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In 2021, the fifth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip" aired.
In this variety show, Qin Hailu, who is usually straightforward and domineering, has rarely shown her own little woman's side.
And the man who could make Qin Hailu take the initiative to spoil was her husband Wang Xinjun.
In more than two decades as an actor, Wang Xinjun has conscientiously filmed more than sixty TV series.
Because of his many military roles in anti-war dramas, he was called a military professional by the media.
Although there are many works, many young people do not know Wang Xinjun.
Until the broadcast of this variety show, everyone gradually got to know, this Golden Horse Shadow Queen Qin Hailu, the man behind it.
Looking at his past experience, many people sighed like Qin Hailu that Wang Xinjun was a "real man".
In the most difficult time of his life, he supported his mother, guarded his wife, and assumed his responsibilities.
Wang Xinjun proved with facts that he can not only do his career seriously, but also take on the family in a down-to-earth manner.
And his wife Qin Hailu did not forget to praise her husband on the TV show, and happily told Venus about her experience of "big money".
01
In 1971, Wang Xinjun was born into an ordinary family in Gansu.
Although on the outside, Wang Xinjun is a rugged northwestern man, in fact, he has loved performing arts since he was a child.
In Gansu, Qin opera is the most influential genre.
Wang Xinjun, who was deeply influenced by the local opera culture, passed the Qin opera class of the Gansu Provincial Art School in his early teens.
Although the competition was not fierce, Wang Xinjun was eventually turned away because the teacher said that his "neck was too short to sing Qin opera."
Qin opera could not be sung, and Wang Xinjun simply transferred to drama.
In 1989, Wang Xinjun entered the Gansu Provincial Drama Class to study drama.
After a year of study, he began performing in the Repertory Theatre. Although he could only play some small roles, Wang Xinjun was still happy to be busy in the troupe.
If it were not for the later encounter with Shi Chenfeng, Wang Xinjun might still stay in the drama troupe.
However, fate is sometimes so wonderful, a little ripple is enough to change the trajectory of life.
In 1991, director Shi Chenfeng came to Gansu with the crew, where he wanted to shoot the new film "Leaping Into a Desperate Situation".
In order to facilitate the filming of the crew, Wang Xinjun was sent by the Drama Troupe to help the crew deal with some local affairs.
Wang Xinjun is down-to-earth and meticulous, and is quite appreciated by Shi Chenfeng.
So Shi Chenfeng mentioned him:
Now the drama has been impacted by film and television dramas and has been going downhill. If you want to have a way out, movie actors are a good choice.
Wang Xinjun thought about it left and right, and finally decided to apply for the Beijing Film Academy where Shi Chenfeng had studied.
02
Perhaps really talented, in 1992, Wang Xinjun was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became a classmate with Yuan Li and other actors.
In 1996, Wang Xinjun graduated from university.
This was a very important year in Wang Xinjun's life, because he not only filmed as a leading actor for the first time, but also met his first wife, Tang Jing.
At that time, Wang Xinjun played the male number one Lu Xinguo in the TV series "Lu Brothers", while Tang Jing played the female number two.
Wang Xinjun was unforgettable at first sight of this beautiful-looking girl, and although Tang Jing was 4 years older than himself, Wang Xinjun still came together with her.
The two were married in 1999 and later gave birth to a son.
After that, Tang Jing chose to retreat into the background.
After marriage, Wang Xinjun is very happy, has a wife to support him, and his career is also rising steadily, basically two or three plays every year.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and the marriage lasted only ten years before it came to an end.
In 2009, Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing divorced due to personality incompatibility.
This incident dealt a big blow to Wang Xinjun.
As a model worker in the entertainment industry, Wang Xinjun filmed nearly ten TV series in 2007 and 2008.
But in the year of divorce, he only starred in one "Beautiful Flowers In Bloom".
However, Wang Xinjun, who had suffered a lot of blows at this time, certainly could not have imagined it.
Although fate played a joke with him, all the pain will become the foreshadowing of a happy life in the future.
03
In 2011, "Independent Column" began to prepare for filming.
Originally, the crew was ready to invite Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu to play the male and female protagonists.
But unexpectedly, as soon as Qin Hailu heard that the male protagonist was Wang Xinjun, he politely resigned.
The reason for this was that Qin Hailu was afraid of Wang Xinjun.
Many people know Qin Hailu's personality, and usually dare to say and dare to do.
But what everyone didn't know was that when Qin Hailu first met Wang Xinjun, he felt that he was too fierce and a little frightened.
In order to dispel Qin Hailu's concerns, the crew also specially organized a meal to persuade her.
But when it came time to start shooting, Qin Hailu was still very nervous.
In order to maintain her composure, Qin Hailu has always behaved very coldly, so much so that Wang Xinjun felt that she was rude.
Later, in order to work, Qin Hailu still took the initiative to discuss the plot with Wang Xinjun.
In the process of communication, Qin Hailu found that although Wang Xinjun looked very heroic on the outside, he was actually very delicate on the inside, and he also had his own ideas about performance.
So she gradually changed her mind about Wang Xinjun and began to actively pursue him.
As actors, Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu have a lot in common. One of the most obvious is that both are workaholic.
Wang Xinjun has starred in more than 60 TV series, the most exaggerated time, shooting 8 plays a year.
And Qin Hailu did not hesitate to let go, when he was busiest, he ran seven crews a year.
Perhaps it is precisely because of the immediate agreement on the concept of acting, the two quickly came together.
Anecdotal rumors are that Wang Xinjun cheated on Qin Hailu in marriage, took the initiative to confess, and was rejected by Qin Hailu, which is actually pure nonsense.
In 2014, Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu set the wedding in November.
