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With kids, we'll find that going to work is like going on vacation.
The reason for this is that at least we still have time to rest at work, but with children, you must always be on alert, and the slightest negligence of children may be in danger, especially those who do not have the ability to move independently.
The fragility of the little baby may only be a little tricky at the angle of the fall, which will threaten his life, but he himself is unaware of the danger and needs to be carefully cared for by his parents, but even if we have been very careful and cautious, there will be times when the horse loses its front hoof.
A minute after the mother left, the baby fell into bed
When I went to work, I accidentally brushed a surveillance video of the baby falling into bed, and I deeply felt the difficulty of the old mother.
The baby in the video is about six months old, lying in the middle of the bed, while the mother sits on the edge of the bed, takes the temperature and puts away the thermometer, and then goes to the toilet, only one minute before and after.
But in this inadvertent one-minute period, the baby on the bed flipped over three times in a row, directly head down "planted" to the ground, banging wow wow crying.
After the mother heard the crying, she quickly ran from the toilet and immediately picked up the child to comfort him.
It can be said that this is definitely the scene that mothers are most afraid of seeing, watching their children roll over and fall out of bed but unable to do anything, there will really be a feeling of heart like a knife.
Although bumps and bumps in the process of growing up are inevitable, in order to ensure the safety of their children, parents should still avoid dangers for their children in advance.
How can I avoid such events in my daily life?
Install the bed guardrail
For families with babies, the bed parapet is really a great helper.
First of all, the guardrail can fix the child's range of motion, even if the child runs and jumps in bed, he will not be injured or fall into bed;
Secondly, the design of the bed guard rail is more reasonable, will not bring hidden dangers to the child, such as high elastic cloth can be in the child falling into the bed is a good way to hold the child, double press lock to prevent the baby from misoperation.
However, when parents choose the bed guardrail, they must choose the production of regular manufacturers, and the installation must be stable.
Leave your baby alone as much as possible
Whether the baby is sleeping or playing, parents should ensure that they are on the side, and if there is indeed something that needs to be left for a short time, be sure to put the baby in a safe place or raise the bed guardrail.
In fact, many families will think that excessive tension with children is not a good thing, and leaving for a minute or two will not be dangerous.
But life is full of too many unknowns, since we are parents, we have the responsibility to protect their safety, do not have a fluke mentality, we must always ensure that children in their own activities.
Do not take your baby to try dangerous games
Many parents will do some up-and-down games to tease their children when interacting with their babies, but in fact, this kind of game is very dangerous, and once the parents do not catch it, the consequences will be unimaginable.
The baby falling into bed can be big or small, but there is a point that needs to be explained, the mother in the video immediately picked up the child is not advisable, which is likely to cause secondary harm to the baby, similar cases are many, you can find it on the Internet.
After the child falls out of bed, we should do this:
Step 1: Observe
First of all, we must observe whether the baby is crying after landing on the ground, if the baby immediately cries after falling into bed, it means that the baby's consciousness is awake;
The second is to observe the baby's landing part, if the baby is on all fours, you can first wait for the baby to calm down after taking his favorite toy to tease him, observe whether the child's hands, arms and other parts of the movement are restricted, in addition to check whether the baby has local bleeding, redness and swelling.
If you find that your baby is bleeding, you should first press to stop the bleeding, and then go to the hospital for further examination.
Remember: the wound must be cold within 72 hours, 15 minutes each time, to reduce subcutaneous bleeding, after which hot compresses can promote the absorption of fluid.
Do not rub on the red and swollen area, it will aggravate the bleeding and leakage of fluid, the best way is to apply sesame oil.
Step 2: Seek medical attention in time
If you find that the baby's activities are abnormal, there is a possibility of fractures, or the baby falls from a high distance and his head is on the ground, call 120 in time and wait for professional medical staff to help.
Step 3: Do not relax within 48 hours after falling out of bed
Babies are at risk of intracranial hemorrhage when they fall out of bed, but intracranial hemorrhage does not manifest itself the moment he falls out of bed, usually within 48 hours.
Therefore, within 48 hours of the baby falling out of bed, parents must be vigilant, pay close attention to the baby's mental state, whether there is drowsiness and vomiting. If you find that the baby's sleep time after falling into bed is significantly increased, frequent vomiting, indicating that the baby has intracranial injury, you should immediately go to the hospital for further examination, do not delay the best time.
Parenting is no small matter, I hope parents can be more careful to escort the safety of the baby.