On May 13, 2024, it was reported that Wei, a young man from Heze, Shandong Province, said that he applied to the court for enforcement because his girlfriend Ms. Ma received his 340,000 bride price.
Originally, when it was time to get married, his girlfriend used cold violence and refused to marry him. He said that it is okay to get out of the marriage. However, the bride price should be returned.
Ms. Ma told him that she could agree to the divorce, but it was impossible to return the 340,000 bride price.
Even in April this year, through the mediation of the court, Ms. Ma was asked to return 300,000 bride prices in four installments, but she still refused to carry it out. Wei can only apply for compulsory enforcement, let's take a look at the details?
Wei admitted that he and Ms. Ma met through a matchmaker in January 2023, and they got along for two months after they met. In the process of getting along, they felt good about each other and confirmed their relationship.
The two of them got engaged in March last year, and the family first prepared a wedding house, which was a down payment, and then a bride price for Ms. Ma.
When it comes to the bride price, Ms. Ma says that it is enough to give it according to their local customs.
The bride price in southwest Shandong is higher than that in other places in Shandong. They also knew about this situation, and there was nothing to criticize, and then they gave Ms. Ma a bride price of 340,000 yuan.
In addition, he also bought 5 pieces of gold for Ms. Ma, with a total value of 50,000 yuan. What they didn't expect was that after receiving the bride price, Ms. Ma's attitude changed greatly.
The previous enthusiasm is gone, and they also physically attack him and insult him.
Find all kinds of reasons to refuse to marry him.
Ben came in September, and the two were going to discuss getting married.
However, Ms. Ma suddenly proposed to let him buy a car of more than 200,000 yuan, and it must be in full. He wanted to discuss with Ms. Ma, could he postpone it?
After all, the family has already spent all the money when they buy a house. The bride price is not a small amount, that is, the 340,000 bride price, and more than 200,000 yuan are borrowed from relatives and friends.
There's really nothing they can do about it.
Ms. Ma began to insult him, the scolding was ugly, Mr. Wei said to her, can you not scold me?
I didn't expect Ms. Ma to scold even more fiercely, so she almost scolded his ancestors for eight generations.
Wei is also a dignified seven-foot man, can he do this thing by spending money to buy humiliation? The 340,000 yuan bride price was spent, and the house was prepared. said that he was going to get married, but he didn't expect the woman to make a new request and let him buy the car in full.
It's still more than 200,000.
Isn't this a deliberate attempt to make things difficult for him? In his opinion, this is Ms. Ma's cold violence against him, Ms. Ma is just a reason not to get married, even if he satisfies Ms. Ma this time, Ms. Ma will definitely find other reasons to continue to refuse to marry him, this is a bottomless pit of dissatisfaction.
He thinks he's been deceived.
Especially unbearable Ms. Ma's abuse, in a fit of anger, he filed for divorce.
Ms. Ma said that divorce is okay, but the bride price will not be refunded, and no 340,000 cents will be refunded.
Ms. Ma also said that two of the five pieces of gold were lost, but this was unacceptable to Mr. Wei. What seemed so valuable to him would be lost?
Or did you lose the 2 biggest pieces?
He didn't believe it, and was willing to confront Ms. Ma and expose Ms. Ma's lies. However, Ms. Ma did not give him this opportunity, did not communicate with him, let alone meet. Anyway, the marriage is not returned, and the 5 pieces of gold are lost and 2 of the largest ones are lost.
He could only take Ms. Ma to court.
The final judgment is to let Ms. Ma return Mr. Wei's 300,000 yuan in 4 installments, and the first 60,000 yuan before May 1, 2024. The rest is due by December 31, 2026, and the conditions are quite lenient.
In other words, Ms. Ma was given an installment and asked her to repay 300,000 yuan in more than 2 years. However, now that May 1 has passed, her first 60,000 yuan has not been paid.
Wei believed that Ms. Ma would still not return the bride price, and he asked the court to enforce it. and also asked for a one-time return, after all, when he gave it, he gave 340,000 at one time.
Why should we pay it back in installments? What's more, their family is waiting to repay the money, and more than 200,000 of these money are borrowed from relatives and friends.
Ms. Ma's retribution is coming.
On May 13, the reporter asked the court where Ms. Ma was located for details. Local staff said they had received Mr. Wei's application for enforcement, and the court was handling it in accordance with the law. However, it is inconvenient to disclose too much.
The pressure was on Ms. Ma's side.
Ms. Ma dared to openly oppose the law, what was originally pronounced must be enforced, otherwise it will be illegal, and breaking the law will pay a price. She really doesn't carry it out, and the bride price itself has to be returned to the man, after all, she won't marry anyone. In this case, is it reasonable to take other people's 340,000?
In the eyes of netizens, this is the act of fishing for women, to put it mildly, this is fraud in the name of marriage.
Ms. Ma should not be aware of the seriousness of the problem, if she does not do so, her assets will be frozen, and if there is a deposit in her bank card, she will be enforced.
If you don't, you will have to pay a much greater price, and you will even lose your freedom.
A few days ago, a similar case was sentenced in Hunan, where the woman in Hunan also asked her boyfriend for more than 300,000 bride price and did not marry her boyfriend. I don't go to my boyfriend's city either, and the money is used to support my ex-boyfriend's children.
It turned out that she had children in her teens, and the man who gave her the bride price knew nothing about it. After receiving the bride price and not getting married, her boyfriend could only sue her in court.
She also refused to return the bride price, and was taken away by the bailiff.
With such examples, I believe Ms. Ma will also pay attention, aren't you afraid?
What's more, once this kind of ugly thing is publicized, his reputation will stink, is it because of the bride price of 300,000 yuan, do you have to make yourself infamy?
It's a lifetime thing.
When the time comes, if you want to marry, no one will dare to marry, and no one will even ask for nothing. After all, being labeled as a "fishing girl" will be respectful.
Can you really afford this kind of consequence?
I hope Ms. Ma can be reasonable and abide by the law. If you return what you shouldn't want, why do you want to accept someone's bride price if you don't want to marry someone. No matter where this matter is mentioned, it is ignored by himself.
Otherwise, you will pay a heavy price, so let's take it when you see it!