At a dinner, after Dong Mingzhu's speech, everyone raised their wine glasses, and Dong Mingzhu noticed that a department manager was holding lamb chops in his left hand and a wine glass in his right hand, his face was stained with oil, and the table was full of shrimp shells he spit out. Dong Mingzhu didn't speak at the time, and fired the person a few days later.
Not only Dong Mingzhu is like this, Liu Qiangdong and Wanda's president Wang Jianlin also like to observe the behavior and ability of employees at the dinner table.
Once the TV station went to Jingdong to record a program, and it happened to meet the company's group building dinner, Liu Qiangdong picked up the wine glass, and just raised it, Du Shuang, the vice president of Jingdong, suddenly said: "Mr. Liu, I am pregnant." Liu Qiangdong was surprised, but quickly reacted and said, "Then don't drink it, congratulations, great." However, it didn't take long for Du Shuang to choose to leave......
At the team building activity, everyone laughed and laughed, and Du Shuang, who was on the right hand side of the chairman, was also smiling and foiling. Liu Qiangdong didn't know at first, so when he learned about it, although he was a little surprised, he immediately calmed down and expressed his blessings. However, Du Shuang's words made Liu Qiangdong feel frustrated.
Du Shuang continued: "I won't delay my work because of this, boss." ”
Liu Qiangdong responded: "In your case, I hope you can take more leave to rest, it's okay." To be honest, you take time off to give other colleagues a chance. Sometimes, when you're not there, the whole department can function. I once left the company to study for 8 months, and JD.com is still running well, whether from the legal level or the company's internal regulations, you can rest assured. ”
However, 9 months later, Du Shuang chose to resign!
When Du Shuang first joined JD.com, she was an ordinary salesman, but in just 8 months, she successfully increased her monthly sales from one or two million to more than 20 million. She has always worked hard and has never taken annual or sick leave...... Her efforts soon led her to be promoted to Vice President.
should have a promising future, but a sentence at the banquet became the fuse for her resignation. Many people feel unfair about what happened to Du Shuang, but they don't understand that she didn't know it because she inadvertently committed a taboo twice.
At the company banquet, in front of the camera, she declared that she was "pregnant" without regard for privacy, which was a taboo. Fortunately, Liu Qiangdong wittily cared like a friend: "Congratulations, you should rest more and recuperate your body." "Rounding things up.
But Du Shuang made mistakes again and again, and then said: "I won't delay my work because of this, boss." This sentence completely chilled Liu Qiangdong's heart. Although it seems to be an expression of loyalty, it makes the outside world mistakenly think that JD.com is squeezing employees.
In today's society, human affection is emphasized, and workplaces and banquets are places to test a person's cultivation and comprehensive quality.
In the eyes of the boss, employees with strong professional skills only pass, and employees who know how to deal with social situations can get 80 points. Only those employees who do a good job and handle interpersonal relationships well are the people that the company really needs, that is, the real perfect score. Therefore, Du Shuang's departure is not surprising.
The company's dinner is not only a meal, the boss often evaluates the overall quality of employees through the performance at the table, to see whether they understand etiquette, whether they have a future for development, and whether they can represent the company. It's not easy to develop a good employee, and it's often more accurate to draw conclusions based on performance outside of the workplace.
On another occasion, Wang Jianlin took a doctoral student with an annual salary of 800,000 yuan to an important banquet. In the process of talking to the customer, the doctoral student sat on the sidelines, unable to even pour wine, and the whole person was like a wooden man. Wang Jianlin was very angry and felt that the 800,000 yuan was not worth spent, so he decided to go back and open it for him. A college student with a monthly salary of only 5,000 yuan who went with him was unexpectedly favored by Wang Jianlin, and finally succeeded in getting a promotion and a salary increase.
At that time, when Wang Jianlin was exchanging business cards with customers, he suddenly found that he had forgotten to bring his business cards, and his face was embarrassed and he couldn't speak. The college students with a monthly salary of only 5,000 yuan discovered Mr. Wang's embarrassment in time, and immediately took out the business card he carried with him and presented it with both hands. It turned out that this college student was very careful, and every time he went out, he would prepare his business card, and at the same time, he would also prepare an extra business card of the company's leaders in case of emergency.
Although these things may seem trivial at a banquet, they directly affect a person's career and destiny. Some people lost their jobs as a result, while others quickly got promotions and raises.
As "Chinese Entertainment" says, "In the workplace, competence is important, but emotional intelligence and interpersonal communication are even more critical." Whether it is in officialdom, the workplace, business, or even daily life, these two words are inseparable: socializing!"
Some people change their fate and succeed in their careers because of a business card, while some people lose their jobs because of a word or a glass of wine and regret drop out of the competition. In fact, it was not pure luck, but because they did not know the rules and skills of socializing, and unknowingly stepped on the thunder.
Psychologist Dale Carnegie once said, "About 15% of a person's success depends on knowledge and skills, and 85% depends on communication skills." ”
Socializing is not only a technology, but also an art. Learning to socialize will make your life path wider and wider. Chinese entertainment is not only not an outdated concept, nor is it a boring preaching, but through 300 specific scenarios and practical examples, it teaches you:
When to pour water and wine, how to arrange the dishes and seats reasonably, which topics at the table are easy to pull the atmosphere without touching sensitive points, and which details will make people feel comfortable without looking groveling. These stories are both logical and easy to understand, not only good-looking, but also practical.
The secret of socializing does not lie in superficial companionship or unprincipled flattery, but in creating a pleasant atmosphere that makes people comfortable, satisfied, and like mountains and rivers with an attitude that is neither humble nor arrogant.
In the process of socializing, one or two decent words may lead to millions of important contracts, which is the charm of Chinese-style entertainment.
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