On December 12, in the Aodong Century Children's Playground in Dalian, a scene that made people both distressed and helpless happened.
It is reported that a little girl accidentally peed her pants in the playground, and after the child's mother saw it, she actually carried her to the ground several times, and then kicked her several times, and kept scolding: "Don't remember for a long time, how not to let the car crash and kill you!"
According to the staff, because there is no geothermal heat in the playground, she rushed to the scene and was afraid that the child would get cold and wanted to pick up the child, but unexpectedly, the mother said with a bad face: "I am educating my own children, what do you care about?" From beginning to end, the little girl sat bare-buttocked on the ground, trembling with fear.
Netizens also angrily reprimanded the mother: this mother has a bad temper, even if she is angry, she can't do this! Worry about the impact on your child's development.
In my opinion, children are precious gifts from Heaven to their parents, and it is not easy for every living life to be born into the world, and this hard-won gift should be cherished and given enough love and care to children.
But the fact is that many parents like this news, the understanding of education itself has gone wrong, in the name of educating children, dignified "insult" children, but also called "love children".
Although criticism is an indispensable part of educating children, many parents have misunderstood the meaning of criticism, criticism is not an unprincipled scolding, and it is not a way for parents to vent their emotions. Such insults will undoubtedly cause harm to the young mind and leave a psychological shadow.
Parents all hope that their children can become self-reliant and self-reliant as soon as possible, but this ideal state requires parents' patient step-by-step education, which is by no means a simple hand-to-hand scolding can be exchanged. Appropriate education methods and good parent-child communication are the panacea to solve all educational problems.
An adult, but also a mother, must control their emotions, otherwise it is a great harm to themselves and to their children.