盛佩玉，民国诗人邵洵美的妻子，她的祖父是晚清洋务运动代表人物盛宣怀，家世可谓显赫一时......
However, Sheng Peiyu was born to a concubine, and her father died when she was 4 years old.
Sheng Peiyu's father was a wandering, concubine, and did everything, and was a typical young master.
After sheng peiyu's father died, his concubine was forced to leave the sheng family.
Although Sheng Peiyu's mother was extremely reluctant to leave her daughter, she could only kiss her dear child with sadness and tears, and turned around step by step.
After her mother left, 4-year-old Sheng Peiyu was raised by the eldest bride, but the eldest bride loved the girl very much and regarded her as her own.
The eldest lady likes to be lively, and usually likes to take Sheng Peiyu with her to see the world when watching dramas and socializing.
Sheng Peiyu has a beautiful appearance since childhood, especially a pair of eyes, a crooked smile, as cute as a crescent moon.
Such a girl naturally sets thousands of pets in one, but Sheng Peiyu has never had any big miss temper, she treats people sincerely, has a broad heart, and has no shelf at all.
When Sheng Peiyu was 16 years old, his cousin fell in love with her, and his name was Shao Yunlong.
Shao Yunlong had never seen this cousin before, and he had seen Sheng Peiyu when he accompanied Sheng Xuanhuai's coffin to Suzhou for burial.
His cousin's quiet and elegant temperament instantly touched Shao Yunlong, and he felt that the girl in front of him was like a white lotus, light and unworldly, and refreshing.
At this moment, in this second, Shao Yunlong decided not to marry Sheng Peiyu in this life.
Shao Yunlong was born into a famous family, full of economy, personable, and a very talented junerlang.
In order to express his deep affection for his cousin. Shao Yunlong changed his name to Xunmei on the grounds of "Pei Yu Zhen Zhen, Xun Mei and Du" in the "Shijing Zheng Feng YouNu Tong Che".
When Sheng Peiyu was in Suzhou, she felt her cousin's affection for her, but as a big girl, she could not express anything, and could only put her mind in her heart.
Shao Xunmei couldn't wait, such a lovely person, he couldn't let others snatch it away.
In 1923, before Shao Xunmei went to England to study, he begged his mother to go to the Sheng family to propose to him.
The cousin married his cousin, kissed and kissed, and Shao Xunmei's mother agreed.
Sheng Peiyu's eldest wife was also in favor of this family affair, and she did not hesitate to agree.
In the early years of the Republic of China, the marriage of children still had to pass the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker.
Sheng Peiyu saw that the eldest lady agreed to this family affair, and she did not say anything.
The cousin was upright, talented, handsome, and seemingly infallible.
Shao Xunmei got her beloved cousin as she wished, and he was so overjoyed that before going to England, they took a group photo together as a engagement letter.
Sheng Peiyu heard that the winter in England was very cold, afraid that Shao Xunmei was frozen, and specially knitted a white sweater vest and gave it to her fiancé.
Shao Xunmei received a white woolen vest, wore it on her body, and warmed it in her heart.
In order to repay his fiancée's concern, Shao Xunmei wrote a poem "White Velvet Thread Vest" and published it in the "Declaration" as a reward for Sheng Peiyu's love affair.
Shao Xunmei went to study in the United Kingdom, and others were in England, and their hearts followed their lovers.
In Britain, everywhere Shao Xunmei went, everywhere she went, she would always send a postcard to Sheng Peiyu to express her longing for her fiancée.
Because of family changes, Shao Xunmei returned to China early, although he did not finish his studies, he was very happy because he was going to marry his beloved cousin.
Sheng Peiyu began to prepare for the wedding every day, making clothes, setting up dowries, and holding wedding banquets, and it seemed that many things could never be finished.
On the other hand, Shao Xunmei has always been very idle, still drinking tea every day, visiting friends, writing poetry, and chatting.
It seems that getting married is only a matter of Sheng Peiyu alone, while Shao Xunmei is just a spectator.
Sheng Peiyu didn't think anything of it, since she chose him, she obeyed him.
However, Sheng Peiyu did not think that she would obey him for the rest of her life.
In December 1927, Sheng Peiyu and Shao Xunmei held a grand wedding ceremony at the Great Bright Ballroom in Shanghai.
This wedding sensationalized the whole Shanghai Beach, and the woman's family had three hundred large suitcases filled with various exquisite dowries.
Ten miles of dowry, unlimited scenery, crowds of people, envy and jealousy.
Sheng Peiyu was wearing a white and luxurious wedding dress, she cried, she knew that the bride should laugh, but she did not know why, the tears flowed involuntarily.
Shao Xunmei is a poet, will he run a marriage? Will the days ahead be stable?
