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Watching "21 Days Before Marriage", the wedding of Wu Zun and Lin Liyin really touched me.
I found that Wu Zun was really a very careful and gentle man, and he prepared a lot of things very well.
Their wedding was many years late, and although they had been registered as early as 2004, they had not held their own wedding for various reasons. Wu Zun also felt that he owed Lin Liyin, and that the wedding also needed serendipity, and when the program team found Wu Zun, it also coincided with him.
Wu Zun is very careful to prepare for their wedding, he also built a love museum at the wedding site, which records everything in his past with Li Yin, how he met, how he fell in love, how he came over, bit by bit, Wu Zun has remembered.
Even a towel that Li Yin gave to Wu Zun 24 years ago, he still kept it.
Wu Zun is a person who loves records, he will be very careful to keep the past things, more because of love, because love will be so hard, but also willing to do a lot of things for her to please her. Love is like this, it will make you tired and willing to do something for each other, but you can feel very happy when you do it.
I am very envious of the beautiful love between the two of them, I met and fell in love at the age of 16, and I have experienced so many years of ups and downs, but I still have a original intention for each other.
Such love is beautiful, although Wu Zun has been questioned by some people because of lying, but there may really be something difficult to say. We all love beautiful things, and it's rare to still have a relationship that can be like this.
Long love is difficult, how many people can not get tired of loving all the time?
We all want love to be fresh, but we also know that it is never so easy to keep it fresh.
There is a feeling that is predestined, and the fate between you is also unclear. For example, Wu Zun and Lin Liyin, the two of them coincidentally were born in the same month of the same year, Wu Zun was born a day earlier than Li Yin, Wu Zun also jokingly said: "Maybe we are both in the same hospital, and I am waiting for your arrival." ”
The two of them met at the age of 16 through Li Yin's cousin, and when they first met, although both of them were still young, they identified each other like that. Later, after Wu Zun and Li Yin fell in love for a month, he went to Australia to study and has always missed Li Yin. The two of them often say "I love you, I miss you", they like to say what they miss each other, and how deeply they love must let each other know.
Wu Zun said: "Sometimes I really can't imagine that if I didn't know her, then these 24 years would not be blank." But looking back on the past, I am grateful that I met Li Yin, because meeting and falling in love can have so much beauty. ”
Love needs the persistence and management of two people, you work hard for each other, seriously maintain, this relationship will be long-lasting and touching; and if you love and forget your heart, then this relationship will also make you want to die. In the end, it is still necessary for both people to maintain their original hearts.
The wedding of Wu Zun and Lin Liyin also made me see three points about "how to keep love fresh", which is worthy of serious study by all of us.
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Wu Zun is a person who likes to record love, he is very careful, he will still find the perfume he gave to Li Yin, as well as the towel that Li Yin gave him, many things, including the diary he wrote, the movie disc they watched for the first time, as long as it is of great significance to the feelings of the two of them, he will remember.
When a person remembers the good, he will only be more grateful for what he has, and he will know more about how hard-won this love is.
Why do too many of us have feelings that have become weaker and weaker later?
Because most of us don't record it, you have had a lot of good things, but those good things have passed with the years. There are some things that you don't deliberately remember, and when you think back on them years later, the effects in your mind are very vague. Especially as the contradictions in your lives grow, you become less and less concerned about each other.
Do we often wonder if there is still love between us?
When love becomes the daily chai rice oil and salt in marriage, and everything becomes trivial, how can you ever say to him, "I love you". The beauty of the past has also faded away, and over time he still has a little weight in your heart.
To learn to record the beauty between you, all the travel, or the important days related to you, when you do "record" this with your heart, you will also examine the love between you and cherish it more.
I saw His intentions in the process of Wu Zun's preparation for the wedding, he was doing his best to give Li Yin an unforgettable wedding, from the whole decoration of the wedding to the museum about their love, every detail was intentional.
Because of the epidemic, their weddings are only attended by relatives of both sides, in fact, there are very few people, but we see that the preparation is not ambiguous at all, and everything has a very special meaning.
Not only wu zun is very careful to Li Yin, but also Li Yin's intentions for Wu Zun, she printed their love fairy tale books on the skirt of the wedding dress, and that skirt can be turned into a cape, and later Li Yin gave her skirt to Wu Zun at the wedding. Wu Zun draped it like a knight prince, and also came to a princess hug, their wedding, everything was too beautiful.
Their daughter made the wedding cake by hand, and their son painted a picture, what a perfect wedding, what a happy family of four.
Good love must have "intentions", this intention refers to both of you, when you have intentions for each other, have sincerity, what love will not last forever? Too many of us are getting married, becoming less attentive, and gradually becoming powerless and disappointed in each other.
If you want to be with your lover for a long time, then you must learn to be grateful, do not take what your lover does to you as right, and do not selectively ignore and sneer. He is your lover, the person you have decided to hold hands with for a lifetime in this life, you must cherish him, be grateful for what you have, and be more content.
When you encounter some problems in life, think more about what is your original intention to be together?
Although it is an instinct to change hearts, loyalty is always a choice. Since you love, try to love him with your heart, take care of him, and maintain the love between the two of you.
Only by cherishing, gratitude, and contentment will the love between you last longer.
We are fortunate to be able to be with each other for three lifetimes, and with this awareness, we will be happier.
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After the last episode of "21 Days Before Marriage" was broadcast, Wu Zun also sent a long Weibo, which had a very touching sentence:
"Love and family are so important to me, she has given me motivation in my life and given me the courage to pursue our family's dreams!" It is also because of this happiness that I am more optimistic and content with life! A person's mentality can judge his fate, and I am very grateful that I have found her who can accompany me for a lifetime, and also let me look forward to the future of life. ”
Wu Zun is a person who attaches great importance to love and family, he is a good husband, but also a good father. He is very happy, with the love that many people envy, the ideal marriage and family, but to get all this, the main thing is that both of them are carefully managed and maintained.
At the wedding, Wu Zun and Li Yin begged: "If there is a next life, will you still marry me?" ”
No one knows whether there will be a next life, but because they will definitely be old together in this life, they can only ask for the next life to continue to be together.
16 years old acquaintance and love, a full 24 years, love for 8870 days, such a long time, many sweet moments Wu Zun remembered, the more memories the more you will cherish what you have, because you know very well, how unhappy it is between you.
I write this article in the hope that more people who love each other will record the beauty between you, to be grateful and to be attentive to each other, to be honest, when you really do this, you will be happy, and your love will last forever.
Good life management of the love between you, do not forget with time, but always be grateful for the existence of each other.
Love well, may more people who have love accompany them to old age; I also hope that those who have not encountered love can meet their own beauty.
Today's topic: How to keep love fresh? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.