What's the most devastating thing you've ever encountered?
The marriage partner met on a blind date, my parents were from the countryside, and when I got married, I bought a house, decorated, bought a car, the bride price, and all the expenses of the wedding were all paid by my family, and almost all my savings with my parents were spent, that is, I couldn't even take out 2,000 yuan. Soon after getting married, my daughter-in-law suffered from acute appendicitis, went to the emergency department at night, and then had surgery, which cost more than 10,000 yuan, all of which I paid.
A year later, the daughter-in-law was pregnant and was about to give birth, because she borrowed some money from relatives and friends because of her marriage, and the money she earned this year was basically repaid, and she didn't have much money, but she still paid a deposit of 5,000 yuan, and the child was born with jaundice and needed to be hospitalized, and she urgently needed to pay a deposit of 5,000 yuan, and she really had no money, so she told her that she could not put the money on the first place, count me as borrowing, and pay her back in two or three months (when she got married, her daughter-in-law was 29 years old, she had worked for seven or eight years, and her father-in-law gave 100,000 yuan to marry, all of which were in her, and she had not paid for the big expenses of marriage, and the woman's banquet money was all from my family), and the daughter-in-law said that she had no money, you figure it out yourself.
This is the time when I was most devastated, I always felt that husband and wife should rely on each other after marriage, but the truth gave me a resounding slap in the face, I borrowed 5,000 yuan from a friend and handed over the deposit. It also made me understand a truth, maybe the other party didn't fancy himself, but he met the basic conditions of the other party, he had a car and a house, his income was okay, and his life was almost the same.
I advise those men and women who are not married, not two people who love each other, don't get married, there is nothing bad about living by yourself, it is really awkward for two people who do not love each other after marriage.
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