How to live in life has never been decided.
In this lifetime, everyone is the same, can make autonomous decisions, to define their own lives.
As a woman, you can choose to become a strong woman with your own career, or you can choose to retire to the family and regard the harmony of the family and the growth of your children as your own happiness.
As long as the conditions allow and you are willing, then no matter how you choose, there is nothing wrong with it.
Hurrying years, it is very complicated to say, in fact, it is just very simple, but it is just to make their own choices, and then be responsible for their own choices, this choice after another, making up a person's life.
Yes, we can live as much as we want, but of course we still wish we could be wiser and live better than always making the wrong decisions and putting ourselves in a very bad situation.
I like a word, sober in the world, to be honest, women want to live a better life, really should be sober.
Find yourself and become a qualified adult.
Inevitably, in the passage of time, we will gradually fade away from our innocence and become an adult.
Indeed, for adults, there is never an accurate definition, even if we grow up, we can still maintain the child's heart, full of curiosity about everything, and maintain a simplicity.
On the way to growing up, we can have some childlike mentality, but we must also let ourselves grow and become more mature.
Growing up is a compulsory course, maturity is an elective course, throughout their lives, many people may not be able to become mature, know who they really are, where they want to go, and what kind of life they live.
Muddy nightmares will also be a lifetime, but if you let your own life go unchecked, life will also fail us. It is best that in our twenties, we should start to think and start to enrich ourselves.
To have a normal three views and cognition, to find their own hobbies, but also to improve their ability.
Love yourself well, become yourself first, know how to be self-sufficient, you can live well without borrowing anyone's light, form your own value system, become a complete individual, and then think about other things.
When we can do that, every step of the way, we're really going to be more assertive and easier.
For the other half in the future, be sure to choose well.
Two big things in life, one is oneself and the other is marriage.
When we are alone, we can decide what our lives are like, and after being with one person, the two people become a whole, there is never a so-called so-called independence, and they will only affect each other.
To a large extent, what kind of man we choose determines what kind of life we will have in the future.
Marriage is a big deal, and it's very important, so when choosing, you must pay special attention.
We must see clearly our own actual situation, and we must also think clearly about what kind of marriage and what kind of person we want.
In the process of searching, but where a person makes himself feel very bad, always not respected, it is obvious that the other party is very non-specific, there are obvious defects in the other party, then even if there is some likes, it is best to give up.
The person we are looking for, the character should be considered, the temperament should be considered, the ability should be considered, and how we should consider, we must choose one that we really feel good about, let ourselves feel happy, and be able to see the future.
People are not right, after marriage, no matter how hard it is useless, only if people choose right, our future, will be more smooth, in each other's joint efforts, will have a more smooth day.
Have a skill, always be able to support themselves.
After entering the marriage, women will face having children, and if there is no one else to help with children, they will also need to pay more energy on the issue of children, delaying a lot of time and time.
In particular, when a man's abilities are really good, he may also become a housewife within a certain period of time.
When the reality is like this, even if for a period of time, we have no way to make money, but we must not lose the ability to make money, attach ourselves to men, become separated from each other, there is no way to survive.
At the moment when the divorce rate is high, we can count on the man we meet, who always knows how to cherish this relationship, and we have a good time, and each other can really be together all the time, but what will happen tomorrow, we can't predict.
Too many loving couples, no matter how much they loved each other and were sweet at the beginning, the sea vowed to be a mountain alliance, unswerving, envious of others, and later just made a lot of embarrassment, when the woman left, she didn't even get anything.
In that case, we can look forward to not encountering it, but we must also have the ability to resolve it even if we meet it.
Balancing marriage and career is not easy, but no matter how the world changes, we still have to keep improving.
Not all housewives can be respected, not all marriages can start and end well, after all, only if they have the ability to make money, they can always stand in an invincible position.
A woman's really sober way of life, first do a good job of herself, then love others, and feel life.
With an independent self, we will not follow the clouds, and we will not always abandon the bottom line and let ourselves be doomed.
You know, no matter when, we can choose again, but whether it is life and marriage, the cost of reshuffling, and changing lanes halfway, it is huge and completely beyond our imagination.
Of course, being sober doesn't mean being ruthless, just looking at everything more rationally and facing choices.
Indeed, there will be times when we are really confused and make the wrong decision.
If one day things just turn out like this, we don't have to blame ourselves, just face it bravely.
No one cannot make mistakes, and there is always some sobriety, some need for some people, some things, to teach us.
Text/Tan Meng
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