As an urban love light comedy featuring female group portraits, although "Love Is Delicious" has been completed for some time, it still feels a long aftertaste.
When watching, the mood is very relaxed and joyful, but at the same time it is sharp. While it brings people pleasure, there is no shortage of things that make people think deeply.
Here is a summary of 4 life philosophies that benefit girls for life, recommended to everyone ~
01, there is no road in vain, even if it is a detour
Not everyone can do what they love, and not everyone knows what they like to do in the first place.
Maybe you've tried many, many times before you found something you really enjoyed doing, only to give up halfway through.
But it's okay, don't get frustrated, the things you've given up and haven't done are all about preparing you for finding something you really enjoy doing one day.
If you've found something you're really passionate about, keep doing it.
There is no road in life, even if it is a detour. In the end, you will find that every step is the best arrangement in life.
02, the most essential problem of love
In the face of love, we often overlook one of the most essential questions: Who do we really love? Not who we should love?
In the secular view of mate selection, having a house, a car, and a stable income are the universal high-quality choices.
But the answer given by "Delicious Love" is the simplest and most direct, whether it is the beautiful Fang Xin, the successful Xia Meng, or Liu Jing, who is ordinary in all aspects.
They only choose the one they love, rather than the worldly definition of the opposite sex that their parents recognize as better and more reliable.
Everyone's standard of happiness should be defined by themselves, not just the single option of marrying a richer, better quality man.
03, always have the ability to live independently
Five years ago, Fang Xin, who had not worked for a long time, was touched by the so-called "I raise you" commitment. He gave up his career and became a full-time housewife.
Five years later, Ma Zhenyu cheated, Fang Xin decided to divorce, and then returned to the workplace.
At that time, Fang Xin believed in Ma Zhenyu's sincerity, and Ma Zhenyu, who made a promise at that time, may indeed be sincere, but perhaps he himself did not know how long his sincere deadline was.
So never give up your career and work because you believe in love. Because you never know tomorrow and the unexpected, which one will come early.
And don't think about relying on marriage to change your life, because you simply can't be sure if that dependence will always be reliable.
Relying on yourself is always more secure than relying on others. So at all times, you must have the ability to live independently.
04, define your own life by yourself
From birth, girls have been given a variety of different roles. When you are a child, you are a daughter, when you are married, you are a wife, when you have a child, you are a mother, and then you are a grandmother or a grandmother.
Different occupations also have different names. Returned to the family, that is, full-time housewife.
Secular standards, which give us too many definitions of girls, seem to tell us what we should do and what we shouldn't do.
However, as an independent individual, the environment and experience of growing up, and different personalities, must have made every unique and different girl.
Our lives, we have the right, the ability, and the courage to be defined by ourselves.
Although our life will not always be smooth, nor will it have the exact same road, all the ups and downs and joys on the road of life are our unique and irreproducible wealth.