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Beginning with Li Lianglei's heavy hammer ex-husband Wang Lihong, a large discussion about marriage and full-time housewives has sprung up online.
While people accused Wang Lihong of his cold violence and endless harm to his wife, they lamented Li Lianglei's writing and narrative ability.
But, in the end, this marriage has brought them both a lot of things that they would have wanted.
After all, one thinks one has found true love, and the other thinks they have found a way to get back into people's sights.
1. Love you, you can see it from your eyes
Shortly after Li Lianglei's first post, someone found the picture of them appearing in public as a couple.
Under the camera, Wang Lihong fed Li Lianglei cake, but his eyes were watching the camera the whole time, and Li Lianglei could not reach the cake in his hand at all.
Because of the surprise of her height, even Li Lianglei needed to tiptoe her feet to reach in front of her. But in this process, Wang Lihong didn't care about Li Lianglei's feelings at all.
Even in the many official outings since then, Wang Lihong seems to be still immersed in his own world, and his concern for his wife and children is like a kind of business.
Someone said, "Love can't be hidden." Because even if you keep your mouth shut, love will run out of your eyes. “
This matter can be seen from the bodies of Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen. Many times, when they are photographed, their eyes are full of each other.
Someone once said of them: "Cai Shaofen sometimes can't even pronounce her name in Mandarin, but when she says that she loves Zhang Jin, she is always so clear." “
Regardless of the people before and after, Zhang Jin is like Cai Shaofen's umbrella, always shielding her from the wind and rain, letting her do all the things she wants to do.
2. He doesn't understand, he just pretends not to understand
Before the dust settled on this incident, Wang Lihong sent a Weibo post saying that he had decided not to make any more explanations and justifications.
And Li Lianglei, she also chose not to continue to say these things, after all, her statement is only to give herself and her children an explanation, but also to more people to mention a wake-up call.
Many times, even if this person has more vows to you, he will not be able to believe it. What's more, some people are not even willing to give you a promise.
Eight years of raising three children means that this woman's eight years are either pregnant and ready to give birth, or child-rearing, and she simply does not have time for self-improvement.
She is loyal to her family, and what is the reward that her family gives her? Is it the ex-husband's repeated emphasis on his private life being clean, or is it one hurt after another?
There is a saying on the Internet: "People who love you will not let you cry." The guy who doesn't love you, just pretends, he'll never see you cry. “
In other words, we can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and we can never get a person who pretends to love you to admit that all he does is just exploitation.
After all, in the eyes of the other person, I am married to you, which is a gift to you, and what else do you want?
3. Paying is not a matter of course
Someone spoke out in the incident: "We encourage all women who have been hurt to protect their rights, but not those who are full of deception." ”
I once read a report that a woman was married seven times in three years, each time for a short time, and then left her ex and took all the bride price and dowry with her.
At first, no one noticed anything wrong, until the last time she escaped, she was caught.
Such women, married for money, including those who never pay anything for the family and are only busy enjoying the other half, are not in the ranks of what we have to say for them.
What we really want to protect is that after marriage, the housewives who give up their jobs for the sake of the family, how many central acids there are in their lives, we can't understand.
Although, we can't advocate that all women should do this. However, if this can improve the quality of family life, it will also be the choice of many people.
A man once said: "Our family is my wife inside and outside the Lord, because her ability is higher than mine, and I am willing to make a solid backing for her." “
That is to say, the matter of husband and wife can be discussed, but there is a premise, that is, any sacrifice and payment is not what others should do.
4. Don't get married easily
It seems that later, married people are advising everyone not to get married easily, after all, love can maintain marriage, but that is not all.
So, perhaps, think twice. Don't spend the rest of your life paying for your momentary impulses.
Such a married life, like a high-altitude tightrope, if you don't pay attention, it is an abyss.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.