Now many young couples have agreed from the time of marriage, and future couples will live together with two people, do not have children, and be a Dink family. The birth of a child will bring too much trouble to life, and if you do not have a child, two people can maintain their original lifestyle. You can do whatever you want, free from the constraints of life.
The exact opposite of the Dinks is the young people who want children. There are hundreds of people, everyone's ideas are different, and many couples feel that a family still needs a child. It's just that the child doesn't want to have it, it needs to go through the process of conception. Many couples have been married for many years but cannot have their own children, and the examination found that there is no problem with the physiology of the two people, but there is no way to conceive a baby.
Doctors will advise these couples that if they have sex during ovulation, the chances of getting pregnant are higher. So when is the ovulation period? These are also regular in time, and menstruation is a barometer of a woman's uterus that usually reflects the state of the uterus. Now many female friends are not in good health, and like to drink cold drinks, they usually do not pay attention to lifestyle, there are menstrual disorders. In this way, if you want to confirm the ovulation period, you can only rely on the ovulation test paper to judge.
If it is a menstrual pattern, it is easy to judge, in general, it is 11 to 18 days after the menstruation, and the chance of pregnancy can be improved if you have sex. At the same time, there are three signals during ovulation, and female friends who want to get pregnant must pay attention, because in addition to the first one, the other two are not easy to find, and you should pay attention to it.
The most obvious signal is a sudden increase in vaginal discharge. It is normal for women to have vaginal discharge, but usually female friends will pay attention to private hygiene and scrub every day. So usually there are still not many cases, but if 7 days after menstruation, suddenly found that the white discharge increases, and there are some differences with usual, more transparent and drawing, it is expected that the ovulation period has arrived. This is due to hormonal changes in these days.
An increase in body temperature is the second signal, but this temperature does not change much, so it is rarely detected. Most of the normal body temperature is 36.5 degrees, and the ovulation period is only 0.5 degrees higher. This requires a thermometer to detect it.
Finally, there will be bleeding from the private parts. And this generally occurs after menstruation, many people will think that menstruation is not clean, and ignore the ovulation period. Therefore, these three signals, except for the first one, are relatively easy to detect, and the next two signals are not easy to detect. If you want to have children, you can only observe them carefully, and it is possible to get what you want.
In today's society, many couples are prone to pregnancy, but they don't want children. And some couples have been pursuing a child for years. If you just want a child, it's acceptable. If it is to have a son, it is really not necessary to ask for a son. Sons and daughters are the same, they are both their own children, and there should be no patriarchal thinking.
In addition to these two types of families, some couples are still stuck in the entanglement of whether to have children or not. They feel that having children has advantages and disadvantages.
Having a child, in the simplest terms, is to complete a very important mission in life. Although passing on the generations is a traditional idea, in the modern sense, this is the idea that we have left behind when we come into this world. This child is also the fruit of our love, witnessing the evidence of our love.
In addition to completing the mission, it is also a very happy thing to accompany the child to grow up. Although children can be annoying at times, each time their cuteness can defeat all the unpleasantness of the world. Imagine coming home after a busy day and seeing the smiles of your children, you will feel that they have cured all their external troubles.
A family with children will have fireworks. Why many couples still want a child at the age of forty or fifty is that they are afraid of loneliness and need children to bring them laughter. The loneliness of the family needs children to help them resolve, regardless of the right or wrong of their ideas, but children do have such a role.
Of course, the arrival of the child comes with a lot of problems. For example, two couples are not as free as in the past, and they can do whatever they want. With children, there are constraints, you need to take time out to take care of children, and now many couples are after 80.90, they feel that they are still children, and they are a little afraid of taking care of children.
Financial stress is also a reason why many couples don't want children. Indeed, now the child's milk, diaper is a cost, and the cost of education when he grows up cannot be less. Many people say that children are gold-devouring beasts, which is also not unreasonable.
The question of whether to have children or not is a family problem, so families should discuss well. If you have the conditions to have children, try to have a child, take them to the world for a walk, and feel the wind and sun together.