Wang Lihong's divorce storm became more and more intense, and Li Lianglei's thousand-word nuclear bomb article revealed that he was about to cannon, summon prostitutes, and support Xiaosan, and the flames of war burned to many artists. By2 sister Yumi became the target of public criticism because of the incident, and it was rumored that she once swallowed medicine and died lightly, and the artist Xu Ruoxuan was also involved in the storm, and issued a statement three times that "there was no involvement in Li Wang's marriage". Li Lianglei sent a thousand words in response to the outside world's 3 questions, saying that she was not asking for money or retaliation from the beginning to the end, and she also responded to the 3 questions of netizens. The first question about "Why not settle it privately, to be so cruel to the dad of three children?" She said that "if there is another way, no one will be willing to choose this way", revealing that she has used various ways to seek a response, but she can not get an apology, she said that "apologies are very important, because if people have no way to admit their mistakes and always attribute their mistakes to others, they will not be willing to repent and will not be willing to correct."
She said that she did not have the slightest resentment toward Wang Lihong, only blessings, "Everything I do is to let our children have a healthy father and a sound growth environment." So please don't use your children to sexually blackmail and morally kidnap me."
In response to Wang Lihong's previous statement that he would give her a borderless mansion with a market price of 480 million yuan in Da'an District, she said: "I will not accept the 'gift' of the house, so you don't have to use this matter to misinterpret my intentions, from the beginning to the end, it is not to ask for money or revenge." I believe in justice, so I believe that the reasonable distribution of property that my children and I should have in law will lead to fair results through justice."
Finally, I apologize to the relevant people who have been implicated in the divorce storm for no reason, "No matter who has paid a lot of price for this matter, I hope that from today onwards, we can all return to a peaceful life, each of us is safe, and there will be no more online insults or bullying incidents."
The divorce storm between Li Lianglei (left) and Wang Lihong has aroused concern from all walks of life.
Li Lianglei full text
I hope that this letter can really draw a conclusion to the continuous burning disturbances, so that everyone can return to a peaceful life.
Some netizens questioned: "Why not solve it privately, and be cruel to the parents of three children?" Once there is another way, no one will want to choose this way. In fact, if I hadn't had three children, it would have been really difficult for me to live to this day in the face of such a helpless and heartbreaking thing. Privately I tried everything I could think of, and even today, publicly or privately, I still haven't gotten a sincere apology, and all the problems are unfortunately still blamed on my problems, but it doesn't matter because it may really take time to settle down. "Is it important to apologize? Why let things get to where they are today in order to apologize?" Yes, apologies are important because people who have no way to admit their mistakes and keep attributing their mistakes to others will not be willing to repent and will not be willing to correct them. I didn't have the slightest resentment toward him, only blessings.
Everything I do is so that our children can have physically and mentally healthy fathers and a sound environment to grow up in. So please stop using children to carry out emotional blackmail and moral kidnapping against me. Children need not perfect parents, children need honest and trustworthy parents who can face and correct problems bravely. There are no perfect people in the world and no people who can't make mistakes. If parents pretend to be perfect, children will also think that their imperfections are a defect. Many children who know that their parents are imperfect or have done wrong things can still have a sound body and mind, and they can continue to maintain a close parent-child relationship with their parents (there are many positive examples in society). In order to protect him, I should not continue to tolerate his and his relatives and friends' continuous bullying and denigration of me, preferring to choose to bear the children's misunderstanding of the mother. Children will hear and see that growing up in such a family will bring the greatest harm to the child, and if they grow up in such a family, there will only be two results
(1) Believing in the slander of relatives and friends and resenting the mother
(2) Empathize with what the mother has endured, because she wants to protect the mother and oppose her father and relatives and friends, and even some children will end up in the social news.
Both of these results are something I'm happy to see. I don't want to make everything now a child because of my weakness to face or therefore have to live in a "harmonious" family in my place, but in fact I need to suffer or witness a long period of experience in a family relationship full of contradictions and bullying and cold violence.
What I want to win for my children is a sound family. I don't agree that I should hide my father's faults from my child, let him continue to hurt himself and hurt others, and deprive him of the opportunity to correct and be born again. More important than his career and image is his physical and mental health and the father whose children can have physical and mental health. On this road to rebirth, I will provide all his support and assistance, and I hope that after he corrects, everyone will continue to support him. I hope that our experience can become a mirror for children, so that children can believe that people will make mistakes, as long as they can bravely face their own mistakes, no matter what kind of trough they encounter, they can still be reborn through their own efforts with resilience.
2. "You say so much for the money, so when you get the house, you don't sue, right?" In fact, I have never wanted to be forced to tell him in desperation, and I do not want to sue an 80-year-old man. I also think that the response from my previous letter has also dispelled a large part of everyone's doubts. The main thing is because he is willing to apologize. No matter what kind of apology, it is a good start for me, and my purpose has always been to have a different future for me and our children and society.
I will not accept the "gift" of the house, so you do not have to use this matter to misinterpret my intentions, from the beginning to the end, it is not to ask for money or revenge. I believe in justice, so I believe that the fair distribution of property that my children and I should have in law will lead to fair results through justice.
3. Sorry for the people who were involved. For the people involved in this incident, no matter who has paid a lot of price for this matter, I hope that from today onwards, we can all return to a peaceful life, each of us is safe, and there will be no more online insults or bullying incidents.
Media friends and netizens have worked hard, and I am sorry to disturb your life. I hope that this matter will come to an end here, and may we all soothe the pain in our hearts, and the years will be quiet and become the changes we hope to see.