Different cities, the same frequency of you
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"He said he liked me, what should I do?"
"You've got to hang him."
In the latest issue of "Mao Xuewang", Song Zu'er said a phenomenon that is particularly heartfelt in feelings:
Today's young people are falling in love and are becoming less and less active.
Because I have met people who are "can't guess" before.
Obviously, you feel that the object releases the signal of liking, but then you find that you think too much.
Slowly, everyone opened the mechanism of forcibly protecting themselves -
Definitely don't do the party that pays first.
In the past, when I was in school, I would be careful to keep my mind, afraid of being discovered.
I only dare to quietly look forward to being able to say "I like you" frankly when I grow up.
But now it's the complete opposite.
The enthusiasm and directness of children have become the most luxurious character of adults.
The other day I had dinner with an old friend and talked about the first girl he liked.
He said that if there was one word to describe the relationship, it would be gratitude.
"Grateful for the opportunity she gave me to ever be 100 percent good to someone.
Also grateful to her for letting me know that I could be so good to a man. ”
Dong Qing has a passage that has been circulated among many people, and he deeply believes it:
"I don't regret being nice to anyone.
Even if you look at the wrong person, even if you are disappointed, even if you hit the south wall.
Because I'm good to you doesn't mean how good you are, just because I'm good. ”
Fang Xin in "Love Is Delicious" is a princess who has been spoiled from childhood to adulthood.
In the eyes of her friends, she totally deserves better people.
Instead of marrying Ma Zhenyu, who is honest on the surface and has small actions behind him, even divorces him to watch him act.
First of all, it sold miserably: last year my company had a problem, asked my parents to borrow money, and they forced me to take the house to pay off the debt;
Then pretend to be affectionate: if it is not a last resort, I really want to leave the house to you, but I am really embarrassed;
Finally, settle the account: we have been married for all these years, how I treat you, you know very well.
But as Fang Xin finally said:
The love you give, I remember in my heart, because I have the same giving.
I don't care about the hurt you give, because I'm too lazy to take care of you.
In fact, I think that when I was a child and grew up,
In the face of the attitude of the person you like, the difference is fundamentally:
When we were young, we cared more about who each other was.
Is ta good at learning? Is it good looking? Isn't there a lot of specialty?
When we grow up, we still like people who shine.
But the premise is that "I" must be centered around.
Like Chandler in "Friends", he has had difficulty feeling the warmth of his family since he was a child.
So much so that when I grow up, I have both longing for and fear of intimacy.
But he and Monica went all the way from friends to lovers, and finally became a family.
It was because Monica gave him peace of mind and steadfastness that he had never felt before.
So when he proposed, he said:
"You've made me happier than I could have imagined, so if you want to,
I'm willing to give the rest of my life to make you as happy as I am. ”
Adults love someone for a lot of reasons:
I am constantly attracted to you, in addition to your personal charm,
I was even more fascinated by the joy you made me feel.
Recently, many colleagues in the company have been discussing one person: Song Zhiya.
She is one of the female guests in the variety show "Single is Hell".
Not only is there a beauty that makes people unable to remove their eyeballs, but her way of expression is also attractive.
However, it is not the fancy rhetoric of Neptune, but it is particularly sincere and direct:
"I'm very good at spoiling."
"You have to look me in the eye, I'm the one who communicates with my eyes."
"I'm most satisfied with you."
In her perception, there is no one more important than "me".
So when someone asks her, the ambiguous object has become indifferent to herself, or do you want to maintain a relationship?
If it were herself, she would choose to end it immediately, she said.
I've been saying in the past, be yourself and someone will love you.
But now I want to tell you: you can choose to love or be loved.
The premise is that you have never stopped loving yourself and that you will always be firm with yourself.
I hope that you who are "watching" can wave vigorously with the past.
Then in the 2022 that has just begun, meet a better self and someone more worth running to.
The rake that is always called "raked" ...
(Full of "popping beads"!) Delicious not on fire! Bad Fruit Cover! ）