Zhang Junqiu, the master of Peking Opera, said to his son: I have seen many beautiful women over the years, but Song Jia has very few such beautiful women, so you have to rush, you have to try to make her become the daughter-in-law of our Zhang family.
Zhang Junqiu's son Zhang Xuejin inherited his father's business at a young age and was also a very good Peking Opera artist, who had a failed marriage before meeting Song Jia, and he was 21 years older than Song Jia.
At that time, although Song Jia was young, she was already a very well-known female star, and the young and beautiful Song Jia was favored by the Peking Opera master Zhang Junqiu, who actively encouraged his son to chase this girl.
Zhang Junqiu said that he has seen many beautiful women over the years, but Song Jia has very few such beautiful women, so he wants his son to cheer up and strive to make Song Jia the daughter-in-law of the Zhang family.
Song Jia later recalled this relationship, and she once said: We were able to be together at that time, it was completely spoiled by others, and others were more enthusiastic about this matter than she and Zhang Xuejin.
And Song Jia said bluntly that this relationship was a tragedy, when her mother was too wise and did not have any obstacles to marrying a man 21 years older than herself.
She often thought that if her mother had taken care of herself a little, she might not have let this tragedy happen, so after many years, she still complained about her mother in this matter.
But no matter what, in fact, to put it bluntly, your own path still has to go by yourself, so since you have chosen, then whether this choice is right or wrong, you have to bear the consequences of this choice.
In this way, in 1983, at the age of 21, Song Jia married Zhang Xuejin, a 21-year-old Peking Opera artist who was 21 years older than herself, and gave birth to a daughter Zhang Chuchu five years later.
However, the good times did not last long, but an accident broke this peaceful life, and when their children were three years old, friends came to the family, and at that time, the family still used hot water bottles.
Then the daughter ran over to hug her father, but accidentally pulled the hot water bottle, and then scalded Zhang Xuejin's feet, and then went to the hospital for treatment, when the medical conditions were limited, the recovery was relatively slow, but Zhang Xuejin was anxious to perform on stage, wanted to recover quickly, and finally the doctor said that it could only be a blood transfusion.
But what I didn't expect was that the transfused plasma actually carried hepatitis C virus, at that time, this disease was still very new for us, the doctor just said that it might be infected, so Song Jia put down the work at hand and began to take care of her husband.
But when his daughter was 5 years old, Zhang Xuejin was afraid that the disease would spread to his daughter, so they still chose to divorce and leave when her husband was sick, which pushed Song Jia to the cusp of public opinion.
Some people say that she married Zhang Xuejin only for fame and profit, for all kinds of negative news, so that Song Jia was overwhelmed, and finally she chose to go abroad to continue her studies, so she took her daughter to the United States, and did not return to China until 1996.
Since then, Zhang Xuejin has been plagued by this disease, and later transformed into liver cancer, and died at the age of 71, and his father's illness and departure have become the eternal pain and guilt in Zhang Chuchu's heart.
She felt that without her words, her father would not get sick, and he and his mother would not divorce, but Zhang Xuejin comforted her daughter and said: This is fate, and neither of us owes anyone anything.
But even so, Dad's departure is still a knot in Zhang Chuchu's heart that cannot be untied, sometimes it is really a creation of people, some things we can't control, maybe it is really fate.
Later, Song Jia chose to start a business and reopened her career, she once told her daughter that you can have nothing, but you must have a good career.
After you have a good career, even if the person who loves you leaves you, you still have something that is truly your own, at least you can feed yourself, love is just a momentary thing, it will never be eternal.