Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Some people say that if a man marries a good wife, three generations will benefit, but if there is no good wife, the family may be chicken and dog jump and there will be no peace. For most men, whether they have achieved a high social status and whether they have become rich or not is actually not important, what matters is whether he has found a good wife and run a happy family.
Some women are hard-working, and they are willing to be the devotees behind men and pay silently for their families. Some women are very wise, and will relieve men's worries when they are troubled, and pull up a handful when the other party is in difficulty. Such a woman, of course, is what all men dream of. And if you find the following two kinds of women, men may become more and more tired, or even poor for a lifetime.
A girl who can't do anything is not up to the task of a good wife. Some women put all their energy into appearance and dress, but they don't know anything about housework. When they are in love, they can make each other very happy, but once they enter the family life, they show their shortcomings. After a busy day, my husband returned home to find that the food was not cooked, the floor was not cleaned, and there was no warmth of home at all. Then such a wife, even if she is beautiful, will gradually deduct points in the other half's heart.
The dissatisfaction in the husband's heart accumulates more and more, and it is inevitable that the two people will quarrel. Just quarreling does not change the habits of this kind of woman, they are used to being served from an early age, and once they set up a family, they can only be helpless. In addition to their poor housework ability, they also lack the spirit of cutting through thorns in other things. Like a princess in a castle, she needs the protection and pampering of others. But this kind of pampering can only occur during the period of love, and now everyone in society is under great pressure, and it is difficult to bear the joys and sorrows of another person forever.
Marriage requires two adults to operate, if one party is a small girl, then in the face of life's various challenges, it is inevitable that they will be overwhelmed. For most men, they hope that their wives can be mature and responsible, wise and capable, which is the biggest support for their peace of mind.
In addition, a woman who always spends money indiscriminately will not become a virtuous wife. Good wives should plan for the family's expenses, they know how to live within their means, and help their husbands save money. But some women, who are born with no concept of financial management, may often shop under the impulse, always buying something that wastes money and is not practical. The husband worked hard, but found that the money was squandered by the wife.
When you want to change houses, children choose schools, or even relatives and friends are sick, the family can't come up with extra money. The husband will know that there is no happiness to be said for marrying such a loser woman. Such a woman makes the other half lose the motivation to struggle.
Uncle Epilogue:
If he marries a virtuous wife, the man feels that he has something to look forward to every time he comes home, because he knows that his wife will definitely arrange the home well and can comfort his emotions just right. If you marry a delicate woman, then after the husband comes home, he may still have to do housework and coax his other half to lose his temper, which is really miserable. There are also women who spend money without a plan, and no matter how much money the family saves, they will eventually be squandered by them. Marrying such a woman, it is difficult for men to feel comfortable. If they could, every man dreams of having a virtuous helper by his side.