However, when everything was ready, an accident occurred that no one could have imagined.
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In September 2014, a sudden car accident took the life of Wang Xinjun's younger brother.
Wang Xinjun, who received the call, only felt that the sun was shining and thundering, and he couldn't believe all this.
Later, Wang Xinjun returned to Lanzhou and attended his brother's funeral.
Blessings are incomparable, and misfortunes are not alone.
In less than five months, Wang Xinjun received news that his father was seriously ill.
It turned out that his father had already been hospitalized, but his parents were afraid that he was worried and did not tell him. Unexpectedly, in the end, my father still did not insist.
On January 2, 2015, Wang's father died in hospital.
The successive tragedies made Wang Xinjun unbearable, and in less than half a year, only half of his original family remained.
Wang Xinjun's grief can be imagined, but when he thinks that it is not only himself who is left behind, but also his mother, he knows that he cannot indulge in sadness all the time.
Considering his mother's mood, Wang Xinjun decided to take his mother from Lanzhou to Beijing and take care of her with Qin Hailu.
From then on, he was his mother's reliance.
Although he often acted indifferent in front of his mother, in fact, Wang Xinjun was always sad in his heart.
Qin Hailu once revealed that this incident was a great blow to Wang Xinjun, and it took several years to slow down.
In this year's variety show, Wang Xinjun talked about this matter again, still his eyes were red and his eyes were full of tears.
05
In 2015, Qin Hailu gave birth to a son for Wang Xinjun, and the arrival of a new life slightly eased the sad atmosphere in the family.
However, with the healing of the wounds, Wang Xinjun encountered a new problem.
It turned out that after giving birth to a child, Qin Hailu suddenly returned from work to family, very uncomfortable, and gradually suffered from postpartum depression.
During that time, Qin Hailu cried at home every day, crying until her eyes were inflamed and red, and even forced to change from a single eyelid to a double eyelid.
Looking at his wife who washes her face with tears every day, Wang Xinjun made a decision.
He accepted the invitation of "White Deer Plain" for Qin Hailu, let Qin Hailu go out to shoot a movie, find self-confidence, and come back to take care of the children.
At that time, many people wondered why Qin Hailu was only three months old when she gave birth to a child, and she was anxious to make a comeback to film.
But what everyone doesn't know is that this is Wang Xinjun's care for Qin Hailu.
He wanted Qin Hailu to return to his comfortable environment and regain his confidence.
As a somewhat macho northwestern man, Wang Xinjun has his own self-esteem.
Although his fame was not as good as Qin Hailu's, he had already been gossiped about by others.
But for the sake of his wife's health, he is still willing to temporarily give up his career and return to his family.
No wonder Qin Hailu praised in the interview that Wang Xinjun is a man worth relying on.
It is precisely because of Wang Xinjun's tolerance that Qin Hailu, who is straight and domineering outside, is willing to become a small woman next to him.
06
In 2019, Wang Xinjun directed the TV series "River Mountain" and starred as the male number one, and the female protagonist is Qin Hailu.
Not only that, Qin Hailu is also the producer of this film.
When promoting the play, some people said that Qin Hailu had made Wang Xinjun.
But Qin Hailu said bluntly that no one can achieve anyone, if there is no ability, how to help is in vain.
What Qin Hailu said was not false.
During the filming of "River Mountain", the crew filmed in Shanxi.
At that time, the weather was very cold, the daytime temperature reached more than -20 degrees, and the male actors of the same crew had a cold for five consecutive months.
Under such harsh conditions, Wang Xinjun also has to wear several positions and manage various big and small things in the crew.
In order to avoid delaying the progress, Wang Xinjun did not dare to get sick and could only take tonic medicine to support himself.
As a result, I did not expect to make up too much, but caused insomnia. Even if he has insomnia, he is also responsible for the personnel transfer of the whole crew.
When filming "River Mountain", the crew invited nearly 40,000 extras, so it was very laborious to schedule.
Fortunately, the show received a good response after it aired.
Therefore, these efforts of Wang Xinjun are not summed up in a sentence of "being accomplished".
It's just that he's been low-key for too long, and he's used to being low-key.
07
In 2021, Wang Xinjun once again entered everyone's field of vision.
This time he no longer meets everyone as an actor.
Instead, as a husband, he accompanied his wife to participate in the recording of the "Wife's Romantic Trip" program.
If it were not for this variety show, I believe that many young people would not know Wang Xinjun.
Although Wang Xinjun is now 50 years old, the feelings between him and Qin Hailu are still very sweet, and they often call each other "baby".
In the program, this heroic-looking northwestern man showed his tolerance for Qin Hailu with actions.
When Qin Hailu got up late, he would cook for her, and personally delivered it to bed, spoiling Qin Hailu into a lazy baby.
Before that, many people thought that Wang Xinjun was a big man who did not understand the style.
But after watching the show, I learned that in fact, he treats his family very gently and is also very good at coaxing people to be happy.
Qin Hailu also said that he always gives people a sense of steadfastness and can make himself dependent.
At his side, Qin Hailu could be a small woman with confidence.
In his career, Wang Xinjun's fame may not be great.
But he has starred in one film and television work after another for decades, and this professionalism is admirable.
In life, Wang Xinjun is both a filial son and a responsible husband.
When the family encountered misfortune, he took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of taking care of his mother, took his grief to the bottom of his heart, and tried to give her a secure life.
When his wife Qin Hailu suffered from postpartum depression, he could also give up his career and fully support his wife.
This quality of filial piety and tolerance eventually became the foundation of Wang Xinjun's establishment, and also created his current happy life.
I have to say that pure masters like Wang Xinjun are the "male gods" that should be sought after and worshipped in contemporary society.