In a family, the personalities of parents and mothers will affect the children separately. And the personality of parents has a greater impact on children of the same sex, mothers can affect daughters more, fathers can affect sons more, and if they want their sons to be excellent, then the personality of parents is naturally not bad. If the father has a bad personality, the child will have all kinds of problems, especially the boy is more likely to have problems.
Ms. Zheng of Changzhou is very excellent, especially after marriage is more smooth, the husband is unremarkable, but before marriage, this lady and her husband have a gap in rights, after marriage, the career of the two people is an insurmountable gap, Ms. Zheng's heart, in fact, has been regretting, married to a person who is too far away from herself.
This Ms. Zheng's husband also feels Ms. Zheng's abnormality and regret, and under Ms. Zheng's hard work day after day, it seems more and more fair and mediocre, so the husband's personality is becoming more and more strange. She always can't lift her head when she speaks, and she always feels that Ms. Zheng is superior to herself in front of this girl, and her personality is becoming more and more inferior. The husband's inferiority and Ms. Zheng's strength directly affect the child, especially the husband's inferiority has a greater impact on the child's personality.
In fact, the husband's personality has a great influence on the children, such as inferiority, cowardice, dare not open their mouths, and too little courage, especially the impact of boys. Men and children who are overly conceited are easy to be too conceited, especially sons, sons are easy to be too arrogant, and it is easy to break into mistakes that Lao Tzu does not dare to make. It is easy to overconfidence in children who are overconceived, not down-to-earth is always easy to be far-sighted, do not do practical things, pay too much attention to their own ability, and believe too much in their luck, but it is easy to miss many opportunities and push themselves on the lose side of life.
As a father's excessive inferiority is easy to affect the son, the son often sees the father's inferiority, sees the father's introverted and silent, sees the father's lack of confidence and can not lift his head, the son will also be easily affected. The son can't lift his head at home, always like his father, he doesn't know how to do things and can only listen to his mother's arrangements, and he can only listen to the teacher's arrangements at school, without his own main heart and opinion, it is difficult to grow into an independent person who can stand up to the sky.
Excessive disrespect for the wife's father will also affect the son. The son often sees the father, the command wife does not respect the wife, under the influence of the day-to-day atmosphere, the son will also think that women are incompetent, there is no need to respect their future daughter-in-law, they only need to direct at home, do not need to do it, machismo is getting heavier, do not believe in women's ability, and look down on women's social status.
Now the daughter-in-law is more and more difficult to find, when the male competitiveness is getting stronger and stronger, a man who does not respect women, it is difficult to find a man who sees the status of his wife, and the smart girls will avoid such boys, avoid being overly oppressed, being squeezed too much, being squeezed and not respected, not doing well and being scolded, this boy is very difficult to find an object, so, dad is very strong at home, always directing his wife, he always sits and does not move, he is always too much machismo, If you teach a macho son, it is easy to cause your son to be single.
The father's excessive timidity and terrible personality will also make the child become excessively cowardly. The father's personality is too cowardly, it is easy to cultivate two extreme personalities of the child, one is the daughter is extremely brave, always protect the family, become a strong woman, the other is the son's excessive cowardice, always hide behind the family to become the so-called mother treasure man, wait until married, hide behind the daughter-in-law, let the daughter-in-law go to the front, and watch silently behind the back. The father's personality is too timid and does not dare to conflict with others, which will greatly affect the child, affect his son, and make the son's character become cowardly and timid.
In addition, the father's personality is too strong, too overbearing, the child is also easy to raise arrogance, habitual children such as killing children, the father should understand this truth. But the father is too strong and overbearing, and to a large extent, the son will become an unreasonable person who always thinks only of himself as the center.
These bad personalities of the father will affect the son, so what good qualities does the father have that will also affect the son's positive impact on the child?
The father has a kind personality, the son's personality is generally not bad, the father's personality is kind and painful, the wife hurts the family and the family is good, and the son raised by such a couple will most likely become a daughter-in-law like the father in the future, respect the wife, and hurt the woman. With such a husband, no matter who marries him, it is blessed, so such a son does not worry about finding a partner.
The father's good personality will affect the son, the bad personality will also affect the son, not only that, the father's personality will also affect the son's future affect the child's future family atmosphere, and even affect whether the child will be single in the future, whether he can find the other half. Therefore, it is necessary for the father to maintain a good image in front of the child.