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01. Preface
Love is like a cloud in the sky, which can take on different shapes. Loving someone is not a bondage, but giving freedom, making him happy, making him laugh.
Loving someone not only wants to make each other happy, but also responsible for each other, in a way that is acceptable to each other, and can also accompany and grow with each other in the years to come.
Zhou Guoping said in "Settle Your Heart Well": "The best way to love someone is to respect him as an independent person, and to treat him as the dearest relative and feel sorry for him." ”
Love someone, have a strong possessiveness, and hope that the other person can stay in their lives forever. However, the other party may not be happy.
Reluctant love, sacrificing each other's way of life, is not true love, but a kind of selfishness.
02, the best way to love someone is to respect him
Gu Tingye in "Know It or Not" likes Sheng Minglan, but when he knows that Qi Heng and Sheng Minglan have a good feeling for each other, not only did he not take love with a horizontal knife, but he really gave Qi Heng an idea sincerely, so that they would eventually become lovers.
Gu Tingye loves Sheng Minglan, but he will not be difficult to force.
Knowing that Qi Heng would not abandon the entire family because of Sheng Minglan, Sheng Minglan was completely disappointed before he moved his mind to Sheng Minglan.
He cleared all obstacles for Sheng Minglan so that she could legitimately marry into his house. And they used scheming to live separately from the family's intrigue-loving relatives.
He gave Sheng Minglan a lot of power, let her do what she liked, and was unwilling to bind her with rules and etiquette. Love someone and want to make her have a happier life.
Love, please respect him, tolerate him, understand him. True love is based on respect and allows each other to present a free and happy lifestyle.
Love is respect, give him the life he wants, and will continue to work hard to ensure that the other party has a better life. Like to take the other party's habitual "lawlessness" and be able to live according to their own nature.
The other party can present a state of self after marriage, no longer cautious in words and deeds, can speak freely, and have such a state, which is actually a manifestation of happiness and happiness brought by true love.
The best way to love someone is to know how to respect her. Respecting her lifestyle, respecting her hobbies, respecting her hobbies, can make her life easy and comfortable.
03, the best way to love someone is to treat him as the closest person and feel sorry for him
Love is not excessive discipline, love is the flight of freedom, be happy yourself, and feel the love of the other party.
Zhou Guoping said in "Settle the Heart Well": "Love is different from quality, and the best love is that two souls who originally seem to have a relationship meet once, recognize each other, and are no longer separated." ”
Love will slowly get old in the years. From hot love, gradually into a quiet family affection.
Treat the other party as the closest person, to love, such a love quality will be very high. When encountering wind and rain, couples who are connected by "flesh and bones" can share the wind and rain, and can advance and retreat together, which is a great happiness.
The best way to love someone is to treat the person you love the most as the person you love the most.
No matter how much grievance she has suffered, no matter how much failure she has suffered, no matter how big the future is, she is always willing to give her full of tenderness and tenacious care.
No matter how trivial life is, it can always enter the hearts of the other party and have something to talk about.
Just like old friends and relatives, they rely on each other, support each other, and work together hand in hand. Even if she has made trouble and quarreled, I can always treat her as the dearest person in my heart, care for her, and love her.
04, the best way to love someone is to give him freedom
Love, it always makes people unconsciously restrain each other. In the name of love, imprison the beloved in marriage.
How many women, for marriage, for love, have become what men like. And she, the most real appearance, unconsciously lost it.
Marriage has gradually become a woman's cage, a deep well for women. I want to jump out, but I am worried, and I always have worries.
What is the best way to love someone? Give him freedom. Let him live in love as she likes.
No matter how many flaws she has, whether she has done something wrong or not, she can give tolerance, give understanding, and give her a state of free life.
Zhou Guoping said in "Settle the Heart Well": "Love is heartache without reason and tolerance without preconditions. ”
Good love is to be able to give each other care and tolerance. When she is hurt, it can give her warm comfort, and when she is happy, it can give her a piece of pure freedom to be herself.
True love for a person, will always love each other, hope that he can have true freedom, can fly to a better place.
05. Summary
In life, it is a very happy thing to meet someone and accompany each other for a while. True love for a person, no matter what the other person does, I hope he can be happy.
True love is a state of maturity that is rarely seen in love, letting go and giving freedom.
If you truly love someone, you will know how to respect her and let her be free to be herself. To be tolerant and understanding of him will be heartbroken from the bottom of my heart.
A good husband and wife relationship is to love each other deeply and complement each other, two people together can create greater value, and no one can do without whom.
Husband and wife, more like partners. If we can believe in each other and be each other's arms, we can create greater benefits.
True love for a person, will always stand in the other person's point of view, for his sake, with the heart to accompany, give him a piece of freedom.
The best way to love someone is not to manage, but to respect and let go, let him be his true self, let him feel love at the same time, can have a high sense of comfort.
Love is not about being there so tightly watched over that it can always exist. Love is at a point of extreme comfort, and the more you love, the happier you are, and the more people linger.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.