<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="122" > Author: Cui Crisp Shengsheng</h1>
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The "Golden Marriage" of a chicken feather almost includes every bit of middle-aged couples: mother-in-law, career, marriage, extramarital love...
When Tong Zhi met Wen Li on a blind date, the person from his small place was somewhat inferior in front of wen Li, a Beijing girl. Wen Li is beautiful, lively, a little proud, and a little flirtatious...
He was assigned by his mother-in-law to write a letter of guarantee, which probably means that from now on, he will love and spoil Wen Li, even if something happens is Tong Zhi's fault... In this life and in this life, there is only one person who loves Wenli.
1. After marriage, you can't stare at Wenli, you can't make a loud voice, if you quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, Tong Zhi must first apologize
2. After falling in love with Wenli Tongzhi, he promised not to love other female comrades anymore, and only love Wenli one in his life
3. After marrying Comrade Wen Li, he washed and cooked, and all the dirty work at home had to be rushed to do
4. After marriage, promise to support Wenli's work, send Wenli to work when it rains, it is too dark, and take Comrade Wenli from work
5. After marriage, as long as Wenli likes things, guarantee full support and active cooperation, do not say what Comrade Wenli does not like, and do not do what Comrade Wenli does not like
6. Guarantee common progress with Comrade Wenli and grow old with white heads
Proof is hereby given
When you are in love, you and I, writing a pledge, washing clothes, cooking with children, etc. are all small emotions, because a kiss can relieve fatigue, and a look can understand the mind.
However, when people reach middle age, in front of the life of chicken flying and dog jumping, Tong Zhi is a little tired! At this time, the beautiful and generous Li Tianjiao appeared in his life with the playfulness and delicacy of a little girl.
Tong Zhi was tired and wanted to go to the third line to struggle, and he wanted to make a name for himself in his career. He is a slightly weak, wandering straight man in life, but he is meticulous and clean in his work.
When people reach middle age, Wen Li finally spelled out her son Dabao, and all her attention was on the child, how much she snubbed Tong Zhi and ignored his feelings.
After Tong Zhi went to the third line with a hint of depression, he and Li Tianjiao were facing each other day and night, and the two talked about life and ideals, and soon made a little achievement... The newspaper published a group photo of the two people in the same frame...
After Wen Li saw the group photo, she contacted what the child said, and her heart was alarmed, she desperately went to find the leader, and dragged Tong Zhi back from the third line.
The work was done and the energy was paid, but Tong Zhi did not wait for the day when it would blossom and bear fruit.
He was in so much pain that it was hard to let go.
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If the third line is just a small episode in the life of a middle-aged man, then, when Li Tianjiao has become the director, she and Tong Zhi meet again, just like a small flame that makes him want to move.
Li Tianjiao is independent, confident, beautiful, Tong Zhi quit smoking in order to be closer to her, and developed the habit of drinking coffee...
Later, when Tong Zhi listened to music at the home of the divorced Li Tianjiao at night, silent and silent, and the dark incense floated, his mother was sent to the hospital by Wen Li...
The death of his mother made Tong Zhi wake up at once, and he knew that it would never be possible again!
In fact, when he was young, he did not have the courage to divorce and marry Li Tianjiao!
Wen Li gave birth to four children for Tong Zhi, and although she was a bit of a jerk, although she blocked his future, she said that the husband and wife were the original match. For Tong Zhi, who is traditional and somewhat cowardly, he can't take that step, but he can't help but think about Li Tianjiao, making both women miserable...
Before Li Tianjiao left, he asked Tong Zhi, have you ever loved me?
Tong Zhi said that in addition to Wen Li, the only woman he had ever had in his heart was Li Tianjiao.
For Tong Zhi, who is cautious, timid, and not bold enough, it is enough courage to say this sentence.
After Li Tianjiao left, he completely returned to the family, and Wen Li naturally welcomed him back to the family.
Many people say that such a chicken flying dog jumped for a lifetime, why bother?
However, isn't the marriage of ordinary people chai rice oil and salt, noisy and noisy, and then living a peaceful life?
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The more you don't get it, the more you think about it. It can be said that Li Tianjiao has become the white moonlight in Tong Zhi's heart, he wants to get it, but he does not have the courage to take a step forward.
On the one hand, he enjoys Wen Li's dedication to the family, giving birth to children one by one, taking care of the children to eat, drink and sleep. On the other hand, he hates Wen Li's nagging, which is unforgiving, and a bit of a fool's errand.
Tong Zhi likes Li Tianjiao's independent boldness and carefulness, as well as her ability and decisiveness in her work. However, if he really let him divorce and marry Li Tianjiao, will he be happy?
Li Tianjiao's family is well-off, his work ability is very strong, and he is the backbone of the unit.