Countless questions entangled Sheng Peiyu, her heart was in a hurry, and her beautiful eyes were crying and swollen...
Once a woman is married, she does not belong to herself, she has no choice, she can only grit her teeth and move forward without hesitation.
After getting married, Sheng Peiyu made a covenant with her husband about three chapters and one by one
"No other women, no smoking, no gambling money."
Shao Xunmei was very sincere at that time and agreed to it.
Shao Xunmei and Sheng Peiyu had a good relationship, and they spent a comfortable life.
But Shao Xunmei is an idle person, his talent is on a par with Xu Zhimo, and the poet's personality prefers to run a magazine, and the result can be imagined, what to do and what to lose.
Every time Shao Xunmei ran a magazine and opened a publishing house and lost money, it was Sheng Peiyu who took money to make up for the holes, and the contents in the suitcase became less and less.
In addition to running magazines and publishing houses, Shao Xunmei also loves to make friends, and every time he goes out to eat, he always rushes to pay the bill.
Shao Xunmei was bold and enthusiastic, and sponsored many cultural people, and when the money was not enough, he let those people ask his wife for it.
Sheng Peiyu never refused to ask for help, and she took out her dowry and handed it to those who did not know.
Shao Xunmei is innocent and kind, he will not do bad things, his money is used on others, which Sheng Peiyu is convinced of.
"I thought I was smart, I calculated the economic account, and there was never such a thing as a profit and loss. Because of the many tricks of The Beauty, every time I hear his request, as long as it is just and reasonable, I will always accept it completely. ”
1935年，美国女记者艾米丽•哈恩来到了上海，她见到了英俊潇洒的邵洵美，对这个男人仰慕万分。
Shao Xunmei also admired the foreign Emily, and he gave the girl a very nice Chinese name Xiangmei.
No one knows whether Shao Xunmei and Xiang Mei have ever had a love, what everyone sees is that Sheng Peiyu is very friendly to Xiang Mei and is also very relieved about Shao Xunmei.
The three of them often see each other and can help each other when they have difficulties.
After the outbreak of the War of Resistance Against Japan, Shao Xunmei resolutely did not do anything for the Japanese and puppet authorities, and Sheng Peiyu would rather her husband stay at home, and she did not want people with ulterior motives to use her husband's famous disguise.
At this time, the Shao family and the Sheng family were no longer what they used to be, and Sheng Peiyu, who had no source of livelihood, could only pawn the family property and move frequently to tide over the difficulties.
Sheng Peiyu gave birth to 9 children after marriage, she carefully raised the children, carefully took care of her husband, and never complained.
Xiang Meimei came to Shao Xunmei again, she wanted to write "The Three Sisters of the Song Family", she asked Shao Xunmei to accompany her to Chongqing and Hong Kong to find information.
Shao Xunmei, who has always been eager to help people, refused, he called himself a "bad lover", Xiang Mei understood the man's words, she left this Shao Xunmei, and from then on they went their separate ways.
China was liberated, Shao Xunmei experienced many storms, his family wealth was scattered, he had been in prison, his body was weak, and he was not the "Greek beautiful man" he was then.
In order to live, Sheng Peiyu sold all the jewelry he had, and I still lived without pearl agate.
Even if the days are difficult, you must keep smiling, this is the way you are.
Sheng Peiyu went to Nanjing, and joined her married daughter, Shao Xunmei, who stayed in Shanghai, and the couple began to live separately.
In Nanjing, Sheng Peiyu was always thinking about her husband, and she sent duck gizzard liver for Shao Xunmei.
After Shao Xunmei received it, she was reluctant to eat it, hung the duck gizzard liver in front of the window, and licked it to relieve the hunger.
After Sheng Peiyu in Nanjing received Shao Xunmei's letter, she was bitter and tearful.
In May 1968, Shao Xunmei died of poverty and illness, and Sheng Peiyu, as his wife, held a hasty funeral for him.
The solemn wedding, the hasty funeral, the contrast between the front and back is so huge, it is really the impermanence of life, the vicissitudes of the world.
Sheng Peiyu bid farewell to her husband, she still lives gracefully, strongly...
Sheng Peiyu knew that she could not fall, she had to deal with the troubles left by Shao Xunmei, she had to take care of her third generation, and she still had a lot of things to do.
晚年的盛佩玉写下了《盛氏家族，邵洵美与我》，写完之后，她长吁了一口气，心头放下了所有的重负......
On September 24, 1989, Sheng Peiyu passed away with a smile at the age of 84.
Sheng Peiyu has enjoyed great wealth and nobility, and has also experienced the end of prosperity, no matter how the world changes, she is always safe, elegant and charming, this is the spirit of nobility!
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