The fast pace of life has led to great changes in young people's living habits and behavior patterns. More and more people are afraid of marriage and childbearing, and they yearn for the freedom and comfort of being alone compared to the tedious life and all aspects of pressure after marriage. Although many people say that they are unmarried, in the end most of them can not escape the world, and embark on the road of marriage and children, but time has been postponed.
Wu Qilong is the male god of many women, and after working hard in the show business circle for decades to end a marriage, he finally waited for the goddess Liu Shishi.
Although he is much older than Liu Shishi, the two have a good relationship and have become a real couple in real life from the screen CP.
The Internet went viral about liu Shishi's family of three shopping photos, the photo of Wu Qilong holding the baby the whole time, very happy but slightly haggard and difficult, causing netizens to feel a burst of condolences, and constantly lamented that the male god is old, physical strength, appearance and other aspects are not the same style as before, it is not easy to take a baby at an advanced age.
Wu Qilong is 50 years old, and the old man brings him joy, happiness and satisfaction different from ordinary young parents.
But behind having this extraordinary joy also means that he needs to pay more energy, and aging and haggard are of course expected.
The idea of late marriage and late childbearing has swept through contemporary young people, and the upcoming problem of getting along between elderly parents and children is also coming.
What adverse effects are older parents prone to having on and with their babies? The child's living conditions cannot be adequately guaranteed
The age and physical strength of the elderly parents themselves have lost the vigor of their youth, but they still need to have a stable job to obtain the income of raising their children, and older age means that retirement comes faster.
It is easy to cause psychological pressure to children, and children are easy to compare with others in all aspects of the growth process, including parents. Parents are old, and aging in terms of body shape, appearance, physical strength and other aspects is easy for children to have inferiority complex.
On the other hand, age means that the probability of various diseases increases, children in life and learning to constantly shift attention, care about the parents' living state and mental state, psychological and spiritual pressure is easy to produce estrangement and generation gap, elderly parents are difficult to keep up with the rapid changes in social trends, can not catch up with the child's thinking jump, can not understand the child's heart, more difficult to choose the appropriate education methods and mode of getting along.
Excessive pressure on oneself accelerates aging, and it is easy to raise a baby. In the process of raising children, parents must not only maintain the living conditions of income guarantee children, but also take time to accompany and increase mutual closeness.
Late marriage and late childbearing is a life pursuit, but young people should take into account all aspects and not cause more pressure on their future married life because of their willfulness.