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Author: The Healing Girl
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01
"21 Days Before Marriage" came to an end.
In the last issue, the hottest ones were Wu Zun and Lin Liyin. They were together for 24 years and finally had a make-up wedding.
Weddings are dreamy, like a combination of a princess and a prince.
Perhaps what a woman is most looking forward to in this life is such a wedding. However, there are still many unfriendly voices, because Wu Zun was secretly married when he first debuted.
But it's been so long, there's no need to hold on.
Maybe Wu Zun is not the best idol, but as a husband, I see his intentions and thoughtfulness.
Their wedding, there are a few points that moved me.
Wu Zun and his daughter once made a love fairy tale book, which recorded the process of Wu Zun and Lin Liyin meeting and falling in love.
Lin Liyin sewed these paintings on her wedding dress, and Wu Zun couldn't help but cry when she saw them.
Wu Zun made a love museum for Lin Liyin, which contains items related to the love between the two, such as previous diaries, letters, perfumes, stacked stars and so on.
These objects are of great significance to them, and every time they see an object, the past is vividly remembered. The two went through a long distance, separated, and then married and had children, and the ups and downs of it were only known to them.
Some people say that the wedding planned by Wu Zun is a show, I really don't think so, if you really want to put on a show, directly contract a hotel, it seems that high-end luxury is still convenient.
However, Wu Zun was set up at home, and it was also so warmly arranged, especially the love museum, the things inside were not deceptive.
No matter how much you criticize Wu Zun, I always think that Wu Zun and Lin Liyin present us with the best look of love.
Perhaps there are some elements of show, but it can be seen that Wu Zun is grateful and cherished to Lin Liyin.
And the most valuable point about Lin Liyin is that her attitude of not being humble, even if she is the woman behind Wu Zun, she has never looked down on herself to elevate the other party.
She is not good at words, but there is always a kind of determination and gentle strength in her. Zhang Ailing once said that marriage is like a gorgeous cheongsam, and the back is full of lice.
It is true that marriage is always full of chai rice oil and salt and triviality, and few people can do it decently.
But in Wu Zun and Lin Liyin, I saw the most decent scene of feelings.
For a full 24 years, the two worked hard and cherished each other to build a warm and happy home.
02
In the relationship, it is not easy to be decent, and the emotional intelligence and ability to deal with emotions are very high for both couples.
What makes People like about Wu Zun and Lin Liyin is that in their lives, they always have a gentle attitude, are not impatient, and never blame each other.
I remember that in one issue, Wu Zun asked Lin Liyin to help him take pictures, but no matter how he took pictures, Wu Zun was not satisfied, but Wu Zun did not have any complaints, just patiently taught on the side.
In marriage, it is not easy to achieve emotional stability.
We often see some couples, always having a chicken and a dog jumping, and quarreling without saying a few words.
When problems are encountered, the face is put on the face, the cold war of the Cold War, and finally the atmosphere of the whole family becomes tense.
I have a relative, the couple has been married for more than 20 years and have quarreled for more than 20 years.
Every time I go to their house, it always makes me fidget. For example, when eating, a table of people chats and chats well, but the husband and wife are not me or you are you, which makes a table of people very embarrassed.
Their quarrels are not big things, they are all trivial, such as today's rice and water, which dish salt is more.
I don't know how they spent so many years together, all I do know is that the marriage was a torture for both of them. In the Chinese family, there are very few couples who can talk well.
More couples, with the mentality that you and I are married and running, randomly accuse each other, expose the shortcomings in front of others, and even attack each other with vicious language.
Therefore, don't criticize the feelings of Wu Zun and Lin Liyin, to tell the truth, we ordinary people can do half of them in their feelings, and they will be much happier.
03
Dignity in feelings, there is also a key point is to cherish. This kind of cherishing must be for both sides. In the feelings of Wu Zun and Lin Liyin, I saw their cherishing of each other.
As Wu Zun wrote in the article:
"Love and family are so important to me... She gives me motivation in my life and gives me the courage to pursue our family's dreams! It is also because of this happiness that I am more optimistic and content with life! A person's mentality can judge his fate... I am very grateful for finding her who can accompany me for a lifetime, and also make me look forward to the future of life. ”
Therefore, the picture books he made for Lin Liyin and the love museum arranged by him were really not for show, but they were truly grateful to Lin Liyin for so many years.
And Lin Liyin was not pampered and proud, and every time Wu Zun did everything for her, she could have positive feedback.
Just as she sewed the picture book on her wedding dress, although she did not say anything, this move was worth a thousand words.
Their mode of getting along is comfortable, and I can catch what you throw, so feelings can flow and will enter a positive cycle. In many marriages, the most feared thing is that there is no fluid way of getting along.
For example, the husband bought a bouquet of flowers for his wife, but the feedback received was: "What money you waste, this bouquet of money can buy a few packs of diapers." ”
For example, the wife offered to go shopping, but the husband lay motionless on the sofa: "After a week of work, I am so tired, I am too lazy to go out." "When the emotional pattern of both husband and wife becomes a throw, a rejection, over time, the feelings fade."
Wu Zun and Lin Liyin can be so sweet together for 24 years, it is really not simply lucky, but contains a lot of business wisdom.
Wu Zun is happy to create surprises and romances again and again because every time Lin Liyin's feedback is: "I like it so much, you are so good." ”
The greatest decency in a relationship is that after seeing the worst side of each other, still give each other the most gentle side, I can catch your emotions and give, and be grateful for everything.
It's hard to be decent, but I hope you and I can do our best on the road of marriage.
END.
Today's Topic:
Do you think wu zun and Lin Liyin's beauty is a show or true love?
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