Will she have four children, be tethered by a trivial family, and haunt herself with her steps forward? Will she tolerate Tong Zhi not wanting to take a bath before making love, and in turn say that she is exquisite?
If Li Tianjiao becomes Tong Zhi's wife, will he feel that he has no regrets in life from now on?
No!
Whoever you marry will regret it, because there is no perfect person in this world!
Wen Li is Tong Zhi's wife, and a bunch of people scold her for being too, ruining his future and annoying her when they see her.
So, what if Tong Zhi married Li Tianjiao? It is estimated that there are also a bunch of people who scold her for being too enterprising, pointing out that she may work overtime in the unit and leave her children for the elderly to take care of.
At the beginning, Tong Zhi was also married to Wen Li because of love, and no one put a knife on his neck!
Therefore, even if you marry Li Tianjiao, you may not have no regrets in this life!
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Speaking of Wen Li, why didn't she have such a big reaction to Tong Zhi's first love, Fang Zhuoya? Because she saw at a glance that Tong Zhi did not move his heart, and Fang Zhuoya was not the type that Tong Zhi liked, no matter how noisy it was, it was useless, just like a northwest wind, blowing away is gone.
Li Tianjiao's liveliness and self-confidence are, to some extent, just like the original Wen Li. Moreover, Li Tianjiao is beautiful and has a good family background, which is even worse than Wen Li. Tong Zhi was moved sincerely.
After feeling threatened, Wen Li desperately went to pull Tong Zhi home.
People are so strange, in order to build a small family, in order to have a child, to have a career, in order to two people to live better and better to do everything to work, to have children...
However, when they really have a home, have children, and become small leaders, the gap has been created, and the two people are gradually drifting apart.
What is a couple? Eat together, sleep together, think together...
Tong Zhi and Wen Li, however, for a long time, were like familiar strangers, just partnering up to raise children.
Such a golden marriage, I am not envious.
Why not marry Li Tianjiao? Character!
Tong Zhi's hard-won career, family, and children, he is afraid, afraid of accidentally losing everything, afraid of divorce to make people laugh, afraid of children hating him, afraid that Li Tianjiao will not love him one day. He was afraid of all unstable factors, but he was thinking of Li Tianjiao with arrogance...
If he is sure of his heart at the moment, he will happily tell Li Tianjiao that I don't love you, I just regard you as a friend! Or, I love you, I can't get a divorce, sorry!
According to Li Tianjiao's character, he will never be sticky for a lifetime.
Similarly, if Tong Zhi told Wen Li bitterly, I no longer love you, and what I really love is Li Tianjiao!
Then, after Wen Li mostly cries, she will also divorce!
But Tong Zhi did not, his eyes were full of heat when he faced Li Tianjiao, but his mouth said to Wen Li, I didn't even touch her hand.
The spirit is clearly deviant, but I dare not admit it!
Facing Li Tianjiao, knowing that she loved herself in her heart, Tong Zhi still did not dare to speak directly, let alone in action.
Another point is that Wen Li did not catch the current rush to the unit to pull Tong Zhi back from the third line, which was equivalent to ruining his future by more than half. If it is really certain that Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao are engaged in extramarital affairs, according to Wen Li's temper, if they do not tear him apart, they will also have to break one of his legs, and Tong Zhi is mostly jealous.
However, speaking of a thousand ways and ten thousand, falling in love with a married man like Tong Zhi, Li Tianjiao suffered for half a lifetime, and Wen Li was also tortured...
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After Li Tianjiao went abroad, Tong Zhi completely returned to his family, and also put a heart on Wen Li, white head to old age.
The young couple came to be a companion, and Wen Li naturally accepted Tong Zhi knowingly.
In other words, if Wen Li and Teacher Xia, who liked her at the beginning, were ambiguous, drinking coffee, listening to music, and talking about ideals in life, would Tong Zhi let her return to her family when she was old? Will you take care of her? Will you love her?
impossible.
Can only sigh, in Chinese-style marriage, no matter how old a man returns to the family, it is a perfect ending!
Actually in life? Luo Zijun's ordinary housewife returned to the workplace, and it was impossible to meet an elite man like He Han.
Tong Zhi met Li Tianjiao, a white rich beauty, divorced and married her, maybe she had a very moist life, neither thunder nor retribution.
There are also countless possibilities, Wen Li divorced with the child, remarried and had a baby, Tong Zhi was with Li Tianjiao after divorce, and Li Tianjiao found that he was not erer, and dumped him casually...
No one can breathe fairy breath to live, in the stumbling in the chai rice oil and salt, only self-crossing, can be done and cherished!
By the time you know how to cherish it, you have already gone through all the vicissitudes.