Love is an eternal topic in life, and we chase love non-stop, but there is no definite answer. Watch "Love Before Midnight" and touch the real and moving love.
Love Before Midnight is a romance film directed by Richard Linklater and starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpe, and is the third in the Love In trilogy.
The film takes place nine years after Jesse and Celine reconciled, when they married and conceived twin daughters. Middle-aged people always argue over trivial matters, and the film captures a day they spent on a small island in southern Peloponnese.
Marriages without conflict are almost as unimaginable as in countries without crises.
- Morois
In the quarrels of marriage, when the mouth is not chosen, he will always say something similar: "I don't love you anymore" or even "Let's divorce". These hurtful words are often just a subconscious reaction to self-protection, and when the emotion subsides, it is ushered in regret and helplessness.
When you are emotionally excited, please stop and think calmly, and don't blindly fight back. We are not in a hostile relationship with our lover, don't be so nervous, try to relax, and then talk about your thoughts, effective communication is more conducive to solving problems than continuous quarrels.
Remember, we are two people who depend on each other, and we don't have to fight over who is high and who is low. Home is a warm haven, and with wear and tear, it is well maintained, rather than splitting it in half. In front of you is the person you love deeply, how can you be willing to be separated from him.
Since they can't do without, why hurt each other, in the end it is still themselves who are sad.
The saddest thing about a woman is not getting old, but losing herself in marriage and in a dull life. Women can age, but they must be graceful to death, and marriage cannot be allowed to wear women out of luster.
--Sophie Marceau
In love and marriage, your life is only each other, which is a terrible thing. If you become an appendage of someone, you lose the posture of standing in this world, and no one will like you like this, including yourself.
The most feared thing in the relationship is to live dependent on the other party, without self-confidence and self-esteem, as if you can't live without him. Accustomed to reaching out for money, I have forgotten what independence is, right?
So you spend your days in a state of trepidation, counting his time every day, guessing what he's done. Sneaking up on his phone late at night, there's no bad news you think he's hiding deeply, and when there's bad news, you probably don't dare to ask. Such a life is more like torture.
Remember what he liked you for, and remember when you were once bright and charming? Be yourself, don't be happy for anyone, have your own life.
Do what you love, seriously you must be beautiful. Self-confidence is the cornerstone of marriage, you can be less good, but you must not lose yourself.
If there's one thing I can change you, it's not always trying to change me.
--Jesse
No one wants their lover to discipline himself like his parents. One of the great needs we need to be separated from our parents is freedom, and if marriage is full of bondage, it is exchanged for resistance and distance.
When the lover prefers to work overtime rather than go home, and eating box lunches outside is better than what you make, then the marriage is in jeopardy.
In particular, avoid belittling and insulting your lover in front of outsiders, unless you are ready for divorce. Otherwise, the lover is said to be useless, like a garbage pile masonry; others say that you are divorced, how do you pick up?
The partner you choose, then there must be some characteristics in him/her that impress you, think more about it, don't always embarrass yourself and your lover.
Marriage is like a carved ship, see how you appreciate it, and how you drive it.
——Lin Yutang
True love, true two people in life with their hearts in love. No one is perfect, and no one can be completely satisfied with you, so there is a run-in.
We must learn to cultivate love, rather than exhausting ourselves to find the "true destiny". The fairy tale only writes that the princess and the prince have lived happily ever after, because there are too many ups and downs in the marriage.
There is no perfect love and marriage, there are just two people who are cultivated with their hearts. Because of love, we face the challenges of fate together until this love accompanies us to grow old.
True love is that I and you become us, an inseparable part of each other.
True love is that we accept each other's wholeness, know each other's every move, and connect lives together.
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