Everything About My Wife is a 2012 South Korean film directed by Min Kuidong and starring Lim So-kyung and Lee Sun-kyun.
The male protagonist Lee Sun-kyun may feel strange to everyone, but he has his presence in another Korean fire movie, that is, Bong Joon-ho's "Parasite", lee Sun-kyun plays the man of the rich family.
It has to be said that after South Korea began to implement the film rating system, a large number of excellent film and television practitioners emerged. The "Everything About My Wife" that I want to talk about today is just a very ordinary drama film, but the ideological connotations expressed in it are very close to reality. Of course, the film does not show these things in a flat and direct way, but uses a very brilliant idea to unfold from the side.
A man and a woman develop from sweet love to marriage, from experiencing the itch of seven years to boring and boring. How exactly did this come about? Is this really inevitable? These crucial questions can be found in the movie.
Do-hyun and his wife Jeong-jin have been married for seven years, and their relationship has entered a low period. Zhenren was originally gentle and virtuous, but after getting married, it changed a little bit. When Do-hyun goes to the toilet, Jeong-jin will make him drink the celery juice he least wants to drink. The postman threw the newspaper at will, and Zhenren would scold without any scruples. Daoxian casually said a divorce, and Zhenren cried and scolded, venting his dissatisfaction.
Jeong-jin becomes nagging and mean, full of complaints, and Do-hyun can't bear it and is determined to divorce. But if you open your mouth and say divorce, you are not only afraid of seeing your wife's painful appearance, but also reluctant to your wife's exclusive delicious cuisine. Therefore, there is only one way to get the wife to initiate divorce.
At this time, a soul figure appeared, Zhang Shengji, who was known as the "Love Saint".
Many married couples will have such a question, the lover before marriage and after marriage changes very much, as if reborn. Men think so, women think even more. Gentle and romantic before marriage, becomes irritable and indifferent after marriage. Understanding and considerate before marriage becomes selfish and stubborn after marriage. Beautiful and handsome before marriage, it becomes annoying to look at after marriage.
I have to say that people's feelings are very strange, but women are stranger than men. The same person, after experiencing something, will feel different. At the same time, this is also a defect of people, people often can only see the surface, can not go deep into the essence, and most importantly, can not see themselves clearly.
Daoxian bitterly begs Zhang Shengji to pursue his wife, and Zhang Shengji also finds that the outspoken Zhenren seems rare and very challenging. Therefore, under the all-round revelation of Daoxian, Zhang Shengji began to act.
For Zhang Shengji, a famous lover, the core concept of pursuing women is very simple, that is, to touch women's emotions. Applicable to women of any age. Zhang Shengji has gradually improved with his rich experience, superb acting skills, and the clever cooperation of Daoxian. Zhenren feels that he has met a good man who understands himself and is obsessed with love.
At the same time, Daoxian found that his wife who fell in love had completely changed, no longer nagging and mean, but showing a long-hidden tenderness. Jeong-in prepares delicious dishes for Do-hyun and expresses his love affectionately, with tenderness in his eyes. At that moment, Do-hyun remembered how he had felt when he had fallen in love with Jeong-jin.
Why does marriage have a seven-year itch? The answer is hidden in this plot.
Once a virgin, gentle and virtuous, under the washing of life, a little bit has changed. However, when Zhang Shengji's pursuit was pursued, it was like returning to the years when he was in love. The qualities that have been buried for a long time are gradually revealed. All, people have never changed, what has really changed is the mentality.
When people are in love, they pursue the beautiful enjoyment, ignoring the edges and corners of life. Married couples, the easiest to feel is the edges and corners of life, the beauty of the past is consumed in this process. Many couples live for many years after marriage and never say to their lover, "I love you." "You may feel that the old husband and wife are bored to say this." However, if you can really say this sentence affectionately, the lover will definitely be able to feel the beauty of the past. Love never goes away, it's just that we abandon the way and mindset of pursuing love.
In the process of contacting Zhang Shengji, Zhenren became more attractive and found that she was in love with her beautiful wife again. So, he told Zhang Shengji to stop all this and want to live well with his wife. However, Zhang Shengji told him that he should sincerely pursue Zhenren.
Zhang Shengji is an old driver of the love scene and soon wins the heart of Zhenren. Daoxian couldn't bear to see all this happen, and he told the truth and the matter. Zhenren, who learned the truth, was desperate, and all the beauty was a scam planned by her husband.
There is no doubt that the next thing two people face is divorce. Despite Do-hyun's sincere apology, Jeong-jin is adamant about divorce. Before going through the divorce procedures, they had their last meal together and happened to encounter an earthquake. This scene almost coincided with their first encounter. Daoxian confessed affectionately again, and the two people reconciled as before.
There is a detail at the end of the film where Do-hyun asks Jeong-jin why he smiles when he accepts a flower from Jang Seung-ki, and Jeong-jin replies, "Because I think of you, you were like this for the first time." "So, what really makes Zhenren change is the feeling of being in love."
Many couples get married and become partners in order to live. However, if the husband and wife do not have feelings as a basis, they can only get a boring and tedious feeling. The only way to break this spell is to continue the way you were in love and maintain a relationship mindset. When you are in love, eat together, go shopping, watch movies, give gifts for the New Year's Festival, travel from time to time, or enjoy a visit to the hotel. After marriage, you can still do this, the frequency does not need to be too high, and the feelings can be preserved.
For the sake of career, for work, for life, for those little things, to give up feelings, to give up family, this is not worth it, at least for the vast majority of people is not cost-effective. Some couples will be very unhappy for trivial things, or even divorce. Some couples are always complaining about each other, but they can't see the advantages of their lover. What defeats a happy marriage is not time, not money, nor marriage itself, but our laziness, willfulness, and ignorance.
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