Maternal love is great, but not every mother is an angel of her child.
There are also some mothers who treat their children as pure instruments of profit.
Children's shoes that pay attention to American dramas should all know that there is a very pleasing female character in "Modern Family", that is, Alex, the second daughter of the Deng Fei family, who is smart and sensible in the play, or a super bully.
The actress who played the role, named Ariel Winter, is a young actress born in 1998.
However, this time we want to tell not her story in the play, but the entanglement between her and her demonic mother.
Ariel's parents, who divorced when she was very young, and her sister, who were infants at the time, were given custody by the court to their mother, Krishna.
Krishna, who lost her financial resources due to divorce, did not want to do hard work, so she thought about how to use the resources in her hands to --- her two daughters to make money.
But how can two little girls make money? Soon, Krishna figured out a way.
Sending two daughters into the entertainment industry.
After all, even children who are a few years old can do some performances, not to mention that there are better places in the world than the entertainment industry to make money.
As a result, Ariel, who is only 4 years old, has already begun to work for her mother.
Most children of this age are still happily playing with their friends under the love of their families, but Ariel is going to perform in various advertisements day and night.
The money was squandered by Krista.
As time passed, Ariel's body began to develop, and her physical condition was also a comparative advantage over her peers, so Krina began to plan the next step.
Adultize your own daughter.
As a result, 7-year-old Ariel will begin to wear a variety of mature women's clothes, including but not limited to various stocking suits, sailor suits, and even some bunny girl outfits.
Because children in Europe and the United States generally develop relatively early, coupled with the perennial too adult dress, so that 12-year-old Ariel already looks like an adult.
Old Sai has written about some behind-the-scenes Hollywood child stars before, and in fact, the relationship between them and capital has formed a complete industrial chain.
That is, there is a lot of capital that likes children, which will make the "intermediary", that is, the agent of the child star, look for the right "commodity".
After finding them, various methods are taken to control them, including but not limited to taking them out to various parties and so on.
Drugs and other means will also be used to ensure that the child can go to the room of the capital boss to chat and talk.
Of course, a big point in the selection process is the child's guardian, that is, the attitude of the parent.
If it is very powerful and background, such as those who are entertaining families, or parents who really love their children, they will basically be rejected.
However, if it is only for money or profit, it is the simplest.
And Krishna clearly falls into this category.
Thus, poor Ariel, while her peers were still learning in school, she had been living a life devastated by capital.
She even later said that as long as the price is in place, no matter what the other party wants me to do, my mother will not refuse.
Not only that, in order to ensure Ariel's "value" in the eyes of capital, Krishna has always had a very strict control over Ariel's life.
For example, she is not allowed to eat these things in terms of diet, how to shape her body, and so on.
Then Ariel was taken out by Krishna to various parties almost every day, and every day she had to go home in the middle of the morning.
But that wasn't enough, because Ariel was in "Modern Family" at the time, so she often had to go to the set at six or seven o'clock the next day.
And the hard-earned money is in the hands of Krista, and she uses it to squander all kinds.
If Ariel disobeys, she will be scolded and even beaten up by Krista.
At that time, Ariel's mentor on the set saw that Ariel could only eat some boiled chicken and a few eggs a day, and she was in a trance, so she couldn't see it.
So at lunchtime, the tutor often ordered an extra set meal, and when there was time, he let Ariel close his eyes a little, so that the child who was in developmental age could live a little better and not collapse the body.
The long-term mental and physical repression made Ariel finally unable to bear it.
At the age of 14, she applied to the court to strip Krishna of her custody, asking the court to award custody to her adult sister, who also hoped to save her sister from her mother's clutches.
Two years later, the court finally ruled that Ariel could no longer be controlled by Krishna and start her own life.
However, it's not over.
As early as the initial application to the court, Ariel was determined not to be her mother's puppet.
To this end, she began a relatively "freewheeling" life, such as what she wanted to eat, what she wanted to wear.
Since he was in a developmental period at the time, Ariel, who was unrestrained, began to lose control of his body.
That is, getting fatter.
Later, although Ariel got rid of her mother, she encountered online violence because of her body shape.
Many people have criticized her condescendingly, paying no attention to image, poor self-control, and so on.
Later, it developed that almost no matter what she did, she had to be criticized, such as wearing some clothes she liked and being scolded.
Finally, at one point, Ariel couldn't stand it, and she said publicly on social media:
"Why do people always want me to dress like everyone else?" Why do people always ask me to do what they want? Why don't others allow others to wear what they like to wear? Being happy yourself is the most important thing, and I know that's what I do, never let someone else's control make you forget that you're living for yourself. ”
It is also really sad to see this reply.
As a girl who was used as a money-making tool by her own mother at a very young age and was destroyed by countless old white men of capital, after getting rid of her mother, she wanted to live a relaxed life and was scolded by others.
On the other hand, Ariel's mother, Krista, did not miss this opportunity.
She "duly" stepped forward, appealing to Ariel to restore the mother-daughter relationship, and deliberately channeled online speech in the interview:
You see, without my control as a mother, she would not have controlled herself, and made herself like this, you say, should we restore the mother-daughter relationship?
And ah, I, the mother, can only live in a dilapidated small warehouse now, I am very sad that my daughter does not come to see me, and always does things that everyone does not like, all daughters need mothers, all mothers need daughters.
What is comfortable is probably because netizens have seen Ariel's reply before and have begun to examine the paragraph she said.
So after Krishna jumped out, she was quickly angered by netizens.
"Restoring a relationship with your daughter? Aren't you afraid you want to restore your relationship with her money? ”
"Living in a warehouse, run out of money?" Don't you hurry to work and make money? ”
"What an interesting woman, do you know that all you bring to your daughter is pain?"
Krishna's move to bring pressure to her daughter's speech ultimately failed.
It has to be said that everyone's growth will experience different degrees of suffering and injury, and for Ariel, her nightmare comes from her mother.
And after getting rid of the nightmare, she will not look back on that experience now, after all, the past has passed, and the most important thing is the future.