1. If the heart is calculating, there are complaints everywhere; if the heart is relaxed, it is always spring. Nine times out of ten unsatisfactory things in the world, there are very few things that can make us obedient to us and those who can get our wishes. If we have to calculate, no one person or one thing can satisfy you. If a person lives for one lifetime, he also seeks a peace of mind, so why should he live with himself? The heart is one inch wide, and the road is one inch wide.
2. If you can put it down, you can better afford it. Whether life is distressed or happy, whether it is comfort or entanglement, it all stems from the self-state of mind, and there is no need to be bitterly entangled and sad. As long as you find the right direction, life will not be confused. Don't be dissatisfied, angry, or angry. Instead of complaining irritably about the unfair fate of life, it is better to calmly laugh at life.
3. Life is in the world, happiness is a lifetime, sorrow is also a lifetime, why not live this life happily? Look at everything openly, look down, bend the corners of your mouth, open your brows, and make things simpler, and you will find that the truth is far from being so bad! Although there is a lot of fatigue and hardship in life, there is no way back from life! Only by facing bravely and passing through strongly, the true destination of life is the purity and liberation of the heart.
4. The mountain has the height of the mountain, the water has the depth of the water, there is no need to compare, the wind has the freedom of the wind, the clouds have the gentleness of the clouds, there is no need to imitate, you think it is happy, go to find; you think it is worthwhile, go to wait; you think it is happy, just cherish. There is nothing that is not commented on, there is no one who is not guessed. Don't care too much about other people's opinions, don't blindly pursue something, be the truest and most simple self, act according to your heart, and have no regrets in this life.
5. In this world, there is no one-size-fits-all, perfect choice. You can't have spring flowers and autumn moons at the same time, you can't have fruits and flowers at the same time, you can't have all the benefits of yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You have to learn to accept the mutilations and sorrows of life, and then, peace of mind.
6. Happiness is not how big your house is, but how sweet the laughter in the room is; happiness is not how beautiful and handsome your lover is, but how bright your lover's smile is; happiness is not how enthusiastic the applause is when you succeed, but when you are frustrated, there is a voice that says to you: Friends don't fall! Happiness is not how many sweet words you have heard, but when you are sad and crying, someone says to you: It's okay, there I am.
7. Life should not be controlled by the past, it is the present that determines your progress; life should not be controlled by others, it is yourself who determines your destiny; life should not be controlled by money, what determines your happiness is contentment; life should not be controlled by hatred, what determines your happiness is forgiveness; life should not be controlled by appearances, and what determines your maturity is to see through.
8. There are three kinds of suffering in life: you don't get it, so you suffer; if you get it, but you can do it, you will also feel pain; give up easily, but later find that it is so important in your life, so you feel pain. Since it will all be painful when you don't get, get, and give up, why not take the gains and losses of life lightly, maintain a normal heart, and the pain will not be alleviated with it? Looking at gains and losses with a normal heart, life is not bitter at all.
9. Life is short, life is always full of sorrow and joy, and both gains and losses are attached. When we come into this world, we are not all flowers and a smooth road, and suffering and setbacks are also compulsory. So don't talk about pain lightly, don't pay too much attention to results, there is no right or wrong in life, only bearing. Learn to let go of what displeases you, and learn to let go of those who make you humble. As long as there is still tomorrow, today will always be the starting point.
10. What is true letting go? That is, one day, when you face your past embarrassment again, you hate and anger people, your heart is like water, no longer start thinking, calmly face, and smile. Even if others are in front of you, when you recount your past misfortunes, you seem to be listening to other people's stories, and there is no ripple in your heart. Let go, nothing could be further from it.
11. Angry because you are not generous enough; depressed because you are not open-minded enough; anxious because you are not calm enough; sad because you are not strong enough; sad, because you are not sunny enough; jealousy, because you are not good enough... The root cause of all these troubles is in ourselves, so every time a problem arises, it is an opportunity for us to find our own shortcomings.
12. Not disturbing the peace of others is compassion; not hurting the self-esteem of others is kindness. People live, just shine their own light, don't blow out other people's lights.
13. There are three ways to solve all problems: accept, change, leave. If you can't accept it, then change it, if you can't change it, then leave.
14. The human heart is like a container, the more happiness it is, the less depression is naturally less; the simpler it is, the less entanglement is naturally less; the more satisfaction it is, the less pain it is; the more it is understood, the less the contradiction is naturally less; the more tolerance it is, the less hatred it naturally has. You wash things with it, and it's a dishwash; you use it to make a cup, and it's a cup.
15. Some things do not need to be counted, time will tell everything; some people do not need to see, and the Tao is not different. The affairs of the world, the degree of the world, the reason of the world, the self-realization of man. Smiling slightly in the face of harm is open-minded; facing insults, ignoring it is a kind of transcendence. Patience is not cowardice, but tolerance; concessions are not incompetence, but generosity. "Calculating" right and wrong, "ignoring" oneself is quiet. May life be as calm as water!
16. Happiness is more important than face; a person, the greatest happiness, is someone who cares; a person, the biggest touch, is someone to tolerate; a person, the greatest satisfaction, is someone to wait; a person, the biggest luxury, is someone to understand; a person, the greatest happiness, is someone greeting. Happiness is not money, but health; happiness is not the future, but the present; as long as you live in good health, you are happy.
17. Our troubles in life are often like this: we are not willing to get what we don't get, we are afraid of losing, and we always think that others get better than our own. Life is shining, real in the ordinary, what belongs to you is what you like, and what you have is the best. Therefore, today should be cherished, missed will not come again; yesterday has been blown away by the wind, there is no need to reverie the complex of the past; tomorrow is still far away, we can only smell it in the efforts of the present.
18. Let the appearance be simpler, the connotation will be richer; let the needs be simpler, the soul will be richer; let the words be simpler, the communication will be richer; let the emotions be simpler, life will be richer; let the environment be simpler, the space will be richer; let the love be simpler, the happiness will be richer.
19. Life is also like taking a train, the scenery of the past is so beautiful that you stay, but you always need to move forward, you will leave, and then you tell yourself, it doesn't matter, I will definitely come back to see it later, but in fact, often you will never go back. The time that passes, the scenery that retreats, and the people who meet are eventually drifting away.
20. When the heart is tired, look at the world from another angle; when depressed, change the environment to breathe deeply; when confused, change the position to think; when hesitating, change the way of thinking to choose; when depressed, change the environment to find happiness; when you are troubled, change your thinking to solve; when you are inferior, change your thoughts to treat. In life, learn to think in a different position, your world will be simple, and people's hearts will be simple and happy.