In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Mrs. Xing has a strange personality, blindly being cautious and flattering the bastard Jia Pardon, always seeking only self-protection, ignoring the pain of others, and even falling into the well.
A good Mandarin duck, talented and perfect, but she wants to help Jia pardon this old immortal to waste, fortunately for the time being, she has not succeeded.
A good Yingchun, gentle personality, outstanding appearance, but she allowed Jia Yu to sell it to people who were inferior to animals for a little silver, and died tragically a year later.
Although Lady Xing was not Yingchun's biological mother, she was her titular concubine.
With her personality, the "care and education" that Yingchun received from her mother-in-law is naturally difficult to say.
In the seventy-third time ,"The Idiot Mistakenly Picked up the Embroidered Spring Sac, Miss Cowardly Did Not Ask Lei Jinfeng", Jia's mother asked the people in the garden about the gambling of the crowd, and would punish the first three people heavily.
One of them is the milkmaid of the spring.
At that time, Yingchun's sisters, such as Tanchun, Daiyu and others, all helped to intercede (unsuccessfully), and Lady Xing deliberately ran to scold Yingchun.
The first point is the "strain" mentality.
Yingchun's people committed crimes that made Lady Xing feel humiliated, and Lady Xing scolded Yingchun, which was considered to be a joint responsibility punch.
As we all know, Yingchun's nursing mother does bad things and has nothing to do with Yingchun.
Yingchun's personality is casual and indispensable, and will not discipline and restrain others.
What's more, the nursing lady has a special status, which implies the meaning of half of the servant and the other half of the elders;
Jia Baoyu hated his nursing mother, Grandma Li, and he was so favored and so honorable, still helpless, unable to make any substantive moves.
Yingchun's personality that does not love to take care of things, whether the nursing mother gambles late at night, she is likely to be completely unaware.
Even if Yingchun knew about it, with the special relationship between Miss Gongzi and the nursing mother, she could not ask questions and could not effectively stop it.
But Madame Xing didn't theorize about this at all, she just vented her dissatisfaction.
After scolding Yingchun, Lady Xing scolded Wang Xifeng remotely.
This matter and Wang Xifeng are even more inseparable.
But Lady Xing didn't care about these things, she didn't care that it was a matter of course for the nursing mother to do something wrong, and she didn't care whether it was implicated or targeted on the matter, let alone the reasonable boundaries between people.
If she does not go along with her wishes, all juniors can scold.
The second is Lady Xing's dislike of Yingchun.
Here Madame Xing scolds Yingchun, which also contains the disgust of "why are you incompetent and will not restrain people".
At a certain banquet, the distinguished female relatives wanted to see the girls of Jia Province, and Jia Mu only arranged for Tanchun, Baochao, Daiyu, Xiangyun, etc. to go forward, and did not arrange yingchun and Xichun.
For this reason, Lady Xing scolded Yingchun again, and hated Yingchun as much as Exploring Spring.
You might say that this is an incentive education for the elders.
Apparently not.
First of all, Lady Xing did not have any real love and encouragement for Yingchun, and it was not so much that she was a bitter education, but rather that this was pure disgust and dissatisfaction.
Yingchun is unfortunate to meet a father who does not have her in his eyes (except when he sells her in disguise), and a mother-in-law who occasionally comes to see her and is full of disgust and scolding.
Fortunately, she is not bitter, indifferent and unconcerned.
Unfortunately, even such a so-called "ordinary day", she can not have it for a long time, which makes people sigh.