Since Wang Xiaofei publicly proposed to Ma Xiaomei, the couple has fallen into endless speculation, some people say that the reason why Ma Xiaomei can take the place of Big S so easily is because she is pregnant with a child, and now Wang Xiaofei insists on marrying Ma Xiaomei, also out of a responsibility to the child.
In the face of such accusations and speculations, Zhang Lan finally couldn't help but respond in the live broadcast, she said that you can't have children for the sake of having children, and a marriage should be built on the basis of both parties being prepared, rather than simple emotional needs.
It can be said that from Zhang Lan's statement, we see a very assertive and empathetic elder, she will not ask her children to fulfill some wishes for herself because of her selfishness, but hopes that her children can think more and precipitate on the issue of marriage, completely get out of the previous relationship, and then start a new marriage.
A good mother-in-law is not simply tolerant and empathetic
When we talk about a good mother-in-law, many people will feel that a good mother-in-law is the kind of person who is very tolerant and understanding, whether it is for her daughter-in-law or son, she can give the greatest support and understanding.
However, if this is the case, we are not really a good mother-in-law, because in the major matter of marriage, a good mother-in-law should be able to give very clear suggestions and opinions, and these suggestions and opinions are not for their own selfishness, but to hope that their sons and daughters-in-law can have a better marriage and family.
Zhang Lan is such a good mother-in-law, although she did not ask her son to get married and have children in front of her, but in the live broadcast, she used her own personal experience to give very pertinent marriage advice, she believes that after the divorce, you should deeply reflect and precipitate your heart, and you must wait until you really break away from the previous relationship before starting a new marriage.
Such a suggestion is undoubtedly very enlightening for Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei, and it also makes them treat their marriage issues more rationally, and will not be swayed by the pressure and speculation of the outside world, but will only choose to complete the marriage at the right time, for each other, and for the common future.
The choice of a daughter-in-law is closely related to the upbringing of a good mother-in-law
Some people say that a person's character and personality are largely related to the upbringing of the family, if a person, in the process of growing up, can get a good family education, then whether it is a person or dealing with emotional problems, will be very decent and rational.
For Wang Xiaofei, it is undoubtedly the greatest affirmation and encouragement, and it also makes him more aware that kindness and compassion are not simply personal qualities, but need to be practiced and passed on to the people around him in daily life through various ways and behaviors.
Therefore, when choosing a daughter-in-law, Wang Xiaofei can also have a high vision, he will pay more attention to the inner quality and personality charm of the other party, instead of being confused by appearance and materialism, he will understand that only with a person who knows how to empathize and has compassion can he have a truly happy marriage.
Marriage needs to be truly understood and tolerated
Some people say that marriage is like a cup of tea, no matter how bitter and sour, only by knowing how to taste and tolerate can we experience its truest taste and gain the most profound life experience in marriage.
Ma Xiaomei and Wang Xiaofei undoubtedly need to have such tolerance and understanding, especially in the midst of various speculations and criticisms from the outside world, they need to understand that only the trust and tolerance of both parties can make each other's feelings more firm and long-lasting.
Now, they have decided to get married within the year, which means that they will enter the palace of marriage, start a new stage of life, and have their own families and responsibilities.
After this, Ma Xiaomei will take action, she may carry out the problem of pregnancy and childbirth earlier, and all this is undoubtedly what Zhang Lan is looking forward to, because this is the real meaning of marriage, worthy of her heart, and willing to take on all kinds of responsibilities.
I hope that they can always maintain their understanding and tolerance for each other on the road of marriage, no matter what difficulties and challenges they encounter, they can face them bravely, support each other, and move forward together forever.
Speaking of which, the editor believes that the so-called good mother-in-law is not simply tolerant and empathetic, she should be a person who can give very pertinent suggestions and opinions, and also know how to empathize, and can play a very positive guiding role in the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law.
Behind a good mother-in-law, she is often inseparable from a good family upbringing, she will raise a son who knows how to tolerate and understand, and because of this, she will see that the other half of her son chooses has the same excellent qualities.
I hope that under the guidance of her mother-in-law Zhang Lan, Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei, the two newcomers who are about to enter marriage, can have a clearer and more rational concept of marriage, and bravely face what they want in their hearts, whether it is pregnancy and childbirth, or other choices, they can go with the flow and be worthy of their hearts.
At the same time, I also expect them to truly understand and tolerate in marriage, bravely pursue happiness, support each other, and walk through every wonderful moment of life together.