Celine and Jesse have been together for nine years and have twin daughters.
How does love manifest itself in marriage and family?
It was Jesse and Celine arguing about their work and their son in the United States, everyone quoted the scriptures, argued according to reason, the words were as dense as a curtain and could not be torn off in the slightest, and the pots and rain spewed out like a torrential rain, but when the sleeping daughters woke up and asked whether the address of the relic had arrived and where the apple was, the husband and wife immediately pressed the pause button of the war of words, very tacitly lied together, testified to each other, cheated on their daughters, exchanged glances, and the frequency was the same as relief.
But you know, it's not going to turn the page.
As long as there are contradictions and conflicts afterwards, it will still go back to the original point, starting from the place where the scolding war began, and carry out a new round of back and forth like a rutted car.
Any quarrel may be linked to the original point, touching the bypass, the more noisy the more angry, any attempt to calm things down, perfunctory blame the past method, is not good.
Celine is so eccentric in "Love Before Dawn" and "Love at Sunset and Dusk", good at words, and cares about female strength, then, when she is middle-aged, her qualities will only be more than enough.
Celine is constantly teasing, taunting, and complaining about Jesse, but she still loves Jesse.
After a night of meeting at the train station, the love between the two, like a meandering river, flows towards each other and never stops.
Nine years after the first, they ended up together because of books, because of songs.
But between their first nine years was Jesse and his ex-wife and son, as well as his stable life in The United States, and Celine, who was not married or had children, but she was quite angry about Jesse's marriage and children.
Also, the feminism shown by Celine from the first part, the encounter with real real life in the second and third parts, the chase and interception, is consumed to pieces, so she is very angry.
Therefore, the contradiction between them is that Celine blames Jesse for getting married and having children before, so that she later becomes a third party who destroys other people's happy families with herself, and because Celine is always reluctant to go to the United States, Jesse moves in with her and her daughter, Jesse can't help but feel very guilty about her son who lives in the United States, celine suspects that Jesse is blaming her and making a mess of his life.
Celine's unbearable ups and scrutiny of herself, or judgment, became that whenever Jesse and her son were separated and fell into the sadness of fatherhood, she automatically triggered the explosive device, especially wanting to hysterically get angry, ask, question.
The quarrel of everything will eventually fall on the fact that they are together.
Sometimes the audience inevitably finds Celine a little incredible, and seems to be very unreasonable.
But you really think she's miserable about it.
Her pain was so real.
And Jesse, habitually wants to admit mistakes as a kind of magic, magic weapon? Go and end the dispute in exchange for a quiet life.
In other words, Jesse couldn't even see Celine's pain, let alone understand or empathize.
The whole movie gives the impression that the sacrifice and dedication of women in marriage and family is undoubtedly more, but no one has a definite direction, put steady way, can solve this problem.
Even on vacation together, it's Jesse and the men talking about literature, about works, peeking into young women's bodies, while women in the kitchen are busy, busy, busy again.
Jesse certainly doesn't really envy celine's achievements, but Jesse's achievements must include Celine's sacrifice of her time and energy to achieve, but Jesse doesn't think so.
However, you can't say that because of this, you feel that Jesse does not love Celine, no, he still loves Celine, he is still himself, and he has preserved himself the most in love and marriage.
Celine's accusations, even if a little too much, do have a lot of real predicaments that surround Celine, but Jesse can stay out of the matter and be safe.
There is a comment in the Douban short review that says, why get married and have children to make a mess of your life?
It is true that in the love between Jesse and Celine, it seems that if there is no marriage (they have indeed not had a wedding) and no children, there will be many fewer problems, but ah, without marriage and children, they simply cannot exert their respective spiritual aspects and personality traits to the extreme.
For example, in the first part, Jesse said that he felt that he could not be a good son and a good father, and the third part proved that this was true. Jesse is a consistently pessimistic man, and in the third part, he is confirmed by the thoughts that arise in his heart after observing the dispute between his twin daughters.
And Celine, her indomitable struggle, is consistent, she always feels suppressed, disciplined, besieged, so she has to flee, to resist, to face the difficulties, which is vividly reflected in her relationship with her parents, with colleagues, and with her husband.
Even if sometimes, there may be something with a bow and snake shadow, Celine's keen feelings really describe an objective reality of the female situation. Whether it is love, marriage, family, or gender, there are many thought-provoking observations and thoughts brought about by personal experience.
If love is only a matter of two people at first, and then marriage is a family, and a deeper link with society, and even the entire national system and institutions, people cannot help but breathe air, have children, education, study, work, all aspects, individual people, are colliding with the collective and society.
If there is no deep affection for Jesse and Celine, it is estimated that in the subsequent marriage, everyone has already suffocated, really because the love was very abundant and abundant, so after being hollowed out later, the body and soul are like having eternal memories, emergency switches, as long as they are turned on, they will gush out.
Love should not just repeat itself through gentle and wide plains, it should also be able to flow through high mountains and valleys.
When Jesse and Celine are blowing the wind by the river, hurting and afraid of losing each other, honest and giving in, caring and cherishing, we will still exclaim, what a beautiful love.
The text is original, and the pictures come from the internet.