Good at using the trivialities of life to educate children

In life, we can get a lot of inspiration from everything we experience, and everything has a lot of truth, which we tend to ignore.

In the morning, when I went to the restaurant for breakfast, I heard the head chef and the waiter chatting, saying that Mr. Luo spent 100 yuan early in the morning to take a taxi to Chengde. From Beijing to Chengde, 100? How can it be! I thought to myself. Looking at them talking about noses and eyes, I left without saying anything.

In the afternoon, there was a phone call with Luo Zong, and after talking about the matter, I suddenly remembered the fare, so I asked in passing: "Leader, chengde to take a taxi today?" ”

"Yes."

"How expensive is that, and how much does it cost?"

"600."

“600？”

Obviously, it is far from the 100 that everyone said in the morning.

"How is it 600?" I couldn't help but ask.

"His car to Chengde to 600, it seems that several people, up to 4 people, each person is 150, but I don't know how long to wait to wait for 4 people, I can't afford to wait, I gave him 600, let him go."

I told my daughter about it in the evening.

She tilted her little head to look at me. - "What is this trying to tell me?" ”

"What I want to tell you is: First, you must distinguish what others say, and no matter what other people say about this matter, you must be clear in your own heart that this matter is true or false. You can't follow the crowd. Believe what others say. ”

The daughter nodded.

"Second, before you have no judgment, before you verify a thing, do not pass on false information at will. If your message is wrong, it may affect others for a while, but in the end it will affect your own credibility. Others will later question the veracity of what you say. Once a person loses credibility, it is difficult to recover. Also, there are many things that are not either/or, right or wrong, black and white, but multi-faceted. For example, if you can go to Chengde for 100 yuan, you must not arbitrarily say that it is impossible. Because under certain conditions, it is actually possible. You must be clear about what preconditions you have to do. That way, when you do things, you can plan carefully. ”

In fact, there are many similar things in life and work, and parents should be good at discovering these truths, and then tell their children to let them experience the truth from these things. #Chinese Family Education ##Gold Powder Community ##2021生机大会 #