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When a woman reaches middle age, there are still peach blossoms around her, is it really a good thing?
In real life, many people believe that the value of women will be degraded with age, and young and beautiful women will always be more popular with the opposite sex than old and fading women.
This idea of objectifying women under external conditions is, on the one hand, a prejudice against women, and on the other hand, a misunderstanding of men's view of love.
It is true that women are young and beautiful in their twenties, and the opposite sex is more likely to be attracted by their external appearance, so as to take the initiative to pursue.
However, this does not mean that women lose the beauty bonus, and their charm will be sharply reduced.
Middle-aged women also have an indelible charm, a woman who lives calmly and elegantly, they not only know how to manage their own body, but also through the improvement of inner connotation, let themselves always be in a state of growth, accumulated to improve themselves.
If a woman still has no shortage of people to chase in middle age, then at least three problems are explained, not all good, but not necessarily bad.
01: It shows that you are attractive and more likely to get the favor of the opposite sex
Ancients Cloud: Lady, Gentleman.
Women still have the opposite sex to take the initiative to approach in middle age, which shows that she has a certain charm and can get the appreciation and affirmation of others.
The famous writer Zhou Guoping wrote in the book "The Distance of Watching":
"A truly attractive woman, her charm can conquer not only men, but also women. Because she has both sexual charm and human charm. ”
The charm of a middle-aged woman is often reflected in two aspects, one is external and the other is internal.
The appearance is mainly reflected in that no matter whether it looks beautiful or not, whether the figure is sexy or not, it is always simple and clean, such a woman, even if she sees it, will feel pleasing to the eye.
No one likes a sloppy woman, and even if other conditions are good, it will ruin the first impression of others on her.
The inner is reflected in the fact that it has a very high cultivation and outstanding temperament.
They usually like to read, like to write and draw, etc., these hobbies can cultivate themselves. Such a woman, whether she lives alone or not, can live a very rich life.
02: Explain that you are helpful to men and can meet each other's needs
As the saying goes: "Turnip greens, each has its own love." ”
Love is the same, women reach middle age, compared to young and beautiful girls, they may not have an advantage in age, but it does not mean failure.
Everyone has their own unique understanding of love, some men value the happiness of women, so they will pursue young and beautiful women; some men appreciate women's transparency, and will take the initiative to approach women who are intellectually elegant;
Some men who want to find a partner to live in peace will be more inclined to find a gentle and virtuous woman.
If a woman still has heterosexual pursuits in middle age, it is not necessarily because you are very attractive, especially attracting the attention of the opposite sex. It could also be because, for the opposite sex, you have value and help him.
For example, he wants to marry a virtuous woman and help him take care of the family.
For example, you have good financial conditions or are well connected and want to be with you for certain purposes.
For example, he was particularly lonely and empty during the current period, trying to find someone to accompany him.
Everyone longs for simple love, but not everyone can do it, if a man approaches you with a purpose, then even if you love, you must know how to choose, so as not to hurt yourself.
03: Men take the initiative to be courteous to you, in fact, there is no other intention
Love is not a game of deception, but some men like to use the guise of love to seek their own interests.
Such men take the initiative to approach middle-aged women, and even make great dedication to them, mostly for the sake of the word "interests", and women have to guard against them.
Love is only a part of life, we can enjoy the happiness brought by love, but at the same time we need to be vigilant against the traps in it, so as not to let ourselves fall into the trap of people with ghost fetuses.
Love someone, please love deeply, do not consume the feelings of others, let yourself become a liar.
In life, I have seen many such cases.
A man is close to a middle-aged woman, ostensibly because of love, but in fact because the other party's economic conditions are very good, such as having several properties, huge deposits, and so on.
The man saw this, pretended to approach, and when the time was ripe, he slowly exposed his ambitions, either to transfer the property or to try to embezzle her money.
Such a person has a clear purpose, such feelings are more hypocritical than we think, and only by knowing how to discern can we distinguish between what is true love, what is play and what is used.
Usually, women in middle age and the opposite sex take the initiative to approach, not necessarily all good things. If it is true love, it is still worth maintaining, if it is deliberately used, it must be stopped in time.
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