"Xiao MinJia", a TV series starring Huang Lei, Zhou Xun, Qin Hailu, Tu Songyan, etc., has attracted much attention since its inception, and the characters and plots in the play can arouse netizens to think. For example, Li Ping, a woman with a successful career but fertility problems.
Li Ping was born normally, and at the beginning married an affordable male Chen Zhuo, such a man obviously could not control her. So the two divorced, and the marriage lasted 7 years. After the divorce, Li Ping interacted with Hong Wei. At that time, Hong Wei was not yet successful, but compared with Chen Zhuo's lack of ambition, he had a grand ambition in the entrepreneurial stage, which was very consistent with Li Ping's values. But is Li Ping really happy?
Exterior scenery
Li Ping, who is married for the second time, has realized the transformation of sparrow into a phoenix, and Hong Wei, whose career is getting smoother and smoother, has realized the ideal of Li Ping's rich wife. She got a pampered life. Millionaire cars, and driver transfers
Tens of millions of villas, luxurious decoration and grandeur.
Three meals a day, even if two people are at least seven dishes and one soup, and there are servants to serve.
Inside and out, she highlights her pearlescent high quality of life. Materially, she lacks nothing, is the object of everyone's envy and hatred, and has unlimited scenery everywhere she goes.
The status in marriage is not equal, and the elderly mother is anxious about childbirth
For ordinary people, there is a house, a car, and money, as well as the love of the husband, the career is stable but has done a lot, Li Ping seems to have everything, but there is still a child for the two of them.
This is also the reason why Li Ping's surface scenery is said. Behind the life of Kuota, which everyone envies, Li Ping also has her own difficulties. Because for her, having a baby was more of a task and had to be done.
Li Ping was elderly when she was married, but she knew that the only way to do it was to find a way to give birth to children for her husband. This child is not only a bond that will keep their marriage together, but also inherit the bloodline of the family business, and preferably a son.
So even if she was an advanced maternal age and had risks, she had to do that. This kind of deplorable degeneration into a "fertility tool" is probably the most understood by Mrs. Kuo after that!
So Li Ping had three years of ovulation injections, which was the good news.
And the husband Hong Wei is particularly precious to this hard-won child, arranging a personal assistant for his wife, afraid that she will bump into it, and the food is very exquisite, and various nutritious meals are chicken soup, which is very nourishing.
But Li Ping looked bitter from injection to success, from beginning to end. Once she was dismissive of her ex-husband Chen Zhuo, but she did everything she could to please Hong Wei. She has always been proud to think that she and Hong Wei are the result of the joint efforts of two people from entrepreneurship to fortune, and this feeling is extremely tough, and even said that even if she did not give birth to a son and a daughter for him in the end, they would not divorce. Little did she know, however, that her husband might not be as loyal as he thought (it's still being updated, and loyalty has yet to be verified). And judging from Hong Wei's reaction to her after she became pregnant, he was more concerned about the child in Li Ping's belly.
So why is it called a "fertility tool"? In fact, the rich family has a big business, and it is understandable that they want to have children and inherit the family business, but in this marriage, Li Ping herself has her own sense of panic and inferiority. Is it really like she said, not worrying at all about her husband divorcing her because of the children? Actually, no, she was afraid and inferior. When Hong Wei was young, he was a gentleman, because of Xiao San's affair, his ex-wife committed suicide, leaving no son and half a daughter, and Xiao San also left him.
And Li Ping married with a daughter, her only advantage is to work hard with her husband to become a tycoon, but they all say that rich men become bad, there are so many temptations outside, she definitely still wants a child, or seven or eight children. That's why she desperately wants to have children.
She needs the child as a chip, so the child is also the ancestor.
In this marriage, the relationship between the two of them was unequal. In the previous marriage, Li Ping always complained about Chen Zhuo, but in front of Hong Wei, she became the humble one.
There is a detail in the play that I don't know if everyone noticed? Li Ping hung an oil painting of Hong Wei at the head of the bed, not a wedding photo, but an oil painting of Hong Wei, which shows that Li Ping is in the position of an upward observer in this marriage.
Imagine if in the end Hong Wei filed for divorce and married a young and beautiful woman, and what would Li Ping do? At that time, her life will fall to a low point, and the only estimate that comforts her is her only daughter, Chen Jiajia.
So, is Mrs. Li Ping really happy?
It is said that everyone envies Li Ping, and in terms of materially she has won most people, which is beyond people's reach, but her happiness seems to be more like clinging to her husband.
However, in this marriage, she seems to be very sad, because she has to endure everywhere, she has to endure, everywhere to consider Hong Wei's face and mood, and even need to use children as chips, maintain feelings, and stabilize the family property. At this time, her marriage was like a bubble, and the colorful colors under the sun were very beautiful, but it was likely to burst at a poke.
She is never solid in her heart, she is always a looker to her husband, and in this marriage, she will always be the passive one.
Li Ping is completely different from Liu Xiaomin, and she has even been jealous of Liu Xiaomin. However, her daughter Chen Jiajia did not understand why her mother seemed to want something, but she still liked to compare herself with Liu Xiaomin.
Just think, will Li Ping have a good ending? The answer is actually about to come out.
Is it necessary to be happy if you have money? Liu Jialing said to fans when commemorating her and Liang Chaowei's 26-year "love long-distance running line": "There is no permanent marriage in the world, only couples who grow up together." What is the point of this sentence? Is it the four words of "growing together", if only one party tolerates, rather than accommodating each other, can such a marriage last?
When you have a heart in your heart, a warm husband can sit next to you and listen to your words, and then calmly and comfort you and give you advice. Even when you have nothing to do, just accompany you to do nothing. One look and you will understand what you want. It's not just to make the wife look up to herself, and it's not just to have money.
From Li Ping's marriage, what do you understand?