Today I want to tell the love marriage story of Nie Weiping, a Master of Go in China and awarded the title of "Chess Saint". Years, vicissitudes, only love lasts forever, let us savor different love together, find the true meaning of love, like it.
Who is Nie Weiping? Born in August 1952 in Shen County, Hebei Province. In 1982, at the age of 30, he was awarded the "Nine Dans" by the Chinese Weiqi Association. In 1988, at the age of 38, he was awarded the title of "Chess Saint" of Go, and this kind of honor can be imagined in his position in the Go world.
Nie Weiping
In the 1980s and 1990s, his name was almost a household name and was known to everyone. He was an idol in the hearts of many young boys and girls of that era, a role model to learn from. It can be said that the Go fever in China began to sweep the country from that time. Such a young and admired figure, his married love life is also concerned, but not praise, but criticized by people. He knows only a few things from the fact that his youngest daughter is as old as his own grandson.
Nie Weiping has been in the Go world since he was a child, so the people he contacts are inevitably inextricably linked to Go, and naturally his marriage and love life are inseparable from Go.
His first wife was Kong Xiangming, who grew up with him, and was also a master of Go, the leader of Chinese women's Go at that time, who won the "eight dans" of Go and won the national women's Go championship three times. The first female chess player in China to defeat the Japanese nine-dan chess player, she was known as China's first female Go player at that time. To tell you about it, Go is divided according to the level of the dan position, one paragraph is the lowest, and the nine paragraphs are the highest.
Two people have common interests, have the same great fame, grow up together, although Kong Xiangming is not very beautiful, but that era is still an era of advocating ideals, marriage and love also need to be tall, their combination in the Go world is also a sensation, even if it is a revival of the Go world, it is a match made in heaven, so that countless people envy.
Nie Weiping and his first wife Kong Xiangming
However, a woman who loves Go is definitely a woman who is more traditional in her thinking. After Kong Xiangming and Nie Weiping married in 1979, she put all her energy into her family and on Nie Weiping. She wanted her man to focus on his career with all his heart, and she only had his strong backing, never thinking more. Especially after the birth of their son in 1981, she was more devoted to the family, a good wife and mother, and was 100% at ease with her husband Nie Weiping.
Often many husbands' extramarital affairs are wrong under the 100% trust of their wives, and Nie Weiping has also made such a mistake. His wife Kong Xiangming believed too much that their feelings were unbreakable, and the result backfired, and her beloved husband, "Qisheng" Nie Weiping, cheated on him, and the other party was already pregnant with Nie Weiping's child.
Despite the anger, it can only end the 11-year marriage. After the divorce, Kong Xiangming changed his son Nie Yunxiao to her surname and changed his name to Kong Lingwen. This child was also a big man in the Go world later, but he chose to spend his life fighting against his father Nie Weiping.
Nie Weiping and his second wife, Wang Jing
Nie Weiping's second wife was Wang Jing, the sister of the famous actor Wang Gang. At that time, Wang Jing was a soprano singer in the Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe. Also fond of Go, they knew each other at a party, and then Nie Weiping began to pursue Wang Jing frantically despite his married status.
After a few months of dating, Wang Jing became pregnant, and this matter could not be hidden. In the end, Nie Weiping divorced the original partner and married Wang Jing. What made Nie Weiping happy was that on the evening of March 8, 2004, the 52-year-old chess saint Nie Weiping was overjoyed and named Nie Yunqing.
Wang Jing is a singer of the General Political Affairs and the sister of the famous actor Wang Gang. Because he loves Go, he often plays chess with Nie Weiping. Although Wang Jing is a singing actress, her thinking is still traditional. After getting married, having children, and disregarding her own career, she was bent on the family, and she thought that Nie Weiping was a good man she was very assured of for life.
Wang Jing's brother Wang Gang saw this state of his sister and said to his sister: "Women blindly pay and sacrifice for the family, and they may not be able to get happiness, you still have to have your own career, find women's dignity and independence." ”
In a word, in the end, men understand men, and men know famous men better. It is reasonable to say that a man in his fifties, although he is a famous man, is also rushing to old age, but Nie Weiping is an old man with an old heart.
Nie Weiping and his third wife, Lan Liya
Another decade, 48-year-old Nie Weiping and Wang Jing divorced in 2000. This time it was also a divorce reason for personality that did not fit the general character of this celebrity.
Nie Weiping did not stop emotionally, this time he chased a Go lover, and now he is a fan, Lan Liya, a Guizhou girl 23 years younger than him.
In a media interview, Nie Weiping said that his marriage to Lanlia was like picking up a gold currency. Lan Liya was born in Guizhou in 1975 and grew up working in Shanghai. Speaking of acquaintance with Nie Weiping, it was also a coincidence.
In 2001, the Shanghai Nie Weiping Chess club was established, and LanLia was the department manager of the club. Nie Weiping if the treasure, within half a year non-stop flying to Shanghai crazy pursuit of Lanlia, Lanlia was impressed by Nie Weiping, of course, also by Nie Weiping celebrity status blessing, in April 2001 to know, in August of that year the two people stepped on the red carpet, can be described as speed, but also shows the extent of Nie Weiping's love for Lan Leia.
Son Kong Lingwen
Lan Liya gave birth to a daughter named Nie Yunfei for Nie Weiping in 2004. This year, Nie Weiping's grandson was born in Japan. At this point, Nie Weiping's three marriages, three wives gave birth to 2 sons and 1 daughter for Nie Weiping.
Nie Weiping talked about these three marriages, and the most satisfied was his third wife, LanLia. Lan Liya and Nie Weiping have a huge age difference, social prestige, social status, and economic conditions, which determine Lan Liya's obedience to Nie Weiping's words, and her husband sings with her wife. In particular, LanLia's meticulous care of Nie Weiping's life and life made Nie Weiping, a person who did not like to stay at home, start to eat at home, drink in moderation, and dress exquisitely.
Nie Weiping and his son Kong Lingwen
I analyzed the reasons for this, one is that Nie Weiping did not have any pressure on the economy, status and so on in front of LanLia. The other is that Lan Liya belongs to the family-type daughter-in-law, cooking and cleaning up the housework, etc., Nie Weiping only needs food to open her mouth to reach out.
In short, marital happiness or unhappiness is not to look at your status, the economy is higher than the other party, but to see if the two people find a point of convergence, to achieve a seamless cooperation. That's the most critical.