Among the talented women of the Republic of China, the most compared should be Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman. Both of them were not only talented women at that time, but they both had love with Xu Zhimo. Two people are naturally compared by future generations. The two of them were compared for a lifetime, and finally they were able to tell the difference between winning and losing.
When Lu Xiaoman was about to die, he expressed his request to be buried with Xu Zhimo. However, Lu Xiaoman's request was not agreed to by Xu Zhimo's ex-wife and Xu Zhimo's son.
After all, Xu Zhimo's parents did not like or even admit that Lu Xiaoman was the daughter-in-law of the Xu family. Moreover, Lu Xiaoman did not give birth to a son and a half daughter to Xu Zhimo, and he was not filial to the queen.
Coupled with Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo, their feelings became worse and worse after marriage, and they often quarreled. Xu Zhimo's son believes that Lu Xiaoman's marriage to his father actually exists in name only.
Because of the above reasons, Lu Xiaoman's request to be buried with Xu Zhimo was not supported by any of Xu's family. So in the end, after Lu Xiaoman's death, Lu Xiaoman could only rely on his cousin and niece to build a memorial tomb for her in a cemetery in Suzhou.
In the days when Lin Huiyin was about to die, her husband Liang Sicheng was always by her side and took care of her.
Although Lin Huiyin, because when he died at two o'clock in the morning, Liang Sicheng slept next door, and finally did not see Liang Sicheng for the last time, But Lin Huiyin was still happy. Because she knew that Liang Sicheng was also in the hospital and was accompanying her.
Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng have children, so Lin Huiyin has no regrets about being childless in life. After Lin Huiyin's death, because of Lin Huiyin's contribution to architecture, she was buried in Babaoshan. There is also a beautiful wreath of white jade engraved under her tombstone, which represents the respect of the people for her contribution.
Lu Xiaoman lived a simple and unruly life, but after his death, he could only rely on his relatives in his mother's family to help deal with his own affairs. He couldn't even be buried with his husband. Although Lin Huiyin died early, before she died, she was carefully cared for by the people she loved most, and after her death, she was also respected by the people.
The two women who had been compared for a lifetime finally Lin Huiyin was happier than Lu Xiaoman. What do you think?