irregular life, spending money lavishly, and what to do in her future life.
And because the other party stole the real estate certificate twice, he felt that the other party was no longer worthy of his trust, so he did not support the way the other party proposed to repay the money.
And the son Xiao Li has his own ideas and the ability to make money on his own. Willing to take risks, there is also momentum, what you want, will be obtained in various ways, even if it is a loan will not give up.
Because he feels that he has the ability to make money, he now uses a loan to get what he likes, and he can slowly pay it back later.
Because she was busy and could not take care of her son, Ms. Zhao could only satisfy her son through material giving.
Give him the best school, eat the best, dress the best.
In fact, such giving cannot replace the payment of family affection at all.
Not caring about what his son is thinking in his heart and what he needs most, ignoring his psychological condition, will only make him more and more able to spend money, and there is no concept of money.
But psychologically it is becoming more and more lonely, more and more eager for love.
Perhaps because there is too little companionship from childhood, there is only money in the eyes of the son, and the mother seems to take his money for granted.
In fact, the mother will pay back for her son, just because he is her son, she feels that she has this obligation to pay him back, but the son does not feel this love, and it is not easy to understand the mother for so many years.
A woman has to earn both money and take care of her son.
In order to make money, she will definitely take care of her son less and care less about her son, but such a difficult son has not really learned to understand and understand the mother's efforts.
And Ms. Zhao's usual way of education did not let her son learn this, only knew how to persuade her son through preaching, but did not let the other party put herself in her shoes and think of her own difficulties.