The first half of life is for others, the second half of life is for yourself, and the mother's colorful retirement life

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On the day her mother retired, the whole family was happy for her, and people who had worked hard and worked hard for half their lives could finally enjoy their own life.

But things didn't go according to their tracks, and after the excitement of just retiring, I found that my mother, like most people who retire, had a strong sense of loss. After all, after working on the job for decades, busy every day, contacting all kinds of people, all of a sudden idle, staying at home alone, this is a conceivable thing.

Seeing the mother like this, we try to accompany her more during the rest, and give the mother appropriate enlightenment in the process of companionship, after all, everyone has to go through this process, only she can really adjust her own state, in order to adjust the work state to the retirement state. It is also true that after a period of adaptation, the mother began her retirement life and managed it in a colorful way.

First, be a good family logistics minister.

After my mother retired, my brother and I put the spare keys of the house in my mother's place, and whoever had any urgent matters and emergencies in the family, as long as my mother could handle it, we handed it over to her. She is particularly active in dealing with these things, and then timely feedback on the results of the handling of things to us, in the process of dealing with these things, the mother found a sense of existence, she will feel that I am still useful. At the same time, on weekends, the mother would set up a table of meals and invite the children to spend the weekend at home. In order to let the children eat delicious meals, the mother will also work hard to learn cooking techniques, and the level of cooking and cooking will gradually improve, which will be praised by the whole family.

Second, give full play to the residual heat and not forget the mission of a party member.

Before retiring, my mother worked in the Women's Federation, also in charge of family planning, in the work, often contacted women comrades, in the years of work, with them formed a deep friendship, the mother is still a party member with decades of party experience, serious and responsible for the work, in the masses excellent reputation. After retirement, there will still be many women who come to her home to talk about the troubles and troubles encountered in life, and for this kind of request, the mother will use it within her ability to help them solve the problem.

Third, go to relatives to send warmth, and family affection in old age is more important.

When I go to work, I am busy at work, and my mother and her siblings only have the opportunity to meet during holidays. After retirement, when there is time, the mother will regularly visit her brother, sister, and brother's house to see if the relatives are healthy, if there is anything at home to help, or to send something to eat. If the family lives in a foreign country, my mother will insist on making a phone call once a week, and when she has the opportunity, she will also visit the city. The mother is most concerned about the three aunts, as long as time, the mother will pull her two-year-old sister to visit the mall, catch up with the big market, sisterly affection in the mutual care is getting stronger and stronger.

Fourth, organize a small detachment of elderly women to walk through the streets and alleys to see the beautiful scenery around them.

Mother, these retired women and old comrades, organized a small detachment, about seven or eight people, who lived close to each other, and their ages and hobbies were similar. Every day, several people will get together to walk through the main vegetable markets and supermarkets in our small county, the daily need to purchase fruits and vegetables, daily consumables for cost-effective, everyone confirms the best cost-effective goods before purchasing, in the process of visiting, will also hear to the national events, world events, small to the streets and alleys of gossip news, parents short, and then will tell this information we listen, when we are very proud. When the weather is good, several of them will travel to the attractions close to home, take photos, enjoy the beauty of the natural world, and sometimes dress uniformly, of course, they are AA! What is interesting is that they sometimes have small disputes because of disagreements on small things, and they hate each other, and they can automatically reconcile in two days.

Day after day, year after year, my mother arranged her daily life schedule to a full time, and the days after retirement were happy and fulfilling. My mother often said to us: I am in a good mood, and good health is your greatest blessing. In fact, this is also the idea of our children, so we will not easily destroy the rhythm of our mother's life, and we will respect her living habits.

The first half of life is for others, the second half of life is for yourself, this is the colorful retirement life of the mother.