introduction
One of Zhang Ailing's books is called "Red Roses and White Roses", and there is a passage in the book that is very classic, to the effect that there will always be two women in a man's life, namely red and white roses, and you can only choose one. If you choose a red rose, it will eventually become mosquito blood, and the white rose will become white moonlight; if you choose a white rose, you will finally become a rice sticker, and the red rose will become a cinnabar mole.
Yang Zhenning and his wife Du Zhili, the two of them spent fifty-three years hand in hand, watching each other's black silk gradually climb up the white frost, until finally Du Zhili died, and her beloved husband accompanied her to spend the last time on the side. Later, Yang Zhenning chose to remarry, and his wife was called Weng Fan, who looked "god-like" with Du Zhili and was the same in temperament. In people's eyes, perhaps Yang Zhenning's wife is the "cinnabar mole" in his heart, the white moonlight in front of the bed.
01
The encounter between Du Zhili and Yang Zhenning is very similar to the encounter between the male and female protagonists in the idol drama. At that time, Du Zhili was studying in the United States, because his father was captured in the Battle of Huaihai, and the family's economic conditions suddenly fell from heaven to hell, so Du Zhili was busy studying and working part-time, and his life became day and night. This experience was a difficult process of groping in the dark for a young lady who had a well-off family since childhood.
That year, at Christmas, Yang Zhenning came to a restaurant in the United States to prepare for dinner, and Du Zhili was also in this restaurant, and the two people had an "encounter of destiny".
People who have studied abroad must know how happy it is to suddenly meet people in their own country or know who are not familiar with life. After the two people met abroad, they had a feeling of knowing each other in a foreign country. Also because the two once knew each other, so when they talked about the day, they were not afraid that the atmosphere would be awkward and cold, but the more they talked, the more speculative, Du Zhili restored the lively and cheerful nature of his father before he was captured, and Yang Zhenning also found that he was touched by the girl in front of him.
Two people who are not much different in age, in the case of mutual affection, one confessed and the other quickly agreed, and both fell in love.
Although two people are not in the same school, love makes people cross everything. In order to express his love, Yang Zhenning injected his feelings for his girlfriend into the tip of the pen, thus writing a letter of sincere feelings.
In addition, he also deliberately vacated the weekend time every week, for no other reason, just to go to Du Zhili's school to spend the weekend with her, enjoying the satisfaction and happiness of the couple's dating. The two people maintain this state, talk about love for a year, and then establish a relationship with each other and enter the palace of marriage.
02
After the marriage, the two lived a stable and sweet life, and soon after, Du Zhili became pregnant and gave birth to a boy named Yang Guangnuo. Although the two are married and have a son, Du Zhili does not want to stay at home and be a housewife with a husband and a godson, she has her own ideas and goals, and has her own persistence.
Therefore, after his own efforts, Du Zhili was not confined to chai rice oil and salt, but entered the State University of New York as a professor to teach students Chinese.
In fact, Du Zhili is an uncompromising talented woman, talented, involved in various fields, outstanding appearance, elegant temperament, which is why Yang Zhenning will name her daughter 'Youli'. Moreover, it is the second meaning, and the meaning of "you li" is about to come out: Yang Zhenning hopes that his daughter can become a woman like her mother, which represents Yang Zhenning's great recognition and love for his wife in his heart, and also reflects how good Du Zhili really is. In the eyes of outsiders, they are extremely right, and their love for each other makes the world envious.
Du Zhili's life can be divided into three parts, the first part is that her father has not yet been captured, and the superior conditions in the family allow her to do what she wants to do without worry; the second part is that after her father was captured, she spent a period of dark days, until she met Yang Zhenning, and since then the sun has broken through the darkness; the third part is the ordinary days after marriage, although plain, but also very happy. However, it is regrettable that Du Zhili spent 53 years with Yang Zhenning and passed away one step ahead.
Just a few years after Du Zhili's death, Yang Zhenning remarried again, this time to a wife of Weng Fan, who was dozens of years younger than him. Many people can't accept this matter, thinking that it is a few years after the death of his wife that he has married a young wife with a huge age gap, which is really a shame for his wife.
It is worth mentioning that when Weng Fan was alive with Du Zhili, the two sides also met, and even Du Zhili had a good feeling for the little girl in front of him. When people compare Du Zhili and Weng Fan, they find that the two sides look "god-like" - perhaps, the cinnabar mole and white moonlight in Yang Zhenning's heart are his wives.
epilogue
The people inside want to come out, and the people outside want to go in. According to real-life emotional experiences, people with happy marriages will enter the siege again after being widowed, while those who are unhappy in marriage never want to step into the siege again. After Du Zhili's death, Yang Zhenning was somewhat unable to accept the sudden departure of his wife, and it was not until he married Weng Fan that his mental state returned to the past. Many people have questioned whether Yang Zhenning's feelings for Du Zhili are really as good as they used to show because of the remarriage, so Weng Fan has naturally been questioned by everyone. Human emotions are complex and diverse, and unswerving determination is naturally the dream of all people, and when one of the two people who love each other has passed away, those who remain should have a second choice.