There is no comparison between people, and the end point you think is the starting point of others. Some people are born with thousands of pets in one, while some people love them like dandelions that can't stand the wind and grass, and they can't grasp the quicksand in their hands.
We never dislike too much love given by others, but sometimes we don't know how to love others, and we don't know how to love ourselves? At least I think I am!
Growing up, I felt like a child running barefoot without an umbrella, but I never ran as fast as anyone else. I have always heard that children who grow up in a family of companionship and love are brave, strong, independent, optimistic, cheerful, filial piety... I'm curious about how companionship and love can raise such a good child?
I used to think that love was constantly nagging, constantly spurring, unscrupulously harsh, unrestrained demand, blindly giving, unprincipled humility, unconditional tolerance... But when you think about it, it seems like nothing!
Allow me to one-sidedly feel that it is difficult for someone who has not felt love to understand how to love others. They are eager to get the care of others, they will please those who show a little kindness, whether in the professional field or in life they will not refuse the demands of others, even if they are wronged in their hearts, because he is afraid of offending people... They never please themselves, mostly play the role of "good old man", but they are extremely vulnerable! But in front of those who love them, they are like hedgehogs, taking without restraint and demanding unconditional tolerance from the other party.
I am glad that I am now learning to love myself and others, and I understand that all love is to fill people with energy, there is no eternal love and being loved!