I have worked for 9 years, and every time I pay my salary, I pay my family, and suddenly I don't want to give it selfishly! Netizens are in a hurry

A netizen said that she has been working for nine years, and every time she pays her salary, she will send money to her family, in previous years, she built a house, and now she is buying a car, but this year she suddenly has selfish intentions and doesn't want to give it, is there anything wrong with doing so?

Seeing this question, netizens were anxious and hurriedly gave her ideas.

If the family understands your contribution and will not blindly ask for it, this is fine; If they just ask for it and don't care how you're doing, that's bad.

It's better to keep the salary yourself, and then give it where you need it.

I'm afraid that some families have younger siblings and will use all their wages to help them.

Think about yourself too.

My friend sends money to the family every month, and she also has a younger brother, but her parents used the money to buy a car and a house for her brother, and when she got married, her parents were kind of funny.

It's so heart-wrenching.

It's sad to meet such parents.

Not all parents are like yours.

Save it for yourself first, and then consider whether to give it if necessary.

My heart is cold [petrified]

Why is this like this, it's my own daughter.

They don't care at all if they are doing well outside, they only care about whether they take the money back.

Once they don't give it, they will scold it badly.

It's better to keep it for yourself in case you need it.

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