Sometimes I think about the question, when others have already achieved results, why not learn from other people's experiences? Or just take someone else's results and use them directly?
Do we think about face, or do we think about ability? Everyone wants to have their own happy life, and they all want to live a life they like.
The life you like is not something you can get if you want to, it takes a certain amount of effort to get it. Many people want an unforgettable love, if two people do not experience a lot of life experience, it is difficult to have such a love.
So when we want to live what kind of life we want, we need to learn an instinct: plan and then move.
For example, if you want to become a psychological counselor, you have your own psychological studio. But it's not that you can be what you want to be, the process is slow, the process takes time to accumulate. There is one method that can be used here: the backward method.
For example, becoming a good counselor after five years is a goal that needs to be achieved.
Then in the fourth year, I have already started to do psychological counseling, and this year I have accumulated a large number of clinical psychological counseling case experience and contacted different clients. The problems of different visitors are effectively solved.
In the third year, you need to master various psychological counseling techniques, you need to start contacting individual cases, you need to supervise, you need to participate in mutual learning in psychology circles, and you need to continuously improve your counseling skills.
In the second year, you have to get a psychological counselor qualification certificate, which is a stepping stone, which is one of the first conditions for you to be a psychological counselor. Just like when a teacher goes to the podium to give a lecture, he must have a teacher's certificate.
In the first year, you must start to learn about psychology, and to understand what psychology is, to contact some psychological counseling institutions, to know some psychological counselors. It is necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of the psychological counseling industry. And you must always observe yourself whether you have the quality and cultivation of being a psychological counselor.
This is the backwards of becoming a counselor. It is not to pat your own head, you can become if you want to become, it needs to be polished after a period of time, and it needs to grow up step by step.
Success is not simply successful, the effort and hard work behind it, only they are very clear and understandable. It seems that others are light and cloudy, and the heartache and pain behind it do we know? Invisible.
Learn to talk to people who have results, because since they have the results, it means that they have the law of getting the results. Everything is regular, just as we choose to be a good person or an ugly person. One thought, choose what will become something.
Why do people become confused? Is it because you don't know what you can do next? What should I do? If you know what you can do next, then your thinking consciousness is very clear and clear.
What I do in the first year, what I do in the second year, what I do in the third year, what I do in the fourth year, what I do in the fifth year. What to do every year is clear and clear. Are you still confused? Not confused at all, just start working.
The years are hurried, and the kung fu has passed in the blink of an eye, so the time is not waiting for me. Grab the person you like, grab the thing you like. Leave no regrets in life!