Marriage is a city, and some people want to come in with enthusiasm, while others want to go out in frustration.
Career is a city, some people want to squeeze into it at any cost, and some people want to escape at great pains.
Life is actually a city, we walk in without understanding, and then walk out empty-handed.
Sometimes, we want to fly into a walled city, but we repeatedly run into a wall, and after a lot of hardships, we may not be able to enter.
Sometimes, we were tired of flying in a siege and wanted to come out to rest and catch our breath, but it was difficult to do so.
Sometimes, when we try our best to fly out of the siege, we find ourselves scaled and wounded, turning into tragedy.
A person who wants to enter the career siege must have strength and real talent, otherwise he may run into walls everywhere.
People who can't stand the pain of studying and studying may never be able to enter the city of career, and can only wander outside the city for a lifetime.
Although the ideal is beautiful, the reality is very cruel, and it is easier to squeeze into the city of career than to be proud and down-to-earth.
Study hard, work hard, accumulate knowledge, accumulate ability, and then step by step towards the ideal city.
Only people with a solid foundation, strong strength and profound knowledge can hold their own cities and reach the peak of life.
In the same way, if a person wants to enter the city of marriage, in addition to having a sincere heart, he must also have a tolerant heart.
For love, we must be determined, neither disturbed by external factors, nor tempted by outsiders.
In this way, we can step into the city of marriage step by step and open up a better life for two people.
People who enter the city of marriage, if they want to keep their own city, in addition to loving each other, they must also cherish and respect each other.
After staying in the city of marriage for a long time, there is no freshness in each other, and it is not easy to get along peacefully.
Once it is time to look at each other speechless, the city of marriage is difficult to defend, and it is a foregone conclusion to break free from the city.
Because marriages that cannot be understood and tolerated by each other are doomed to fall apart, and two people in the city are doomed to go against each other.
In life, there are many things, and once we choose, it is like entering an invisible siege.
Some of these so-called sieges are lively, and there are many like-minded people who get together and do what they like together.
Some sieges may be lonely, and you are alone in them, and no one else can come in, nor do you want to go out.
No matter what kind of siege the city is, squeezing in has a reason to squeeze in, and fleeing is also a last resort to escape.
In any case, we were all in and out of various besieged cities, coming and going, and sometimes trapped in them.
It is important that we break free from the shackles of our hearts, release our souls, and live our own wonderful lives.
This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.