A friend knew I was working out and asked me when I was going to get medical aesthetics, and I said there was a connection.
He replied, aren't the three treasures of your middle-aged women fitness, medical beauty, and divorce?
I laughed, but when I think about it, it seems like that's really the case.
First of all, these three things that seem to be impossible to fight with eight poles are actually related to each other. If you are fatter, after starting to work out and lose weight, the collagen that originally passed with time disappeared faster, thin is thin, and the skin is easy to loosen.
At this time, medical beauty is put on the agenda. Water light needles, stem cells, thread carving... A set of combination punches down, you become thin and beautiful, the supermarket sister used to call you aunt, now call you sister.
It is said that people are poor and short-minded, so people are beautiful, and they are strong. A midnight dream back, thinking about the first half of my life, the more I think about it, the more I feel nested.
First of all, marriage should not be married. How affectionate the marriage in the romance novel is, how thin and widowed the marriage in reality is.
Nor should children be born. After giving birth, not only can the figure never go back, but even the temper has become bigger.
When the child is a child, although you are bitter and tired, but she is still cute and caring, think about this world, the person he loves the most is you, no matter how bitter and tired you are, you can't bear it. But with a bang, the adolescence of the bear child came. Now the child's puberty is really early, just after the age of 10, he does not listen to everything, and he still thinks that his mother is short and poor.
Thinking about it, coupled with the lazy man next to him who will only grow old and will not grow up, it is not logical to open the third procedure: divorce.
"Divorce when the children grow up" is not the idea that only people have now. When I was in junior high school, my mom gritted her teeth countless times and said, "When you go to college, I'll divorce your dad." ”
It is said that men in midlife crisis to find the little three, in comparison, the three treasures of middle-aged women are still high-level so lost.
At least we are not with a sense of compensation, but with the determination to reopen the territory; not by harming a young man, to achieve psychological balance, but to make a makeover, to make ourselves young, and then to start a new life.
A woman's understanding of a new life is not limited to finding little wolfhounds and small fresh meat (if any, of course), but to start a colorful life, or even to live again.
Therefore, "You change, beauty returns to beauty, not necessarily non-divorce", this kind of persuasion is ineffective for women.
Men certainly can't understand a woman's grievances in marriage. It is said that people in marriage have 2,000 thoughts of divorce in their lives. I think if you do a precise count, these 2000 times, women may account for 1800 times.
When I was young, I felt that my mother couldn't stop talking about divorce, which was a whim.
When I entered the marriage and became a mother, I understood that it was not the woman's impulsiveness, but the woman's hard work. We often enter marriage in a vague way, thinking that marriage is half of you and half of me in the military merit medal, and when we really live a life, we find that as long as you decide to have children, women naturally pay much more for marriage than men.
Don't scold men for being big pig hoofs, after all, no matter how good a man is, he can't replace your morning sickness and replace your pain.
After my mother gave birth to me, the womb was drooping, and sometimes I went to the toilet and walked a road, and a piece of meat fell out from underneath, which was the womb. My dad didn't understand, thinking how you were so strange, other people have children are fine, you can drop the uterus out.
For men, procreation is something that women can do or should do; for women, fertility feelings vary widely, some people think it's okay, but some people, it's really a ghost door.
In his twenties, confused and dragged into marriage, life suddenly became crowded. When people reach middle age, they lift their heads from the mediocre and complicated life, and women's willingness to choose again and live again is much stronger than that of men.
It's just a pity that life is not a TV series. Although the three-piece set of middle-aged women's dreams is fitness, medical beauty, and divorce, when the dream really shines into reality, most of us, put on the body, only fitness.
It is as if you start exercising, you have infinite possibilities; and that infinite possibility, like the faint starlight of youth when you go to the end of the world, goes on the road with hope, although those hopes eventually slowly dissipate in the early morning daylight.
When we bury a little demon in our hearts, know that 40 years old may have a new girlhood, know that the three treasures of middle-aged women are so tempting, although crouched in the dusty life, when we look up and think of "fitness, medical beauty and divorce", we still feel that we are also a person who has seen the stars and has hope, better than groping in the hopeless darkness.