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What is man living for? Have you ever thought about this?
Writers tell us that we came into this world to see the sun and to walk down the street with our loved ones; philosophers tell us that we live to explore the truths of the universe.
Others say that we live to realize our self-worth and find meaning in the world.
Some people say that we live only to live, as Yu Hua said in the book "Alive", living itself is great, living is to endure, no matter what kind of things we encounter, there will be no thought of giving up.
Different people have different understandings of life.
However, for each of us, the meaning of living is also different. We don't have to find an answer, but at least we have to understand what kind of life is what kind of life we really want to live.
Only by understanding this problem can we have a direction and a goal to move forward, otherwise the further we go, the more confused we will feel.
As human beings, we don't have to avoid taking on a lot of responsibilities and pressures, and it's normal to feel irritable or anxious.
At this time, we must think of something to understand, let ourselves see through, see through, and then relax, adjust the pace, and start again with a new attitude.
If you feel very tired from being alive, often surrounded by pressure, and feel extremely anxious, then take advantage of your free time to read more of Mr. Yang Dai's books.
Many of her words have a warning effect on us, enough to make us enlightened and enlightened.
Mr. Yang Dai is a centenarian, her wisdom in life is beyond people's reach, respectful, and more communication and exchange with Homo sapiens is probably a shortcut to improve themselves.
First sentence: Your problem is mainly that you read too little and think too much.
Someone once wrote to Mr. Yang Dai, saying that he was busy studying, looking for a house to move, but also dealing with his parents' urging to marry, etc., feeling particularly stressed, and did not know what to do.
Mr. Yang Dai did not comfort him, but simply replied: You just don't read much, but you think too much.
This sentence seems simple, but in fact it contains the great wisdom of life.
Many times, the things we encounter are not as serious and terrible as we think, and the reason why we feel that this hurdle can no longer be passed is mainly because we are too small.
If we had seen enough of the world, we would not have been so fussy, but would have been indifferent.
When you feel anxious, you may wish to sink your heart, read more, think more, when your horizons are broadened, the pattern becomes larger, and the whole person will naturally go up a step.
Then in the future, no matter what kind of things you encounter, you will be calm and calm.
After all, you know that everything will always pass, and blindly complaining will not only not solve the problem, but will drag yourself down. It is better to face it with a positive and optimistic attitude and choose to go with the flow.
The second sentence: Only those who are humble have the most chance to see the truth of human conditions in the world.
The humility referred to here actually does not correspond to nobility, but to emphasize that when a person is down, it is easier to see the human heart and see the many truths of the world.
As there is a line in the movie "Flying Life", "People's friendships in good times are sometimes not so strong." ”
Yes, when you are having a smooth ride, many people will come to you, please you, just want to get some cheap on you; when you are down, there is no use value, they will simply disappear.
Don't feel that people's hearts are realistic and cold, after all, those who originally flattered you and snuggled you did not have any sincerity towards you.
They are flattering you on the surface, but in fact, behind your back, they are also looking at you, jealous of you, and even denigrating you, since they are all superficial kung fu and useless socializing, why should they care.
For this reason, Mr. Yang Dai said that the more a person is in a low valley, the easier it is to see many truths in the world.
Don't complain about the adversity in life, these are your future wealth, they teach you some truths, let you see some truths, more precious than anything.
When you are anxious, when you have a bad time, or when you are in a low valley and adversity, look at who these people are with you.
People who can share hardships are people who are really good to you, and they are worth cherishing with our lives.
The third sentence: A person lives for a hundred years, sees through the world, and knows that the world is his own and has nothing to do with others.
Mr. Yang Dai died at the age of 105, but for more than twenty years, she spent it alone, because her husband Qian Zhongshu and daughter Qian Zhen died in her eighties.
But she did not give up her confidence in life, on the contrary, she lived harder than ever.
Because at this time, she is a dream of one person with three people. The husband and daughter had not been to a place, and she was to read them for them; the books they had not read, she had to read for them.
What they have not eaten, the music they have not heard, the movies they have not seen, etc., they have to implement them for them.
Since every day is so busy, where is the time to complain about life?
Don't care how others are, don't compare yourself with others, and don't care too much about other people's opinions and evaluations. The world is its own, and just living well is already the best situation.
For the rest of our lives, I hope that each of us can live thoroughly and understandably. When you feel anxious, read more of the words left by Homo sapiens, which is enough to benefit you for life.
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