01, life is not a fairy tale
From the time of reading, Fang Xin in the eyes of Liu Jing and Xia Meng was the most beautiful fairy in the class, quiet and gentle, and indisputable from the world.
Perhaps as Xia Meng said, if other people have such a beautiful beauty as Fang Xin, they will also have no quarrel with the world, because this world is definitely full of kindness to Fang Xin.
It may be because of her allergies, or it may be because she has had too many choices since she was a child, but it has made her develop the habit of acting cautiously. In the face of many suitors, she has not been impatient and waited quietly.
In fact, a girl like Fang Xin, the life path will be relatively simple for many people. Don't be too good, go to a similar university, get a decent job, and then the prince who is best for her will appear at the most suitable time.
In the fairy tale, Fang Xin is the princess, who met her prince at the most suitable time and lived a happy and happy life ever since.
But will this be the case in reality, life is not a fairy tale after all, entering the palace of marriage is not the end of the story, but just choosing a way of life, and life is still going on.
02, "I raise you", has always been a scam
After graduating from college, Fang Xin entered a company to do public relations, and although the work was very busy, it was not valued by the company's leaders. Ma Zhenyu, distressed by Fang Xin's hard work, proposed to her and gave her a promise of "I raise you".
Even though she had another good job offer at the time, she gave up. In this way, he quit his job, married Ma Zhenyu, and became a full-time housewife.
Life after marriage is naturally different from falling in love, not only the heart-warming romance, but also the trivial daily life of chai rice oil and salt. She also thought that she would be so happy all the time, but her dream woke up, and the love disappeared.
During the epidemic, the official staff, stamped and certified Ma Zhenyu's cheating, fang Xin never thought that he would learn of his marriage breakdown in such a way.
In fact, the "I raise you" that the general public thinks is a lifelong commitment, whether it is the party that gives the promise or the party who accepts the promise, it is just a lie cloaked in romantic elements.
First, the person who gives the promise may indeed be sincere at the moment the promise is given. But a lifetime is so long, no one can guarantee that this promise can last a lifetime.
Second, if one day the couple's relationship breaks down, the party without a job will face greater difficulties in living independently again than it has been working. Like Fang Xin, who has no children and is still young, in fact, the difficulty is the lowest.
If you have already had children, or are not young, or do not have survival skills, the difficulty of survival will rise to different levels.
Third, from a risk perspective, even if the relationship has always been good, life has never been smooth. If the party who is raising the family has an accident, the other party still has to bear the pressure of life.
Therefore, whether it is from the feelings, life pressure, or avoidance of life risks, it is particularly important to have your own career and source of life, and never believe in the so-called "I raise you".
Because you never know tomorrow or the unexpected, which one will come first, and the only thing we can do is reduce the risk as much as possible.
03, the workplace is a turnaround battle
Fang Xin, who decided to divorce, returned to the workplace and returned to the company where she used to work, but the situation five years later is really difficult compared to five years ago.
No one wanted to give her a job, even if she had been positive, but both her colleagues and her superiors were prejudiced against her.
Five years ago, the company didn't pay much attention to her, but any important work would not be given to her. It's still the same five years later, and she even thinks she hasn't worked for five years, and her way of thinking has long been outdated.
They just treated her like a vase and wouldn't even take the time to get to know her a little. Beauty is certainly an advantage, sometimes it can bring good luck, but at the same time it is not a prejudice.
Fortunately, Fang Xin was not discouraged, and he fought for his own opportunity with a needle, and also used his strength to prove that as long as she was given the opportunity, she could catch it.
When encountering Zhao Qi's coercion and inducement, she also fought a rather beautiful counterattack, which not only relieved the crisis for the company, but also won quite beautifully.
Fang Xin's workplace turnaround battle can be said to be very beautiful, not only to prove his ability, but also to win the respect and attention of the company.
04, embrace a new life
Fang Xin and Ma Zhenyu's divorce was full of twists and turns, and when he first went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures, Fang Xin found that Ma Zhenyu was ready to divorce her, and immediately wanted to register for marriage, so the divorce procedures were not completed.
It is also for this reason that Fang Xin changed the idea of only taking back the money he originally bought, but chose to take back the part he deserved.
But it's not so easy to win the part you deserve. Ma Zhenyu not only wanted to win a little more money for himself, but also wanted to take the house for himself.
During the period of tearing between the two parties, Fang Xin's love life has made new progress, and Fang Xin finally figured it out that she did not want to have any involvement with Ma Zhenyu anymore.
She didn't want Ma Zhenyu to occupy her time and energy any longer, even for a day, even for a minute and a second, she couldn't wait to embrace her new life.
Therefore, she did not plan to spend any more time with Ma Zhenyu and directly divorced. She used to believe him because she loved him, and now she just wanted him to disappear from her life.