Text/Moran
It is said that all things in this life are doomed, if it is not satisfactory, then it can only be their own problem, which is not to blame anyone.
Many people, when encountering things, habitually complain, and even transfer the responsibility to others, thereby reducing the burden on themselves, in fact, this is more self-deception.
Believe that whatever happens is predestined, and since it happens, all you have to do is accept reality instead of blaming others.
Do not do to others what you do not want, and only by comparing your heart to your heart can you get the hearts of the people. Don't impose on others what you can't do on yourself, and don't blame others when you encounter problems.
In this world, you will always experience some setbacks and difficulties, which are unavoidable in life and the norm of life.
A lot of things have happened, and nothing can be changed, so be brave and face it. Only by facing life can we step over the past. Having been immersed in pain, investigating the problem will not solve anything.
There is no obstacle in this world, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, and one day, time will give you the answer.
In this process, no matter how difficult it is, do not blame others, blame others can not reverse the situation, can not change the ending, only face the problem yourself, can you solve it.
Be human, don't blame others, good people will bring you happiness and beauty, bad people will make you grow, people who care about you will give you warmth, and people who hurt you will give you experiences.
You see, no matter what kind of person, he will always teach you something to make you better at growing and changing.
It's no use complaining, blaming others will only increase your own resentment, make yourself tired, and immerse yourself in that repressed emotion.
If you think from a different perspective, maybe the situation is different, and when you maintain a good attitude to face life, there may be different results.
A lot of things happen, everything is the best arrangement, not you alone can control it.
Since it has happened, there is nothing to complain about, to blame, many times we need to find the reason from ourselves, rather than to avoid the problem and responsibility.
When you can face life calmly and know how to start from yourself, it is real growth.
Many things, in fact, when you think about it carefully, you can find problems and correct them, but you know that complaining and blaming can never improve and improve.
Find the reason from yourself in advance, face yourself squarely, and don't blame others.
When you can calmly face the problem, you will not be easily affected, you will not punish yourself with the faults of others, and you will know what you should do.
Life will always encounter such and such problems, what you have to do is to maintain a good attitude to face, to accept, to maintain the principles and bottom line that should be there, in order to be able to find yourself.
Blaming others for not being able to solve the root will only make yourself fall deeper and deeper. Only those who are sincere and frank and know how to reflect can grow better.
summary:
At any time, when encountering any problems, do not blame others at the first time, calm down, and solve the problem from your own point of view.
When you can face it very well and solve the problem calmly, you are already very powerful, and no one can influence you.
Therefore, people should learn to start from themselves in the world, and they will get better and better.