What we should learn and teach our children most is to take responsibility for their own lives

The greatest source of tragedy in life is not natural disasters, not man-made disasters, not impermanence.

It is that a person cannot be responsible for his own life from beginning to end, and even if he dies, he has not been able to realize it.

Taking responsibility for our own lives is something that each of us needs to learn, regardless of gender, regardless of age.

I have seen many tragedies, stemming from too much external seeking, too little internal seeking, too strong desire to control, too much desire to interfere, but let their lives and destiny drift in the black pressure of control.

In particular, I have seen too many families, like reincarnation, growing up in the desire for control and expectation, growing up and aging in the ethereal duckweed, and then repeating the expectations and control of the parents' generations interfering with the desire to their children...

It's true in real life, and it's true in movies and television.

"The First Half of My Life" was once popular in the north and south of the river, becoming a pastime and topic after people's leisure meals.

In the polyamorous relationship between Luo Zijun, Chen Junsheng, Ling Lin, Tang Jing, and Congratulatory Letter, the story is very typical, and the plot is also bloody, but it is really from the real world.

Sometimes, life is more bloody than what we see on TV.

For Luo Zijun style, once you catch a tree that can be relied on, you blindly cling to it, you can't understand and perceive the difficulty of the tree at all, whether there are times of fatigue and weakness, such innocence is only suitable for girlish feelings, and after people reach middle age, it is inappropriate.

Ling Lin is the most unpleasant character in the play, but it is undeniable that Ling Lin's hard work and seriousness, as well as the characteristics of a mature woman in her body. Therefore, although the posture is average, it can even be said that the middle-aged woman drags the family with her mouth, but in the end, she can win Chen Junsheng, who has good conditions in all aspects.

Chen Junsheng, in general, is a normal man, but also enough to get a good word, but the man is still himself after all, any person to carry another person to walk requires great mental strength and courage, this is not what anyone can do, the closest relatives are still difficult to say marriage. It's just that in communication, it is true that he did not do what he should do, and did not give the other party the right to choose. In other words, the love he chose when he was young, when life returned to reality, he had the obligation to let his spouse recognize the reality and the thoughts in his heart, rather than directly abandoning him when he could not carry it, he underestimated himself, and he also underestimated the son.

As for Tang Jing, the proper image of a strong woman, a good girlfriend, the career is flourishing, but the feelings have not been crisp and cowering. When returning to feelings, Tang Jing is a weak person, she neither fights, but does not cut off, ten years of youth, dragging down herself, but also dragging down He Han. If Tang Jing could be as strong emotionally as she was in her career when the congratulatory letter proposed marriage, she would definitely choose to agree to the congratulatory letter instead of dragging it out for several years.

A woman's youth can have a few years, and love is old, just like people will get old. We are responsible for our own bodies, as healthy and natural as possible to age, but also responsible for our own feelings.

Flowers can be folded straight and folded, do not wait for no flowers to fold branches, the same applies to women's picking of love.

If the last congratulatory letter fell in love with not Tang Jing's girlfriend, but another person, would Tang Jing still be so upset?

I think she won't, because she already knows that her feelings have long withered, and that withering is withering, and will not blossom and bear new fruits.

However, she did not have the courage to accept this withering, and still tried to deceive herself to maintain this illusion that it was still there.

Until the unintentional intervention of Luo Zijun, as a girlfriend, and Leng Shengsheng broke this illusion, she could finally gush out her emotions like a and accept this withering as a complaint.

At least, she didn't have to face the pain naked herself, her pain was grafted onto hatred.

Often, hate is easier to accept than pain, and Tang Jing is like this.

In fact, in essence, Luo Zijun and Tang Jing are the same type of people, they just show different forms.

In the early days, Luo Zijun could not be responsible for his independence (economy), but he put in absolute courage and efforts in believing in love and guarding love.

In the early stage, Tang Jing was very independent in the economy, but dragged mud and water on the road of love, neither brave nor crisp.

Love also needs to be irrigated, just like career.

In comparison, Ling Lin is quite brave and hardworking in both career and love, so her efforts have also been richly rewarded.

She is a person who is very clear about what she wants and how much effort she needs to put into getting the results. Although her qualifications are not outstanding, it has to be said that with her current conditions, she can get such a harvest, aside from the fact that she has gained affection, she is excellent.

No matter what kind of life we are living, we need to put our own life at the forefront of the principles of life. Living your own life and educating people are all about.

In a life that is responsible for oneself, one will not stop and doubt oneself because of the bad judgment of others; one will not give up any worthwhile opportunity because of the incomprehension and dissuasion of others; one will not rely on others for the sake of one's own opportunity; and when it encounters problems, one will complain about the unfairness of fate...

The life of being responsible for oneself is not floating in the mud, not floating in the clouds, not lost in the smoke, not staring at the darkness of human nature in the night.

In the life of being responsible for yourself, every step will be more stable, rather than rash or frivolous.

In the life of being responsible for yourself, there is light in the eyes, there is light in the heart, there is warmth in the hands, and the afterscent is emitted.

The life of being responsible for oneself is often a self-helper.