The story takes place in Greece, where Jesse and Selena come on holiday with their two lovely daughters. For many fans, it should be a great joy that they are finally together and married. I think this is the real beginning to reveal the true face of love. Of course, I especially admire their bravery, being able to be true to their feelings and overcome all difficulties together, rather than what is eaten in the bowl and looked at in the pot. Where in the world is there such a cheap thing, the family has a virtuous wife, the outside still wants to find some fun, what good things are taken advantage of by you.
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I'm still the teenager I used to be
Recently, Xiao Xi has been looping a song "Teenager".
When Jesse appeared, although I knew that 9 years had passed, I still had a trace of emotion in my heart, and I remembered that the spirited teenager had not escaped the pig-killing knife of the years after all.
The age of the male and female protagonists also goes from adolescence to middle age in reality, and this sense of powerlessness that youth is gone, faint, and silent.
I don't know if people, especially men, have to become greasy middle-aged uncles, with scruffy beards, untrimmed edges, and big bellies.
In addition to the books you have read and the road you have traveled, there is also the fact that you have a good life.
Do you still have to blame the misfortune and destruction of married life for this shabby virtue?!!
Every age group has the charm it deserves at this age.
I have always been that teenager, and I have always been in my heart, I like the current me, far better than I used to be, so that I become a better and better self, is the state that should be.
If you have to abuse yourself, you can only send you two words, you deserve it.
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The loss of emotional control hurts others, but also hurts themselves
The most bloody scene in the whole film is the last ten minutes of the film, and it is also the most touching point of the whole film.
A family of four travels, with children, visiting friends, and spending most of the day. The child was taken care of by a friend, and the couple finally had a time alone.
They walked the streets holding hands, as they did 18 years ago. Take a walk by the sea, sit a seat, how to look very romantic, and then two people sweetly spend the night.
If that's how the story goes, that's definitely not why I like it.
The high energy came ahead, they returned to the hotel, their clothes were taken off, and they began to quarrel, the more they cursed, the more hysterical, selena finally snatched the door and came out.
From negotiation, to resentment, to contempt, and finally to collapse. The whole process is one link at a time, and the emotions are progressive.
Quarrel is the most emotionally out-of-control, most tragic act of human beings, and it can even produce devastating results.
If you make a big fuss in front of underage children, it will definitely be a disaster.
You can scold the person you once loved so much for nothing, and the language is violent, and only people can do it.
The person concerned may not know what happened at that time, or perhaps more often than not, it is a catharsis. If you can record the video, it is recommended to watch the replay, full of vicious absurdity, which has little to do with how many books you have read, how talented you are, and what age you are.
When people are emotionally excited, they often make wrong judgments and decisions, and in order to avoid tragedy, first calm themselves for three minutes.
The outburst of emotions is only for a moment, and we should learn to control emotions instead of making ourselves a lunatic.
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Accepting imperfection is the true face of love
In fact, for the part of marriage, I have no right to speak, I have no way to experience, how to feel.
I have to say, what marriage is the graveyard of love, what is chai rice oil and salt after marriage, what love will become family affection, bar la, I actually want to roll my eyes.
From a philosophical point of view, everything has two sides. Why not marriage is the sublimation of love, after marriage can also dance ballet stir-fry with a baby, why can't I see you more every day.
From selena's three-time back-and-forth rush out of the door and back to continue scolding this move, it has been shown that she cares a lot about Jesse, and the more she cares, the more she cares, the more she hopes that her efforts will be equally reciprocated.
But everyone has flaws, and some aspects of him can't meet your expectations, so you have to completely negate this person.
We love this person, not to love his strengths, but to accept his shortcomings, and in the end it is completely impossible to ignore the shortcomings, because we are not perfect, we need each other, rely on each other.
At the end of the film, Jesse and Selena reconcile, which in my opinion does not mean that they will not have contradictions in the future.
For example, on the issue of infidelity, the mystery phenomenon in marriage, what makes me even more incomprehensible is why most people do not choose divorce and continue to sleep in the same dream. Jesse and Selena both cheated, are there no gaps in their hearts?
For example, on the issue of accompanying children, if Jesse goes to accompany his son and Selena accompanies his daughter, and lives apart for a long time, can life go on?
For example, in the matter of housework, Jesse earns money to support the family, Selena also wants to have her own career, and she has to be a nanny when she comes home, she does not want to be a housewife, can she live a good life.
The last thing I want to say is that maybe they can stay together until they are old, and the story of this life is over.
But people are emotionally complex animals, and perhaps the story has only just begun.
I only hope that we can always respect our inner feelings, and if one day we don't love, we can leave freely.
Probably back to the first story, meet someone else;
Came to the second story, and began a new relationship;
And then start the third story now, and there will also be a family, and there will be friction,
And possibly then...
Uncertainty is the true face of life, and it is also where it is intriguing.
(It's 10 a.m. and we're 11 hours away from midnight)
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