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I saw a very funny video on the Internet: the daughter washed her father's feet with one hand and took pictures with her mobile phone in the other. Dad was originally very moved, emotions are brewing in the chest, may be a successful photo, the daughter stood up and left, and incidentally closed the door.
Dad's touch has not yet risen on the cold, netizens have commented: this small cotton jacket is a bit leaky ah!
Many people see this news, just haha a lot of fun. Begin to recall your child's "plastic" feelings for himself.
But I would say that this "homework" itself is also problematic. It can be seen from the girl's attitude that she also does not like such a formal homework.
◆Dear parents, what kind of work have you encountered?
Speaking of such homework, it may be seen the most in kindergartens, after all, children at this age are still young, and many homework is not assigned to children, but to parents.
Every Thanksgiving Day or Mother's Day in kindergarten, it is inevitable that there will be such a homework: help mom and dad do one thing, express your gratitude to them, and take pictures to upload.
Or to put it bluntly, wash your dad's or mom's feet and feel a strong sense of affection.......
So, after school, photos or videos began to appear in the parent group: basin after basin of water, small hands, and the feet of dad or mom.....
Funny, I once saw a parent uploading homework at 11 p.m., and the video still showed a hand and a pair of feet, but the hand was obviously larger and chubby, not the child's hand at all.
Look at the time at a glance: it must be because the child has slept, the parents found that they forgot to turn in their homework, and it is not good for the child to get up, so they do the work for themselves, and the father replaces the child with his own thick hands, pretending to wash the feet of the mother.
What makes people sympathize is that according to the teacher's request, this video should also be accompanied by "Wash your mother's feet, mother is hard!" "Such a text, posted in the circle of friends.
Use foot washing to show gratitude, labor festival beat a photo with a mop to indicate labor, eat a few rice dumplings during the Dragon Boat Festival to represent traditional education for the festival, has this homework content been staged in many kindergartens?
◆ Whether the homework is in the form or not is related to the parents' practice
I have no intention of bashing the practice of homework in kindergarten.
Because whether homework is a formality, many times it also depends on how parents respond.
For example, parent-child manual work that was originally hoped that parents and children would participate together, parents had to think that it was the teacher's difficulty, or felt that the child was not doing well, directly started to do the work, or bought a finished product outside. In fact, this misses a lot of opportunities created by homework: with children, with each other, to express intimacy opportunities.
Sometimes, even if some homework seems to be a formality, as long as parents are attentive enough, they can turn it into an opportunity to talk with their children for a long time.
For example, when schools assign "wash their father's feet" homework to teenage children, parents can definitely feel their children's resistance. Then you might as well tell your child, forget about these forms, and just chat between father and daughter. It is even directly recommended to pose for the shoot, and then talk to the child about the heart and talk about learning after the shooting.
After all, the job is rigid, and how to deal with it is flexible.
Like this funny thing at the beginning of the article, I don't know what caused my daughter to react like this. Perhaps adolescent girls are rebellious and do not like such superficial work, or perhaps the daughter and her father usually do not have in-depth communication, so the child resists washing her father's feet.
In addition to laughing, it is also worth reflecting on: how well we usually get along with our children, and how children generally do when they encounter this kind of homework.
[Topic Discussion: Have you ever encountered embarrassing school assignments? 】
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