Ms. Zhang is middle-aged, married to her husband for more than ten years, has a daughter who is in junior high school, and her life is relatively stable, and the family of three is happy and harmonious. Of course, on such a day, the premise is that there is no sister-in-law, and in Ms. Zhang's view, the problem of the sister-in-law's body is purely habitual by the in-laws and husbands. After all, if you can rationally and responsibly educate a child from a young age, you will not be in your thirties and still look idle and unenterprising all day.
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Speaking of Ms. Zhang's sister-in-law, she did not say less about her as a sister-in-law, just so that she could understand something, but her husband and in-laws always had countless reasons to protect her, and over time, Ms. Zhang did not bother to say, after all, she was the so-called "outsider". Coupled with not living together, Ms. Zhang also went with her, but this did not prevent Ms. Zhang from not being accustomed to her sister-in-law, after all, she could divorce several men, and there must be a problem in her. But as parents and brothers, they did not make their daughters and sisters aware of the problems in themselves, let alone urge her to correct the problems, they never considered such things. No, the sister-in-law was kicked out of the house by the third husband," because she was lazy and idle, and she ate white rice all day long except for money. Originally, the sister-in-law's divorce must have gone home to live with her parents, and the first two times were also done, but now that they are older, they also know what kind of person this little daughter is, as long as she comes home, it is absolutely laborious, after all, she is the kind of person who can nibble on the oldest. With the first two experiences, the in-laws were really afraid, and then they hit the idea on the son and daughter-in-law, and after consulting with the son, Ms. Zhang's husband decided to take her sister to the house.
Of course, Ms. Zhang disagrees, after all, people like the sister-in-law are troublesome wherever they go, and the husband and in-laws, as the closest people, should not indulge, but should let her reflect. Therefore, when the husband said to Ms. Zhang: "My sister is divorced again this time, but my parents are now older, let's take over this burden, let her come to live in our house for a year." Ms. Zhang was not happy at the moment, and directly said her thoughts: "How old is your sister this year?" Thirty-somethings still can't be independent? Even if she is divorced, she should also rent a house to live in, and such an adult will have to trouble her parents and brothers, do you think it is appropriate? But the husband insisted on his own opinion: "How much trouble can my sister have, there are many people in the family, isn't there more than one pair of dishes and chopsticks!" My sister has just divorced now, it is a time of sadness and helplessness, as her only brother, how can I stand idly by and see death without saving! Seeing that she and her husband could not speak clearly, Ms. Zhang went directly back to her mother's house in a huff, leaving this home for their two brothers and sisters to toss around.
Back at her mother's house, Ms. Zhang first contacted her daughter, because it was a boarding school, so she went home on the weekend, and this time Ms. Zhang let her go back to her grandparents' house first. Ms. Zhang had thought that it would be at least a month before her husband realized what a big mistake it was to take her sister-in-law into the house, and then she would come home again. Who thought that the day had only passed a week, the husband regretted it, because the sister-in-law was sloppy and did not pay attention to hygiene, and every day she made a mess of the family, Ms. Zhang's husband came home tired, and he had to look at the messy home, almost crying without tears. If you can still make up without paying attention to hygiene, then the sister-in-law is idle and spends a lot of money, because all the expenses need to be borne by the brother, they are all workers who work, and the sister-in-law can spend a month's salary a week, and no one can eat it. At this time, the husband finally remembered Ms. Zhang's words, and finally decided to drive her sister out of the house, and ordered her not to go to her parents, and also made her parents absolutely determined not to let her enter the house again, allowing her to find a way to survive.
Now, of course, Ms. Zhang has returned home, after all, her husband has also understood through this matter that she cannot be emotional, which is also a kind of growth. What do you think?