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Some time ago, the question of foreign brands such as Nike was very loud, and many netizens were indignant, and they began to boycott some foreign brands.
The "principal" forbade students from wearing Nike for more than patriotic education
There is a "middle school principal" on social media, said that has banned all teachers and students to wear Nike shoes, he said that he prohibited children from wearing Nike, Adidas and other foreign brands of clothing into the campus, on the one hand, in order to do a good job of patriotic education for children, on the other hand, to stop the children's comparison psychology, has been issued to the teachers to convey to the parents, has also been supported by some people.
A stone stirred up thousands of waves, for the principal's speech, there was a polarized attitude among netizens, some people cheered for the principal, saying that such measures are worth advocating, and some netizens believe that whether it is patriotic education for children or stopping children's comparison behavior, taking mandatory measures will not achieve too good results, but it is likely to arouse children's rebellious psychology and backfire.
However, just when everyone was having a heated discussion about the "principal's" remarks, someone unveiled the "principal", it turned out that he was not a middle school principal at all, but just took advantage of everyone's patriotic sentiments to make controversial remarks in the name of the middle school principal. For such an ending, it is indeed very speechless.
However, although the so-called "middle school principal" has ulterior motives, but the exposed social phenomena are really there, and now many children have developed a sense of comparison in school, looking at the middle school students and even primary school students on the street, many people are a famous brand, in the final analysis, it is the children's awareness of comparison at work.
It's good to stop kids from comparing, but does uniform clothing really work?
Although the children study and live in the same school, everyone's family background is different. I don't know when, due to various reasons, among the most simple and unpretentious children in everyone's impression, the wind of comparison has quietly blown, even junior high school students and primary school students are often famous brands, and all kinds of people are at least as high as a thousand yuan. So in order to avoid this situation, many schools have unified the children's clothing and customized the four seasons school uniform for the children, but is this method really useful?
On some level, the answer may be no, but even with uniform clothing, children can still find a variety of other ways to compare. For example, limited edition sneakers, although many children may not have very good academic performance, but for the major sports brands of limited sneakers are like a number of treasures, wearing thousands of yuan shoes to school children abound.
In addition, the children's comparison is not limited to clothing, in the usual diet, daily necessities, parents' occupation, etc., may become the object of their comparison, on the surface of the clothing unified to curb the children's comparison behavior, but in fact is not as good as the imagined effect, in order to avoid the children's comparison behavior, or to change the children's ideological concepts, education-oriented.
In the face of the comparison psychology that children may have, parents should do these 3 points
1. Teach children self-affirmation
Many times, the reason why children compete is often out of a "peacock mentality", in a vain attempt to gain the approval of others by showing themselves. In view of such a situation, parents should teach their children to learn self-affirmation, build self-confidence, and not be overly swayed by the evaluation of others, acting as puppets of others' joys and sorrows.
2. Maintain a normal heart for yourself
It is said that parents are the best teachers for children, especially in this regard, children are originally a blank piece of paper, if parents usually intentionally or unintentionally compare with others, or take children to compare with other children, it is easy for children to be subtly affected. Therefore, in order to avoid the child's comparison psychology, it is necessary for parents themselves to maintain a normal heart and not to make any comparison behavior in front of the child.
3. Don't spoil your child too much
Sometimes the emergence of children's comparison psychology may also be the result of parental coddling, for the child's various unreasonable requirements, parents are all satisfied, over time the child will inevitably pay too much attention to external conditions, it is easier to develop the habit of comparison, we should also grasp the degree of education, to avoid spoiling the child without limits.
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
Want to solve the problem of children's comparison through unified clothing, it is likely to only play a role in curing the symptoms but not the root cause, in order to completely eliminate the children's vicious comparison, it is more important to guide the parents to educate, and gradually establish healthy values for children, so that children can truly realize what is most important to themselves at the moment and avoid putting the cart before the horse.
Today's topic: What do you think of today's children's comparison psychology?
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