Responsibility for the trivialities of life

In recent days, I have seen a vibrato video and feel quite emotional. The video is about a road, several cars rear-ended, coincidentally a mother with a child saw her husband actually sitting on the car with the little three, the mother angrily held the child and pointed to the man in the car, telling the child that this is your father, and then someone said in the comment area that the mother is too extreme, so there will be a shadow on the child. In fact, as a mother, I can understand the behavior of my mother. What do you get by working hard to bring up your children, toiling hard, saving to maintain this home? Male betrayal. Whose turn is it, who can say that they have a big belly? I want to say that it is not herself who makes a mistake, we are all just mortals, with seven passions and six desires, if we can make others belly when we encounter such a thing, I can only say that such a person is very bodhisattva, why should she pay for all this? Is it the end of taking care of children, taking care of the elderly, taking care of the family? Since the flowers outside are fragrant, then where do you put your responsibility and that conscience, not to mention that you are a person who has a family, a child, a wife, you don't want a face, you don't have a conscience, your wife wants, your children want, the old man wants it, after marriage, don't you think about how to take care of the family, take good care of the old man, how to educate the children well, how to live a good life? How can you still have the heart to play? In the face of such a person, he is really speechless, and if he has no responsibility, he should not start a family and establish a business, harm others and harm himself.